# Pittsburgh Lesbian Correspondents

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- [Get ready for Birthday Thursday when I turn 56!](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/10/get-ready-for-birthday-thursday-when-i-turn-56/): It's Birthday Thursday! Sue turns 56 this week She’s a hardcore Gen Xer building a new life on a tight budget due to her disability and divorce. She knows how to MacGyver her way through a tough spot, but she shouldn't have to thrive on pure grit alone. Can you drop a quick $5 or
- ['Your gonna get dead' and other problematic comments people send my way](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/10/your-gonna-get-dead-and-other-problematic-comments-people-send-my-way/): Content Note: racism, ableism, sexism, anti-LGBTQ, calls for violence, Tonight someone, probably afraid, lashed out at me over a conversation about ballots. They said "Be part of the solution, not the problem." I was pointing out that the emperor (not him) is most decidedly not wearing new clothes. That's a necessary step for a solution
- [Someone took down my Protect Trans Kids yard sign](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/10/someone-took-down-my-protect-trans-kids-yard-sign/): View this post on Instagram A post shared by Sue Kerr (@pghlesbian)
- [Western Pennsylvania Voters to Rally at 21+ 'No Kings' Events](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/10/western-pennsylvania-voters-to-rally-at-19-no-kings-events/): This weekend, Saturday October 17, Americans return to the streets in a show of grassroots resistance known as No Kings events. For over a year, millions of people have come together to send a clear message: in America, we have no kings. Power does not belong to billionaires, strongmen, or politicians who believe they are
- [A trans man was shot to death by his in-laws](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/10/a-trans-man-was-shot-to-death-by-his-in-laws/): Jonathan McKinsey was shot to death in the parking lot of a sports complex in Dublin, east of San Francisco on October 26, 2026. Jonathan was a trans man. The Crime Jonathan was pronounced dead at the scene after being found by a Dublin Police Service (DPS) sergeant with multiple gunshot wounds in the middle
- [Caturday Thoughts About Impact of Divorce on Their Lives](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/10/caturday-thoughts-about-impact-of-divorce-on-their-lives/): This Caturday I am sad. My pending divorce means our cats will be divided like property. Which cats remain with which human depends on multiple factors - bonds, capacity, preference, etc. We can't explain to them why we are tearing their cat family apart. I may not see some of my cats ever again, a
- [LGBTQ Blogger Might be Homeless for the Holidays](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/10/lgbtq-blogger-might-be-homeless-for-the-holidays/): Divorce means I will be homeless. Divorce is happening, just a matter of how long it takes for the judge to sign the decree. 30-60 days later, I have to walk out the front door and go ... where? There is nowhere for me to go. No program, no housing community, no shelter. There is
- [Racism in Pittsburgh's Drag Culture](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/10/racism-in-pittsburghs-drag-culture/): A few weeks ago, a popular Pittsburgh queer bar, The Blue Moon, hosted a regular event, an open-stage drag show. Controversy erupted after an artist in blackface performed their number - allegedly a tribute to a Tim Curry movie character - without interruption. They completed their number and left the stage. Excepts from their performance
- [Mal MacKenzie Explores the Wicked Queerness of AI:  A Seven (+1) With Sue Q&A](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/10/mal-mackenzie-explores-the-wicked-queerness-of-ai-a-seven-1-with-sue-qa/): Kelly-Strayhorn Theater is producing an interesting show this weekend as part of their Freshworks creative residency. A mother creates an AI chatbot of the daughter she’s lost to help her mourn. But her child is very much alive, and he goes by Dustin. Now spending more time talking to a version of her child who
- [How a Phallic Pumpkin Pie Blizzard Honors My Best Friend](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/09/how-a-phallic-pumpkin-pie-blizzard-honors-my-best-friend/): View this post on Instagram A post shared by Sue Kerr (@pghlesbian)
- [Part One: This Soon-to-be Gay Divorcée Watches Movies About Divorce](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/09/part-one-this-soon-to-be-gay-divorcee-watches-movies-about-divorce/): I've been exploring some of the precode movies related to divorce to distract my mind. Perhaps that seems odd. Some of my friends have asked if they can reach out to shore up some help for me, mainly lodging. Having been unexpectedly homeless for 196 days in 2023, I know that's a big lift. Nobody
- [My new tattoo honors 40 cats and dogs I've loved over 50 years](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/09/my-new-tattoo-honors-40-cats-and-dogs-ive-loved-over-50-years/): My first tattoo appeared in December - a tattoo of my blog logo. It is locate don the inside of my right forearm near my elbow. It faces me to remind me of something I've accomplished - a way that I've contributed. Also, it reminds me that I love this work. The inkling for another
- [Update on my blog and social media accounts after the divorce](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/09/update-on-my-blog-and-social-media-accounts-after-the-divorce/): I’ve written about the potential harm on my housing and healthcare. What about the blog? This blog has 21+ years of archival content of LGBTQ+ experiences in this region. I had a plan for preservation. With grant funding, I hoped to contract with a queer archivist, a graphic designer, and a web designer to prepare […]
- [How to be a Gay Divorceé?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/09/how-to-be-a-gay-divorcee/): I've always been slightly haunted by a 1952 novel Excellent Women. The main character is a modest, unassuming woman in post-WWII London. She's an excellent woman, always on hand to help with all the church stuff. She has a modest little life, unrequited love, and all these expectations heaped on her as the nation recovers
- [Update on my healthcare and health insurance options after the divorce](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/09/update-on-my-healthcare-and-health-insurance-options-after-the-divorce/): Last week I wrote about my housing situation – it is quite grim. Let me summarize – I won’t be able to afford private housing, not even a room to let. I won’t be eligible for ‘programs’ that makes up the public safety net. No one has offered me a spare bedroom or even a […]
- [Is there such a thing as divorce equality?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/09/is-there-such-a-thing-as-divorce-equality/): Going through a #divorce is just hard. I'm so focused on how I'll manage housing, healthcare, basic needs ... I don't have time to process my feelings. Breaking things down via blog posts helps. Poking gentle fun at myself helps. So I'm assuming the persona of a #gaydivorcée to get me through. Over the weekend,
- [First a tattoo, now a divorce hair cut](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/09/first-a-tattoo-now-a-divorce-hair-cut/): Big transitions can be frightening and overwhelming. I'm not trying to reinvent myself, just find my true self. Like many folx, I had plans to do interesting things, like tattoos. I waited and waited - 30, 40, 45, 50 - okay 50 was during the pandemic - so at age 55 I got my first
- [Pennsylvania trans and queer organizations respond to UPMC agreement permanently denying gender affirming care to youth](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/09/pennsylvania-trans-and-queer-organizations-respond-to-upmc-agreement-permanently-denying-gender-affirming-care-to-youth/): UPMC made a decision last week that will traumatize the regional trans and queer communities for decades. I've considered how and what to write about it, but words escaped me. So I am sharing the public statements from assorted LGBTQ+ organizations. I will update as more statements emerge. From Qburgh UPMC stopped providing gender-affirming medical
- [A Tale of Remote Control](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/05/a-tale-of-remote-control/): Everyone reading this post has experienced the search for a missing remote control. Usually this happens just as your programs comes on the air OR when you really really need to mute the sound. We toss sofa cushions, peer under coffee tables, and try to retrace our steps. Finally, we just use the control buttons
- [Updated! Pittsburgh Live Theater In the Fall of 2026](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/09/pittsburgh-live-theater-in-the-fall-of-2026/): We've added three new theater companies and eight new productions. New to us, not new to the community. Tis the season - live theater ramps up options for the fall months of 2026. I enjoy this post because it gives me a chance to put certain show on my own calendar. That's truth. It also
- [Now We Bring Back the Political Q&A for the Midterms](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/09/now-we-bring-back-the-political-qa-for-the-midterms/): After a decade, I opted not to publish this series in the primary races. The perpetual indignities and disrespect disgusted me. But ... it is feature a lot of people asked about this year. So I'm back with a smaller, sleeker General Election Q&A. Who can participate? Anyone running for elected office in Pennsylvania. Any
- [Two Black Trans Women Shot to Death in Baltimore Just Ten Weeks Apart. Sophie Lee is the Most Recent Victim.](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/09/two-black-trans-women-shot-to-death-in-baltimore-just-ten-weeks-apart-sophie-lee-is-the-most-recent-victim/): On Friday, September 11, 2026, a 27 year old Black trans woman was found dying from multiple gunshot wounds in the Charles Village neighborhood of Baltimore. Her name was Sophie Lee. The Crime According to WBALTV, officers responded to a call at 1:16 a.m. and found the victim in the area of North Calvert Street
- [Update on my housing options after the divorce](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/09/update-on-my-housing-options-after-the-divorce/): So the divorce trial approaches. That's hard. It is even harder to think about what comes next. Appeals. Will I be able to fund them? Will I have a place to live that's safe and secure? Am I going to have any agency in my life again? Today marks three years since I launched my
- [Giving Your Extra Pet Stuff Saves Lives, Helps Families #GivingTuesday](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/12/giving-your-extra-pet-stuff-saves-lives-helps-families-givingtuesday/): Ok, so more the spirit of #GivingTuesday Carl and Billie Bean live in separate households, four or five blocks apart here in Manchester on Pittsburgh's Northside. They are both cats, both female, and both went missing from their homes. We jumped into action when we learned about Carl, lending a heated bed, a trail camera,
- [40 Tote Bags for my 40th Birthday](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2010/09/40-tote-bags-for-my-40th-birthday/): October 22 marks my 40th birthday. Some people celebrate with a tattoo, a new outfit, or an adventurous vacation. I'm focused on red velvet cake and tote bags. What? Yes, I'm hoping my friends, readers and do-gooders of all stripes will help me collect 40 tote bags that I can pass along to the food
- [Collect Tote Bags to Help Hungry Neighbors and Win Awesome Prizes (Like Penguins Tickets)](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2011/12/collect-tote-bags-to-help-hunger-neighbors-and-win-awesome-prizes-like-penguins-tickets/): Hunger, as you probably have read here in the past, is very much a part of our lives ... 1 in 7 people in Pennsylvania don't know for sure where their next meal is coming from today. Look around you. Is it someone in your office? Someone living on your street? Some of the children
- [Eco-Wedneday: Tote Bags, Baby](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2013/03/eco-wedneday-tote-bags-baby/): I've been trying to come up with some fun twist on "greening the pink" community but nothing quite works (green + pink = blah anyway.) Still, in the interest that environmental issues are LGBTQ issues, I'm trying to dedicate a little blog space to the green knowledge I've picked up over the past two years.
- [That Time Someone Gave me 5,000 Tote Bags](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2014/05/that-time-someone-gave-me-5000-tote-bags/): Mid-summer 2012, I was coordinating a project to redirect gently used tote bags to the Food Bank. We also received quite a bit of excess promotional merchandise - bags, cups, etc. This operation had no formal space other than my vehicle and occasionally my living room. We quite literally sorted and counted on the street,
- [Your Gently Used Items Helped These Five Northside Cats](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/12/your-gently-used-items-helped-these-five-northside-cats/): Carl and Billie Bean live in separate households, four or five blocks apart here in Manchester on Pittsburgh’s Northside. They are both cats, both female, and both went missing from their homes. We jumped into action when we learned about Carl, lending a heated bed, a trail camera, and related items to Carl’s human. I
- [UPDATED: Donate To Send North Side Youth on a Snow Tubing Trip](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2015/01/donate-to-send-north-side-youth-on-a-snow-tubing-trip/): UPDATE - in 36 hours, we've reached 41% of our goal ($500). Please help us cross the finish line so the kids hear the good news on Monday. Jefferson Recreation Center is a North Side based community recreation center serving youth of all ages. They are hoping to take 13-15 young members (ages 8-18)
- [A Friend of Mine Lost Her 35 Year Old Son This Week, Please Help With Final Expenses](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2016/12/a-friend-of-mine-lost-her-35-year-old-son-this-week-please-help-with-final-expenses/): Randi tearfully told me about her fear that he was alone when he died. That's a terrible heartache for her. No platitude can help, but we can show Randi that she is not alone now by helping her with this task of making final arrangements.
- [When Helpers Need Help: Reflection on Life As An Activist](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2014/01/when-helpers-need-help-reflection-on-life-as-an-activist/): Cathy is 61 years old. Her professional career has spanned nearly four decades in a rural community just outside of Pittsburgh. As she faces her final days with a diagnosis of end stage pancreatic cancer, she finds herself without the financial means to pay for her final expenses - a funeral, gravesite and a headstone.
- [Help ReRamp the Northside Food Pantry](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2015/06/help-reramp-the-northside-food-pantry/): A few months ago, my friends at Northside Common Ministries contacted me and asked me to help them with a very specific task - creating a crowdfunding drive to renovate the food pantry. I was honored to help and put together a project called #ReRampPgh - what I thought was a clever play on renovating
- [Charlotte was a Northside community cat. A pet food pantry, TNR, and a devoted caretaker made her life better at the end.](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/11/charlotte-was-a-northside-community-cat-a-pet-food-pantry-tnr-and-a-devoted-caretaker-made-her-life-better-at-the-end/): I held Charlotte in my arms yesterday as she was euthanized because of a massive tumor in her chest. For the past thee years, she's lived in the Mexican War Streets, being fed by a 75 year old caretaker with a fixed income. Charlotte was trapped, spayed, and released. She showed no interest in human
- [Update on Lawsuits, My Realistic Fears of Being Homeless, Need to Raise $625 Soon](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/11/update-on-lawsuits-my-realistic-fears-of-being-homeless-need-to-raise-625-soon/): Thank you for your donations. You have made it possible for me to get this far. Scroll down for a current ask I have, but first I want to talk about the possibility of my being homeless. On Wednesday, we had another conciliation hearing. The outcome is that the cases go back to the Family
- [My Legal and Living Expenses Crowdfund Reaches the Halfway Mark](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/11/my-legal-and-living-expenses-crowdfund-reaches-the-halfway-mark/): Today, my GoFundMe reached the halfway mark - $20,000. Obviously, that means the goal is $40,000. For now. It means a great deal to me that you continue to support me, to help with legal and living expenses. Life is really hard right now, but I do find moments of joy and satisfaction. My friends
- [The Thanksgiving Cats Who Need Your Help](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/11/the-thanksgiving-cats-who-need-your-help/): It has been quite a week. Our little colony of Fort Faulsey has five resident cats: Pretty Girl, Tony DiMera, Mx. Pajamas, Callie, and Oksana. I've ben caring for them since December 2020. All have been (or were) TNRd. They have a pretty good life - heated shelters, heated water bowl, decent food, clean water,
- [Update on the Thanksgiving Kitties Needing Help](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/12/update-on-the-thanksgiving-kitties-needing-help/): The good news is that while both are sick, both are okay and stable. The bill was $996.79. Oksana has stomatitis and will need a dental. But he tested clear of FIV and FeLV so that's great. His vitals are good, we confirmed (finally) that he's male, and scheduled his dental for Monday, December 22.
- [This blog and our LGBTQ+ nonprofit are being silenced on social media and PayPal](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/12/this-blog-and-our-lgbtq-nonprofit-are-being-silenced-on-social-media-and-paypal/): I am aghast to report that Pittsburgh LGBTQ Charities fundraising tools on GoFundMe, Facebook/Instagram/Meta, and PayPal have all been choked. We don't know why. We simply received notifications after they paused our accounts. GoFundMe and Meta use PayPal Charities to distribute donations. I completed the paperwork they sent to me, asked for clarification, and received
- [How "recent government regulations" paused fundraising for a local LGBTQ nonprofit](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/12/how-recent-government-regulations-paused-fundraising-for-a-local-lgbtq-nonprofit/): We've been through an ordeal with our crowdfunding platforms. The reason given? "Due to recent government regulations, your account was more than likely restricted as a precautionary measure." What recent government regulations do you know about that would be tied to our small nonprofit? The cats? The clothing drive? Hmmm. Note that we do not
- [Someone stole winter items from a local pet food pantry. Now community help is needed to replace them](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/12/someone-stole-winter-items-from-a-local-pet-food-pantry-now-community-help-is-needed-to-replace-them/): This is a disappointing update to share - some unknown person has stolen several items from the Dr. John P. Ruffing VMD Pet Food Pantry. Heated outdoor items critical for feral and homeless cats. We've had items donated that were assigned to our participants and caretakers. They were labeled and then they disappeared. No food
- [Pet Food Pantry, Allegheny City Brewery Host Winter Cat Shelter Community Service Event](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/01/pet-food-pantry-allegheny-city-brewery-host-winter-cat-shelter-community-service-event/): Why winter shelters? Winter shelters are vital for community cats. A safe warm place to get out of the elements is a fundamental tool to manage a cat colony. A simple version made from a sturdy Styrofoam cooler, a contractor bag, tape, then stuffed with straw (not hay) is quite effective. Our focus is on
- [Multiple Items Stolen Temporarily Shuts Down Local Pet Food Pantry](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/01/multiple-items-stolen-temporarily-shuts-down-local-pet-food-pantry/): This project has operated for over a year without much incident. The few mishaps we had with pet distributions were miscommunication. People were helpful to each other, careful when they had to move bags around, quick to alert us of issues like a bag breaking open. Sadly in the past six weeks, we've had at
- [Successful winter cat shelter workshop builds community while helping caretakers](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/01/successful-winter-cat-shelter-workshop-builds-community-while-helping-caretakers/): We had great time yesterday at the Betty White's Birthday Winter Cat Shelter Workshop, Over 20 neighbors got together at Allegheny City Brewing on the Northside. Owner Amy donated the space and provided complimentary beverages. Nearby Bistro-to-Go sent coffee (January weather) and cheesecake bites (Betty White reference.) The good news outcome - we collectively made
- [You gave me strength to stand alone again. To face the world out of my own again](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/01/you-gave-me-strength-to-stand-alone-again-to-face-the-world-out-of-my-own-again/): This weekend, a friend gifted me with a new laptop. They bought it for me when my previous laptop died. I've been using the previous-previous laptop to that one, but it is a hot mess after years of churning out blog posts and social media content. It still works well enough compared to the one
- [Her Name was Charlie: the Kitten Who Died Suddenly](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/02/her-name-was-charlie-the-kitten-who-died-suddenly/): We are not a rescue, but we still end up with random cats that we try to help. Carl was adopted by a volunteer. Archimedes was adopted by other volunteers and a board member. Peyton was adopted by Marie. We have one kitten we are fostering (sort of) for a bit to help someone out.
- [24 People Donated Over $1800 to my Crowdfund This Week](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/02/24-people-donated-over-1800-to-my-crowdfund-this-week/): Over the past four days, you've donated $1800 to my legal and living expenses fund. That's just ... wow. I set a stretch goal to raise $3,000 for the current round of legal expenses plus some unexpected living expenses, including a trip to an oral surgeon. Even with insurance, that's harsh. I asked folx to
- [Mayday, mayday, mayday. We need pet food, whistle kit makers.](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/04/mayday-mayday-mayday-we-need-pet-food-whistle-kit-makers/): This is actually quite urgent so please read. During the month of April, 30 new households registered with the Dr. John P. Ruffing VMD Pet Food Pantry. We also forged a partnership with the food bistro in Homewood to provide pet food for 12 of their families. Last night, I learned that two other food
- [Our pet food pantry is so much busier now, we really need your help](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/05/our-pet-food-pantry-is-so-much-busier-now-we-really-need-your-help/): This past weekend was our first delivery to seven local food distros. We sent five small bags of dry cat food and five small bags of dry dog food to each disto - 70 bags total. Based on preliminary feedback, Braddock will need an additional 10 bags each month. Each distro is collecting information on
- [Perchance, Manchester house is the solution to my problems?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/05/perchance-manchester-house-is-the-solution-to-my-problems/): There's a house on my block that was recently renovated, not restored. It has been on and off the market. The current asking price is $284,000. The house is 1300 square feet with 3 bedrooms, 2 bathrooms, and an office. Plus living room and kitchen. I could store the entire pet food pantry in one
- [Being poor is a lot of work. And the pay isn't that great ….](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/06/being-poor-is-a-lot-of-work-and-the-pay-isnt-that-great/): Yesterday, I gave some thought to legal and living expenses. It seems the reasons I set it up, the intentions behind your gifts, and the expenses I covered should be a source of shame for me. There's no shame in asking for help. No shame in accepting help. No lack of transparency - I'm an
- [Do You Want My First Work of FanFiction?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/09/do-you-want-my-first-work-of-fanfiction/): Something I've missed quite a bit from married/partnered life are the special ways we acknowledged holidays, big and small. These are small rituals that carved out a space that was just for us in the midst of family chaos, community chaos, and general chaos. One tradition was having sushi on holiday 'eves' - Thanksgiving, Christmas,
- [Four Trans Neighbors Have Died Over the Past Year](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/09/four-trans-neighbors-have-died-over-the-past-year/): There are four trans neighbors from here in Pennsylvania who died over the past twelve months, three deaths by suicide and one death by overdose. Let's take some time to honor their lives and acknowledge their deaths. Acknowledging there are likely others whose deaths are not yet known to us. Please feel free to contact
- [Coping with a life invasion stalker.](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/09/coping-with-a-life-invasion-stalker/): It takes a certain degree of cruelty to kick someone when they are down. Not a tentative poke with the tip of your shoe. Not even a big, powerful kick to the abdomen that hurts, but is soon over. Rather a series of small to medium kicks, similar to the thud of a bored child
- [Pennsylvania's LGBTQ+ Business Climate Index: Mediocrity is not a good look, but it could be worse](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/09/pennsylvanias-lgbtq-business-climate-index-mediocrity-is-not-a-good-look-but-it-could-be-worse/): In June 2026, OUT Leadership released a State LGBTQ+ Business Climate Index. Pennsylvania ranked 21 out of 50. The rankings were made based on several factors, from laws related to bathroom access to restrictions on drag performances to state leadership scores and shield laws. This is deplorable, but not really surprising. Before I jump into
- [Today, I Accomplished All of These Things](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/09/today-i-accomplished-all-of-these-things/): Today, I Washed two loads of laundry Dumped/refilled three litter boxes Disassembled and cleaned the pedestal fan in my room Therapy Drafted two blog posts Kept everyone alive One hour phone conversation Two hours working on pet food pantry biz Did not drink enough water Remembered to use new moisturizer for five days straight Caught
- [Is hate on the rise? 18 incidents of anti-LGBTQ violence over the past months](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/09/is-hate-on-the-rise-18-incidents-of-anti-lgbtq-violence-over-the-past-months/): I was reviewing news reports of recent violent crimes targeting the LGBTQ+ community. In a matter of keystrokes, I found 18 incidents around the world - from Arizona to North Carolina to Indonesia. I am positive I missed many, especially outside of the US. I hung my head for a minute trying to process the
- [I need $400 to reach current mini-fundraising goal](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/08/i-need-400-to-reach-current-mini-fundraising-goal/): Another update - $250 to reach the goal! UPDATE - now just $300 to go thanks to Amy! While I still need help with my general Legal and Living Expenses Crowdfund, I have a mini-goal. Essentially, I need $560 to pay for a mobile video kit and to be Meta verified by Facebook and Instagram.
- [How I Spent My Summer Day](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/08/how-i-spent-my-summer-day/): First off, I realized I wrote a blog post about August 26 on August 26, but referenced August 27. It doesn't change the tone or tempo of the post. A little embarrassing, but let's try to look at it as a symptom of the trauma . OR a sign the trauma isn't as bad as
- [The three worst August 27s of my life](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/08/the-three-worst-august-27s-of-my-life/): Today, August 27, marks three of the worst days of my life. August 1992 In August 1992, I had just moved to Baton Rouge, Louisiana for graduate school. A Hurricane named Andrew was coming our way. I was terrified. My roommate, a lifelong Louisiana resident, left me to go to her sister's apartment, saying there
- [She Was One of Best People I've Ever Known](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2024/01/she-was-one-of-best-people-ive-ever-known/): I recently learned that a member of my extended family died in mid-September. This post could dovetail into all the reasons why you should share this type of information regardless of circumstances (unless it causes harm.) But instead I want to tell you about the reasons I loved her. If you are into genealogy, you
- [Here Are 13 Things I Have Learned During My Separation](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2024/01/here-are-13-things-i-have-learned-during-my-separation/): Obviously, a time of separation gives you reasons to reflect on your life and relationship. Not all lessons are about the relationship itself. Some are useful in other situations. All have come with a lot of sadness, pain, and struggle. But good things, too. Some of you are on the run, to escape a real
- [This is How Your Benevolence Keeps Us In Business](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2024/01/this-is-how-your-benevolence-keeps-us-in-business/): It has been a challenging six months for the blog and this blogger. We just started our 19th year of blogging in December. We were honored for that milestone by the Pennsylvania State Senate and the Pittsburgh City Council. Also, we were nominated again in the Oustanding Blog category of the GLAAD Media Awards. And
- [Now The Judge Said That I Can Be Inside My Home like Guard Dog](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2023/12/now-the-judge-said-that-i-can-be-inside-my-home-like-guard-dog/): I've been following the comic strip Mutts. The creator has decided to set free Guard Dog, a supporting character who has been chained out back by his owners since 1995. It's a heart wrenching story. His owners moved away and left him chained alone in the backyard. He withered. Earl and Mooch found him, got
- [The End of My Year 2023 By the Numbers](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2023/12/the-end-of-my-year-2023-by-the-numbers/): It has been 127 days since I was involuntarily removed from my home of 18+ years - in handcuffs under false pretext using an invalid warrant. That's one third of 2023. One entire third of my year. Gone. Every single one of those day, I have focused on two things: recovering from the traumas and
- [I'm an Angry Voter This Year and Here's Why](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2023/11/im-an-angry-voter-this-year-and-heres-why/): People are often surprised that I'm not a super voter or someone who has voted in every election. I struggle with the privilege of claiming that one must vote to have a voice in democracy. Show up or shut up is hardly a democratic ideal. It can, in fact, lead people to feel more alienated
- [How to Save This Blog: Support This Blog](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2023/11/how-to-save-this-blog-support-this-blog/): Recent events have made it clear that this 18 year old blog could be in peril. That would mean the loss of thousands of blog posts chronicling LGBTQ narratives from Pittsburgh, Western PA, and beyond. This includes over 300 stories in the #AMPLIFY project, 350 memorial posts honoring our trans neighbors, and hundreds of posts
- [How Discovering My Superpowers Gave Me True Courage](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2023/11/how-discovering-my-superpowers-gave-me-true-courage/): I've been watching a lot of superhero/fantasy tv with my nephew, leading me to consider my preferred superpowers. Yes, superpowers. I have two well-worn responses to that query. First, I have excellent peripheral vision because my eyes protrude, known as exothalmia. One of those eyes is lazy and wasn't properly treated in childhood so I
- [Please Donate Gently Used Items For This Lesbian Blogger](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2023/10/please-donate-gently-used-items-for-this-lesbian-blogger/): Hey friends, I am still struggling to obtain items for cold weather. It is a lot of extra work to get my own things. If you have any of these items in gently used condition please let me know. ~ Sue A few long sleeve tee shirts, crew neck, basic colors, sizes XL/1X
- [And Then You Came For Me With Help and Support and Love](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2023/09/and-then-you-came-for-me-with-help-and-support-and-love/): Content Note: mental health, childhood abuse, police encounter, 302 or civil commitment, anti-trans actions, support Thank you for showing up for me during a really tough time. How Your Support is Keeping Me Safe With your help, I was able to pay the retainer for a great lawyer who has been helpful, kind, and pragmatic.
- [You Can Support Both People Without Taking Sides](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2023/09/you-can-support-both-people-without-taking-sides/): You can choose to support both of us. I realize it seems like 'taking sides' or 'picking a team' when couple friends are in conflict. But that's not the case. Loving and supporting both of us as individuals does not have to be a source of conflict for you. Setting boundaries is important, but that
- [Crowdfund and Life Update](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2023/09/crowdfund-and-life-update/): I'm still doing okay - safe with friends and taking things one day at a time. I went back to court last week, negotiated and agreed to a continuance, and took a break. Spent a lot of time with my nephews this weekend. We had a firepit fire and made s'mores. Celebrated a birthday and
- [I Miss My Cats and I Want To Go Home](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2023/09/i-miss-my-cats-and-i-want-to-go-home/): It has almost been over a month since I was dislodged from my home of 18 years. Read more: https://gofund.me/71a28a80 Friends came to my rescue in many ways. I am safe, well-fed, comforted, and supported. But I haven't seen any of my cats since August 27. I don't know if they are okay or if
- [What Is The Key to Getting Myself Home Again?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2023/09/what-is-the-key-to-getting-myself-home-again/): After five weeks have passed, I'm thinking a little more down the road including finding the key to go back home. So many of my rights and liberties were taken from me or violated that I am determined to lean into every right I can, cling tightly, and keep my eyes wide open for other
- [Three years ago, Roxane Gay was my last minute accomplice.](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/08/three-years-ago-roxane-gay-was-my-last-minute-accomplice/): Content Note: involuntary civil commitment, police, trauma, mental health system, domestic violence “Books are often far more than just books.”― Roxane Gay, Bad Feminist: Essays When the police came to handcuff me and drag me from my home on August 27, 2023 - to execute what I still believe was an invalid civil warrant for involuntary commitment
- [Kindness is more than money](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/08/kindness-is-more-than-money/): Time is ticking away until the trial. A lot is happening behind the scenes, both mundane and intriguing. I have a specific request - two tools to help my blog be more sustainable and thus less likely to be a casualty of this situation. I need two things * 'kit' of simple equipment to make videos
- [Video: Back to School with Pittsburgh Air](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/08/video-back-to-school-with-pittsburgh-air/): View this post on Instagram A post shared by Sue Kerr (@pghlesbian) This past week, I created a little reel about going back to school shopping in Pittsburgh. It sort of went south as a bunch of sad memories spewed from my mouth. So I tried again and this time the memory is lovely. It
- [Review: 'Cookie Queens' documentary unboxes unique experience of Girl Scout cookie sales](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/08/review-cookie-queens-documentary-unboxes-unique-experience-of-girl-scout-cookie-sales/): Who wouldn't love a documentary about earnest young women plying their neighbors with everyone's favorite treat - the Girl Scout cookie? They are cute, the cookies are cute, the people who buy are supporting wholesome values, and the meanies who don't buy are just mean. This documentary has very little of that treacle. Instead, it
- [Dems flipped State Rep Daryl Metcalfe's seat three years after he retired, ending his 24 year anti-LGBTQ reign of terror.](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/08/dems-flipped-state-rep-daryl-metcalfes-seat-three-years-after-he-retired-ending-his-24-year-anti-lgbtq-reign-of-terror/): This blogger is savoring a moment of simple satisfaction On Tuesday, Butler County residents voted in a Special Election to fill the vacancy of PA House District 12. Democrat Brandon Dukes defeated the Republican nominee by fewer than 100 votes. One of the most overt homophobic and transphobic legislators in modern Pennsylvania history represented the 12th
- [Trans woman Juju Nadeau killed by a stranger on a hiking trail](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/08/trans-woman-juju-nadeau-killed-by-a-stranger-on-a-hiking-trail/): She loved Anthrocon and Pittsburgh where she was known as Chlugsy The Crime Maine was the scene of a recent terrible tragedy. A stranger stabbed a 21-year-old trans woman to death. It happened while she was hiking with friends. Her name was Juju Nadeau. Juju Nadeau was showing her friends a special spot along a trail
- [Losing my health insurance in a divorce might break me](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/08/losing-my-health-insurance-in-a-divorce-might-break-me/): It's Saturday night. I'm watching The Devil Wears Prada 2 while sipping cranberry juice. Exciting times. Here's my regular crowdfund update. First witness interview yesterday. It went well, but left me pondering if there is any win/win scenario. Why do either of us have to lose? #idealism The court scheduled the trial for Oct 20
- [White women should insert ourselves in the investigation of the death of a Black woman in Mississippi](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/08/white-women-should-insert-ourselves-in-the-investigation-of-the-death-of-a-black-woman-in-mississippi/): I remember reading about 16-year-old Juliana Umba Nzita, a Black teenager found hanging from a tree on May 8, 2026, in the yard of the United House of Prayer for All People on West Sugar Creek Road in north Charlotte, North Carolina. The explanation that she died by suicide felt wrong to me. I was […]
- [Republican Congressman Supported by Trump Misuses Image of Scranton Drag Artist in Attack Ad. Lady Lydia Is Fighting Back.](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/08/republican-congressman-supported-by-trump-misuses-image-of-scranton-drag-artist-in-attack-ad-lady-lydia-is-fighting-back/): This post caught my eye this morning. A political billboard in the Scranton area included an image of a drag artist - without their consent. This is the campaign team of Congressman Rob Bresnahan. He represents the District in the8th Congressional District. The district includes Wayne County, Lackawanna County, Luzerne County, Monroe County, and Pike
- [Michelle Tibble wants you to escape reality with a room full of strangers: A Seven (+1) With Sue Q&A](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/08/michelle-tibble-wants-you-to-escape-reality-with-a-room-full-of-strangers-a-seven-1-with-sue-qa/): In our reconstituted Q&A series, Seven with Sue (+1), we are exploring the local arts scene. We customize the questions for folx in various parts of the arts community. I received an email from Jeremy Mikush about an upcoming show Divas Survival Guide, happening in two fridays at the Historic Carnegie Free Library in Carnegie, in the Studio
- [Jeremy Mikush wants artists to lead in the revitalization of the city: A Seven (+1) With Sue Q&A](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/08/jeremy-mikush-wants-artists-to-lead-in-the-revitalization-of-the-city-a-seven-1-with-sue-qa/): In our reconstituted Q&A series, Seven with Sue (+1), we are exploring the local arts scene. We customize the questions for folx in various parts of the arts community. I received an email from Jeremy about an upcoming show Divas Survival Guide, happening in two fridays at the Historic Carnegie Free Library in Carnegie, in the Studio
- [Q&A with Director of the Pittsburgh Center for Disability Justice about Mutual Aid](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/08/qa-how-to-ask-people-to-support-your-crowdfund/): Recently, I asked some of the folx in my personal circle to help me with my 'Living and Legal Expenses Fund' by reaching out to individuals - their friends, family, coworkers, etc. It has been nearly three years of my asking my networks to help me with no end in sight. I've exhausted my networks.
- [The tragic death of trans woman Patti Wilson](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/08/the-tragic-death-of-trans-woman-patti-wilson/): In mid-June, police from Grand Junction, Colorado fired 11 shots while trying to apprehend a 31-year-old white trans woman named Patti Wilson. Two of those bullets struck and killed her while she was fleeing in her vehicle. At 6:30 PM, local law enforcement responded to a call from a Dairy Queen. According to witnesses, the
- [QB Aaron Rodgers joins a pantheon of NFL bullies](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/08/qb-aaron-rodgers-joins-a-pantheon-of-nfl-bullies/): In 2011, we wrote an editorial for the Pittsburgh Post-Gazette: It’s time for the Steelers and other pro sports teams to confront the homophobia in their ranks. James Harrison provoked us. So we pivoted to working with The Pirates on their It Gets Better video and eventually Pride Night, slowly losing interest and connection with […]
- [Flashback to 2022 'Protect Trans Kids' Vidoe](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/08/flashback-to-2022-protect-trans-kids-vidoe/): This video features some of the over 1100 yard signs distributed via the #ProtectTransKids projects. Music used with permission from Social Justice Disco.
- [Update from Legal and Living Expenses Appeal](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/08/update-from-legal-and-living-expenses-appeal/): Things are still chugging along - still no trial date. My team will be interviewing two witnesses next week so that's a big bit of news. And we are bringing someone else the following week. I am doing okay. Last week, someone contacted me and offered to buy me a pair of hiking boots I had
- [14 reasons why the Monroeville Library Pride book display is not the actual sexual threat to children](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/08/14-reasons-why-the-monroeville-library-pride-book-display-is-not-the-actual-sexual-threat-to-children/): Monroeville library put up a book display for Pride month. Inappropriate intervention from Monroeville Municipal Council members (think City Council without a City) let library leaders to take it down a week early. Residents voices concerns at a municipal council meeting on July 7, 2026. Members of Council defended their actions to pressure the library
- [Help Me](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/07/help-me/): For nearly three years, I’ve been appealing to you to help fund my legal and living expenses. Since events of August 2023, I’ve been totally reliant on my SSDI check of $1500. When I got myself home again after six months of homelessness, we set up a cohabitation arrangement which made it necessary for me […]
- [The tragic 2025 murder of transmasculine artist Cormac Robinson](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/07/the-tragic-2025-murder-of-transmasculine-artist-cormac-robinson/): The violent death of a 2025 trans man, Cormac Robinson, has come to light from Carrollton, Georgia. On October 2025, police conducted a welfare check on the apartment 24-year-old Cormac shared with his partner, 21-year-old Richard Gardner. Gardner has recently stopped taking medication and was uncharacteristically out of touch with friends. Upon entering the apartment, […]
- [Essay: I published 400 memorials for victims of anti-trans violence](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/07/essay-i-published-400-memorials-for-victims-of-anti-trans-violence/): Content Note: anti-trans violence, death, erasure, memorials, impact, trauma. This post contains descriptions of researching and documenting the deaths of trans neighbors. It is one person’s perspective, the perspective of a cisgender white lesbian who has been writing memorials since 2013. 400 was the number of deaths that caused me to stumble, to doubt myself, […]
- [FOUND ALIVE! UPDATED Missing Person: Transfem Embers Eve missing from Denver since July 19 and needs your help right now](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/07/missing-person-transfem-embers-eve-missing-from-denver-since-july-19-and-needs-your-help-right-now/): Please note that Embers has blue eyes. Her friends updated the missing person flyer, see below. We are going to try to regularly publish information about missing persons, focusing on the trans and queer community. The safe return of Kailynn Porter inspired us to add this content. Please note that we will use language shared […]
- [I do highly recommend you build your daily plan around your cat.](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/07/i-do-highly-recommend-you-build-your-daily-plan-around-your-cat/): Each day, I have a plan. I set some goals and make an effort to meet them, with varying results. But I revise the plan and move forward. I try not to define things as failures, simply disappointments. And I try not to think about the next day unless I must. I know people in
- [Black trans teen Jayla McGee died a violent death on July 5th in Florida. Why isn't the media covering her story?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/07/black-trans-teen-jayla-mcgee-died-a-violent-death-on-july-5th-in-florida-why-isnt-the-media-covering-her-story/): Another Black trans teen appears to have been killed, this time near Belle Glade, Florida. Belle Glade is part of Palm Beach. Her name was Jayla McGee and she was 19. Reports surfaced on Facebook and other social media platforms that a 19-year-old Black trans person had died a violent death on Sunday, July 5,
- [Air Supply in Concert Thursday in Greensburg](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/07/air-supply-in-concert-thursday-in-greensburg/): Air Supply will be in Greensburg tomorrow (Thursday) and I am not going to be there. I've seen them twice - once at the Allegheny County fair with my friend John in 2001 when we ended up in an Air Supply mosh pit at the Allegheny County Fair. The second time was June 2022 when
- [Allegheny County spokesperson Abigail Gardner hurled a suicide taunt at a local radio personality. What does that say about County government?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/07/allegheny-county-spokesperson-abigail-gardner-hurled-a-suicide-taunt-at-a-local-radio-personality-what-does-that-say-about-county-government/): Last week, the spokesperson for Allegheny County posted a reel on Instagram in which she said "today, Colin Dunlap said we're all soft, we're overreacting, our forefathers used to be outside in the smog and smoke a pack on top of it. And to that I say, You're right. Colin. You should go outside and
- [We need help! Update on latest pet food drive, whistle kits, and Protect Trans Kids projects](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/07/we-need-help-update-on-latest-pet-food-drive-whistle-kits-and-protect-trans-kids-projects/): The past few months have been a whirlwind as we've deftly moved from whistle kits to an urgent need to relocate the pantry, then came a rescue by a generous neighbor, and tried very hard to get Gertie running. In the midst of this frantic pace, our supply of pet food ran low while demand
- [My kale smoothies have paid off sayeth my latest bloodwork](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/07/my-kale-smoothies-have-paid-off-sayeth-my-latest-bloodwork/): Content Note: nutrition and health minus the judgey lecture, destigmatizing food pantries, and bloodwork Kale. Kale seems to have done the trick. Back in April, I began a daily regimen of a kale smoothie. My cholesterol readings were elevated. I had already been taking a statin, but something else was necessary. My blood pressure was
- [FOUND SAFE Black trans teen Kailynn Porter missing in Pennsylvania since July 11.](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/07/black-trans-teen-kailynn-porter-missing-in-pennsylvania-since-july-6/): UPDATE - Kailynn is back home as of Sunday, July 20, 2026. She is safe and recovering. Updated: Kailynn Porter has been missing since July 11, 2026. A 19 year old Black trans woman, Kailynn Porter, has been missing from her family home in Abington, Montgomery County, Pennsylvania since Saturday, July 11, 2026. Her family
- [2025 Death of Alabama Trans Woman Comes to Light](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/07/2025-death-of-alabama-trans-woman-comes-to-light/): A 20-year-old trans woman from Mobile, Alabama was killed in a vehicle collision in April 2025. Her name was Haley Brook Terry. According to official reports, her 2004 Ford F150 was struck by a 2005 Kenworth tractor-trailer. Her vehicle then collided with a 2018 Kenworth tractor-trailer. She died at the scene. There is little additional
- [Remember Everything](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/07/remember-everything/)
- [Five Reasons to Donate to My Living and Legal Expenses](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/07/five-reasons-to-donate-to-my-living-and-legal-expenses/): I made a longer video explaining things in detail, but then decided to tighten it up to these five reasons. I really, really need your help.
- [Now that I am an old woman, I shall eat dinner from a plate that's purple, with a red dish for bread.](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/07/now-that-i-am-an-old-woman-i-shall-eat-dinner-from-a-plate-thats-purple-with-a-red-dish-for-bread/): While chatting with a friend recently, I commented how I had always wanted Fiesta ware. Our household dishes are a mishmash of inherited partial sets that we never got around to updating. I’m pretty sure they aren’t actually safe in the microwave or dishwasher, but they’ve been fused together by time and determination. At the […]
- [Roll the stone away. It's Independence Day. #Video](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/07/roll-the-stone-away-its-independence-day-video/): Each year, I dust of this song of empowerment that resonates deeply with me. This year, I was hesitant. Martina McBride originally agreed to be part of the Trump Spectacular and then backed out after public pressure. I don't believe for a minute she didn't understand the nature of the event. The imagery of rolling
- [As the US celebrates our 250th anniversary, a 38 year old Black Trans Woman Dies By Gun Violence in Baltimore.](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/07/as-the-us-celebrates-our-250th-anniversary-a-38-year-old-black-trans-woman-dies-by-gun-violence-in-baltimore/): A 38-year-old Black trans woman was shot to death in Baltimore on June 23, 2026. Her name was Asia Williams. The Crime On June 23 around 10:49 p.m., officers were called to Mega Tobacco & Convenience, located at 5211 York Road, for a reported shooting, according to authorities. There, officers found a 38-year-old woman and a 27-year-old
- [Honoring the life of Kayonna Ankeny, a Black trans woman, shot to death in Georgia three years ago.](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/06/honoring-the-life-of-kayonna-ankeny-a-black-trans-woman-shot-to-death-in-georgia-three-years-ago/): In February 2023. the body of a Black trans woman was discovered in an abandoned building in Augusta, Georgia. While she was identified, her life and death did not come to our attention until now. Her name was Kayonna Ankeny. The Crime On Sunday, February 5, 2023, Richmond County deputies were called to vacant building
- [Reporting Live From the Fire Fly Festival in Tionesta, This is Sue Kerr](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/06/reporting-live-from-the-fire-fly-festival-in-tionesta-this-is-sue-kerr/)
- [We need to reprint Protect Trans Kids stickers, assemble Whistle Kits, and support Animal Caretakers](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/06/we-need-to-reprint-protect-trans-kids-stickers-assemble-whistle-kits-and-support-animal-caretakers/): As you may know, Pittsburgh LGBTQ Charities (PLC) has spearheaded multiple community level projects to support all of our neighbors. These include distributing Protect Trans Kids yard signs and stickers, establishing a pet food pantry for low income pet owners and cat colony caretakers, and assembling whistle kits to distribute to the community. The three
- [A 74 Year Old Gender Nonconforming Man, Ike Eickholt, Died from a Gunshot in 2025](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/06/a-74-year-old-gender-nonconforming-man-ike-eickholt-died-from-a-gunshot-in-2025/): A gender nonconforming man known as Ike was killed in Hastings, Minnesota in February 2025. The Crime From Fox 9 Eickholt was reported missing on Feb. 1, 2025, after authorities found a suspicious car fire at a Denmark Township property, with evidence that Eickholt had been injured. The next morning, Eickholt was found dead in a
- [32 Year Old Black Trans Woman La'Daijah Walters Fatally Shot In Alabama](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/06/32-year-old-black-trans-woman-ladaijah-walters-fatally-shot-in-alabama/): La'Daijah Walters was shot and killed in Mobile, Alabama The Crime WKRG reports: Mobile police have confirmed a [person] was shot and killed the morning at [of June 22] Plantation Estates apartments. According to an MPD news release, the shooting happened around 6:35 a.m. inside an apartment unit at 5725 Old Pascagoula Road. No information
- [Gertie Goes Viral on WTAE, WPXI, and the Pittsburgh Post-Gazette](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/06/gertie-goes-viral-on-wtae-wpxi-and-the-pittsburgh-post-gazette/): We are very pleased to have had media coverage of our pet food pantry (and Gertie!) during a tough time. Please take a look. Local journalism is so important.
- [Here's your Occasional Roundup of Interesting LGBTQ News, Blog, and Substack Posts](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/06/heres-your-occasional-roundup-of-interesting-lgbtq-news-blog-and-substack-posts/): I'm struggling to blog something other than pet food, personal updates, and memorials. I am glad there are no more memorial to write for now. I hope that continues. But very big things are happening in our world. Iran defeated the United States in a war. The President is just clearly not fit on even
- [After Five Years, Today I Held My Cat Spencer Cassadine for the First Time](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/06/after-five-years-today-i-held-my-cat-spencer-cassadine-for-the-first-time/): Spencer came into my life with great reluctance and a lot of fear in March 2021. I trapped him, his brother, and their mother on the Northside. His mother, Helena Cassadine, was a shy little thing who was gorgeous. Stefano DiMera is a friendly, sweet cat with a ginormous personality that belies his teeny little
- [My best friend Dr. John Ruffing died 17 years ago. His legacy is now a pet food pantry.](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2024/11/my-best-friend-dr-john-ruffing-died-17-years-ago-his-legacy-is-now-a-pet-food-pantry/): All week, I've been loading donations for The Dr. John P. Ruffing VMD Pet Food Pantry into my borrowed Land Rover Defender, dubbed St. Gertrude or Gertie. She contains multitudes of cat food. Now,there's no interior light so I bought a head lamp. I added a USB port to the cigarette light - oh yes,
- [A Black trans woman died in a Birmingham Jail](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/06/a-black-trans-woman-died-in-a-birmingham-jail/): A 32-year-old Black trans woman died while in police custody in the Birmgingham City Jail. Just two days later, a 35-year-old Black male was found dead in his cell in the same jail. No cause of death is available in either case. The Black trans woman was named Kalena "Peaches" Croskey. The crime According to
- [Year after year, I failed the Presidential Fitness Test. No one questioned why.](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/06/year-after-year-i-failed-the-presidential-fitness-test-no-one-questioned-why/): Remember the Presidential Fitness tests in school? Push ups, sit ups, some running, dangling from a bar, etc. It sucked That's how I learned I couldn't do a sit up. Not in second grade, not in sixth grade, never really. From age five onward, I felt like a sit up failure. Even when my classmates
- [2026 List of Trans Deaths Now Includes Leia Trysiss Ali, a Fa'afafine from America Samoa](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/06/2026-list-of-trans-deaths-now-includes-leia-trysiss-ali-a-faafafine-from-america-samoa/): Her name was Leia Trysiss Ali. She was 35 years old when reports of her suspicious death came to light in Las Vegas, Nevada. Little is know and/or confirmed of the circumstances of death. Honoring Leia Leia was born and raised in American Samoa, she was of of Fijian/Indian descent. She graduated from Leone High
- [Pittsburgh Pet Food Pantry Closes After Landlord Intimidates Volunteer About Housing Security - Part One and Two](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/06/pittsburgh-pet-food-pantry-closes-after-landlord-intimidates-volunteer-about-housing-security-part-one-and-two/): This has been a nightmare. The landlord of the space where we store the food for the Dr. John P. Ruffing VMD Pet Food Pantry has forced our hand. We have to remove all of our items by Wednesday, June 17. We've been storing the food in the actual second floor pantry of a volunteer's
- [Q&A with Pirates about the 2026 Pride Night at PNC Park](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/06/qa-with-pirates-about-the-2026-pride-night-at-pnc-park/): The first Pride Night at PNC Park was 22 years ago. That's time for a lot of reflection. Name: Patrick Joyal Pronouns: he/him/his Role with the Pirates: Director of External Affairs Please tell us about something not well-known involving the Pirates—something we should know about or explore, something to be proud of. One piece of Pirates
- [Marlow Trottie, 35, is the latest Black Trans woman victim of homicide](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/06/marlow-trottie-35-is-the-latest-black-trans-woman-victim-of-homicide/): A 35-year-old Black trans woman named Marlow Trottie was killed in Alexandria, Louisiana on June 8, 2026. The Crime Police are investigating a homicide in the 2400 block of Cummins Street in Alexandria, Louisiana. Officers responded to the scene around 7:30 a.m. on Monday, June 8, regarding a person who had been found deceased. An
- [Her name is unknown. She was our trans sister.](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/06/her-name-is-unknown-she-was-our-trans-sister/): We don't know her name. We don't know her age or her pronouns. Does she a family, someone who loves her? Why didn't anyone check on her? Did she like to dance? Favorite song? Did she suffer? We know she was found deceased in a home on May 21, 2026 in Charlotte, North Carolina. This
- [Did the Thin Blue Line distinguish German Police Officers from Nazis?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/06/did-the-thin-blue-line-distinguish-german-police-officers-from-nazis/): CN: Nazis, ICE, police, family stories This pops into my head quite often when we see police officers supporting ICE. They claim a fine line divides them from ICE and other immigration officers. They are there to protect the public. But that often looks like manhandling citizens protesting to keep ICE safe. Preserving public safety
- [Juniper Blessing was 19 when her life ended](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/06/juniper-blessing-was-19-when-her-life-ended/): Juniper Blessing was killed on Friday, May 8, 2026 in Seattle. She was in her off-campus apartment. According to KOMO According to the Seattle Police Department (SPD), officers were dispatched to a stabbing at the Nordheim Court Apartments in the 5000 block of 25th Ave NE around 10:10 p.m. Sunday. They found a 19-year-old woman
- [The Death of a Gay Man in Columbus](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/06/the-death-of-a-gay-man-in-columbus/): A very tragic story from Columbus where a gay man, Mark Rayburn-Velco, was stabbed to death by his 17 year old son on May 26, 2026. Mark's husband, Brent, was also attacked, but survived his injuries. Very little information on the incident has been released. The stabbing was reported on Sunday around 7 a.m. on
- [Trying Pelvic Floor Therapy to Help My Abdominal Trauma](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/06/trying-pelvic-floor-therapy-to-help-my-abdominal-trauma/): CN: child abuse, menstrual/menopausal, dog bite I cannot do a sit up. I just can't do it. This proved a challenge on the Presidential Fitness Tests in elementary school. My gym teacher, Mr Kenzel (sp?) was baffled. Year after year, I would strain and try. Classmates would support my back. I was a scrawny kid
- ["Persia Amarra Conway Was Loved" is the Message of the Family on the Death of the Black Trans Woman](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/06/persia-amarra-conway-was-loved-is-the-message-of-the-family-on-the-death-of-the-black-trans-woman/): Persia Amarra Conway, a 33 year old Black trans woman, was found deceased in a Houston bayou on May 26, 2026. Police have ruled her death a homicide. The Crime At this point, not much is known about the crime that led to her death and/or how she ended up in a bayou. We do
- [What does June bring to mind from your childhood? #PghPridePosts](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/06/what-does-june-bring-to-mind-from-your-childhood-pghprideposts/): Happy Pride and welcome to my #PghPridePosts series. Today I post a video reflecting on the month of June as a kid and an adult. Remember when summer began in June, not solstice June but June June? My physical therapist told me I needed new sandals because of my back and plantar fasciitis. Fortunately, the
- [16 year old unarmed gender-nonconforming teen Nathaniel Potts shot to death in the back](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/06/16-year-old-unarmed-gender-nonconforming-teen-nathaniel-potts-shot-to-death-in-the-back/): A 16 year old teen died from gunshot injuries on Wednesday, May 20, 2026 in Raleigh, Illinois. Nathaniel Potts was an unarmed gender nonconforming teenager running away from the shooter during a domestic encounter. The shooter fired two shots, the second of which took Nathaniel's life. The Crime On the night in question, Nathaniel was
- [Family of One #LGBTQFamiliesDay 2026](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/06/family-of-one-lgbtqfamiliesday-2026/): LGBTQ Families Day aims to raise awareness of the diversity, joys, and challenges of all LGBTQ families—found, formed, and chosen—and to show their strength, elevate their collective stories, and reaffirm allies’ support. The event is held on the first weekday of June, between Mother’s Day and Father’s Day, in order to honor all parents but
- [I just can't make no connection #PghPridePosts](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/05/i-just-cant-make-no-connection-pghprideposts/): I'm doing a thing in June, a thing I call #PghPridePosts. I need to reenergize my Legal and Living Expenses crowdfund. Both are still very much a challenge for me. Embedded in that plea are the costs of this blog. I pay them from my own SSDI funds - $1500/month or $18,000 annually. I make
- [I Need a Pridefest Buddy](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/05/i-need-a-pridefest-buddy/): Amidst over 70 Pride festivals in Pennsylvania, I stand alone as none of my friends want to go. Not the big Pittsburgh Pride, not the small community park festivals. This feels upside down. I'm a lesbian blogger and have no Pride friends? I respect personal decisions, but this is a year to show up. Show
- [Now My Blog Posts, Social Media Content, and even my Email are Shadow Banned](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/05/now-my-blog-posts-social-media-content-and-even-my-email-are-shadow-banned/): My voice is being silenced by social media platforms, algorithms, bias, bigotry, and so forth. Here is a Wikipedia page where my cousin Michael Pryor is quoted about shadow bans. In my case, it is Pink Banning. I haven't seen Michael for over a decade and he's a pretty progressive guy so I'm not going
- [Now My Blog Posts, Social Media Content, and even my Email are Shadow Banned](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/05/now-my-blog-posts-social-media-content-and-even-my-email-are-shadow-banned/): My voice is being silenced by social media platforms, algorithms, bias, bigotry, and so forth. Here is a Wikipedia page where my cousin Michael Pryor is quoted about shadow bans. In my case, it is Pink Banning. I haven't seen Michael for over a decade and he's a pretty progressive guy so I'm not going
- [Won't you stop and remember me? These trans memorials remain incomplete right now.](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/05/wont-you-stop-and-remember-me-these-trans-memorials-remain-incomplete-right-now/): These are posts I regret having to share. The number of trans, nonbinary, and gender nonconforming deaths due to violence have been increasing so rapidly that I struggle to keep up with memorial posts. That is my challenge to work out. But for you ... I want to make sure you are aware. The brutal
- [The Violent Details in the Murder of New York Black Trans Woman Eryka Caldwell Are Not Her Total Story](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/05/the-violent-details-in-the-murder-of-new-york-black-trans-woman-eryka-caldwell-are-not-her-total-story/): Eryka Caldwell was stabbed to death in her New York City apartment on Sunday, May 17, 2026. Eryka was a 41 year old Black trans woman. Her death at the hands of her intimate partner, her boyfriend, highlights yet another vulnerability trans neighbors face in a society increasingly hostile to them. The Crime Them.us has
- [video: process the deaths of nine trans neighbors](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/05/video-process-the-deaths-of-nine-trans-neighbors/): View this post on Instagram A post shared by Sue Kerr (@pghlesbian)
- [Unapologetically Paris: The Shooting Death of a Young Black Trans Texan, 21 Years Old](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/05/unapologetically-paris-the-shooting-death-of-a-young-black-trans-texan-21-years-old/): A person shot to death around 2 a.m. on Friday, April 17, 2026 in Dallas, Texas was identified as Paris Harris, a 21 year-old Black trans gender non-conforming young adult, according to the Dallas Voice. The Crime Please note that we do not have absolute clarity on how Paris identified so we are using a
- [25 Year Old Black Trans Texan Jade Roberts was Shot And Left At Abandoned Building In Early 2026](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/05/25-year-old-black-trans-texan-jade-roberts-was-shot-and-left-at-abandoned-building-in-early-2026/): As we knew, the early months of 2026 did witness the violent deaths of trans, nonbinary, and gender nonconforming folx even without the scrutiny of media coverage or public awareness. On January 2, 2026, Jade Roberts was found at an old Wells Fargo building at Hillcroft between Richmond and Westheimer on the second day of
- [35 Year Old Trans Latina Shot to Death Inside Her Own Florida Business](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/05/35-year-old-trans-latina-shot-to-death-inside-her-own-florida-business/): On April 28, 2026, a Trans Latina woman was shot multiple times and left to die on the floor of the silver and gold store she owned in Fort Pierce, Florida. Her name was Lanessa Rodriguez. She was 35. The Crime According to WPBF "Police arrested 20-year-old Landen Ballard, who they say entered the pawn shop, pulled
- [The media failed when reporting the shooting death of trans person Hailey Singleton](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/05/the-media-failed-when-reporting-the-shooting-death-of-trans-person-hailey-singleton/): Hailey Singleton had multiple names. Their trans identity was nuanced and complex. In fact, all identities are, a reality that terrifies some people. The Crime On May 5, 2026, Hailey's body was found along again a dirt road in Dunnellon, Florida. A call was made to 911 around 4 PM. They died from gunshot injuries.
- [Help us find out what happened to a Latina Trans woman reportedly killed in Las Vegas](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/05/help-us-find-out-what-happened-to-a-latina-trans-woman-reportedly-killed-in-las-vegas/): Her name was Daniella Analee Escobedo. She was a 34 year old Latina trans woman, living in Las Vegas. To clarify, I have seen her name spelled Daniela and Daniella. I'm going to use Daniella because that is a name I've confirmed is attached to a social media account she controlled. I realize that may
- [Follow us on social media](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/05/come-on-now-social-i-want-you-to-be/): Every once in awhile, I like to remind you of the multitude of ways you can stay connected with us. Also, I am competitive enough to hit milestones with followers. It is a character trait I don't relish, but do rationalize. First, you can subscribe to the blog so you never miss a post. Next,
- [Pat Catena, candidate for State House District 45, injects anti-trans MAGA tactics into his campaign](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/05/pat-catena-candidate-for-state-house-district-45-injects-anti-trans-maga-tactics-in-his-campaign/): Are the residents of Collier, Kennedy, Neville, Robinson and Stowe townships and the boroughs of Bridgeville, Carnegie, Coraopolis, McKees Rocks and Pennsbury Village anti-LGBTQ? Do they believe that trans kids playing sports is one of the top priorities for their school districts? Do they see LGBTQ people like me as being an enemy or the
- [Mental Health Awareness Month: Make This Emotional Support Kale Smoothie](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/05/mental-health-awareness-month-make-this-emotional-support-kale-smoothie/): In mid-April, I saw my PCP where I learned that my cholesterol levels and my blood pressure were high. Not run to the ER type high, but definitely higher than normal for me. The number one culprit is likely stress and anxiety. My load is heavy and has no sign of resolving soon. Sometimes, I'm
- [Q&A: Striking Starbucks Workers Reclaim the Power of Labor](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/05/qa-striking-starbucks-workers-reclaim-the-power-of-labor/): Creating power in the work place not only improves the conditions for the workers who have organized, but it creates a path for all workers. Not to be hyperbolic, but this is a Q&A I've longed to publish. Beyond my own long relationship with Starbucks, I have an even greater respect and appreciation for the
- [The Killing of Trans Man Lucas RedBeard Knapp in Rural New Mexico Teaches Us About Visibility](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/05/the-killing-of-trans-man-lucas-redbeard-knapp-in-rural-new-mexico-teaches-us-about-visibility/): A New Mexico based nonbinary transmasculine person was shot to death by neighbors in a rural unincorporated area known as Candy Kitchen in Cibola County. He was 39. His name was Lucas RedBeard or Lucas Knapp. He also went by Luca. On Saturday, April 18, 2026, Lucas was walking his dogs when he heard a
- [Mental Health Awareness Month: I wanted therapy in my teens, but that wasn't okay](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/05/mental-health-awareness-month-i-wanted-therapy-in-my-teens-but-that-wasnt-okay/): CN: bipolar disorder, therapy, medication, family dynamics Don't fret - I'm not going to write 31 posts about involuntary civil commitments. My first accurate diagnosis was Bipolar Disorder. Originally, I was type II because I experienced hypomanic episodes rather than full blow mania. When I had a truly terrifying experience in 2010/2011, I was rediagnosed
- [Pennsylvania Will Host Over 70 Pride Festivals in 2026](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/04/pennsylvania-will-host-over-70-pride-festivals-in-2026/): Time to get your Pridefest plans on the calendar. I did a quick scan across the Commonwealth and identified 70 Pride festivals. This does not include Pride adjacent events. I can include those later if I get inspired. I am now convinced that we have moved away from giant urban prides toward what I call
- [Mental Health Awareness Month: Reviewing My 302 Petition and Warrant](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/05/mental-health-awareness-month-reviewing-my-302-petition-and-warrant/): Today begins Mental Health Awareness Month. To celebrate, I spent 90 minutes going over the 302 petition and warrant that turned my life upside down in 2023. Line by line, clause by clause. With my therapist. I was hyper aware of her concern as her image hovered in the bottom corner of my screen. We
- [Update About Noose Found in McKeesport](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/05/update-about-noose-found-in-mckeesport/): On April 22, we reported on a noose found in McKeesport. Photos are not embedded in the post, but there are links to the photos. There is no update. To my knowledge, it is still there. I reached out to many, many folx. Including McKeesport officials who never returned my calls. I alerted the media
- [Pennsylvania Youth Congress Statement on Anti-Trans Student Sports Ban](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/04/pennsylvania-youth-congress-statement-on-anti-trans-student-sports-ban/): Moments ago, the State Senate voted for the eighth time to advance a cruel anti-trans student sports ban. SB 1293 passed in a 30-17 vote. Rather than work towards inclusion and equality in sports, our State Senate continues its fixation on attacking trans young people for political theater. The Pennsylvania Interscholastic Athletic Association has already
- [Black Trans Woman Aleanna Royal Bechdel Fatally Stabbed in New York State](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/04/black-trans-woman-aleanna-royal-bechdel-fatally-stabbed-in-new-york-state/): Her name was Aleanna Belcher. She was a 31 year old Black trans woman when her life ended on Friday, April 17, 2026 in the stairwell of a housing complex in Birmingham, New York. She knew the man who stabbed her to death, but the nature of their relationship is unclear. The Crime From WBNG
- [Community Leaders Investigate Discovery of a Noose in McKeesport](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/04/community-leaders-investigate-discovery-of-a-noose-in-mckeesport/): These images may be disturbing. Please take care if you share them. An anonymous call early yesterday morning from a McKeesport resident who would not use their name. They told me there was a noose hanging from the power lines on Meadow Street in McKeesport. Their fear was palpable. I had a trusted source visit
- [Trans Woman Dannielle Spillman, 74, Was a Beloved Fixture in her San Francisco Neighborhood. Then a Violent Driver Took Her Life.](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/04/trans-woman-dannielle-spillman-74-was-a-beloved-fixture-in-her-san-francisco-neighborhood-then-a-violent-driver-took-her-life/): A hit and run traffic incident in San Francisco left a 74-year-old white trans woman dead. Her name was Dannielle Spillman. Incident, not accident. The Crime On Monday, April 16, around 1:30 p.m. near Mission Street and South Van Ness Avenue. Valentine Cash Amil was driving a black 2024 Mercedes-Benz E350 and had just finished filling
- [I skipped 'No Kings' and here's why](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/03/i-skipped-no-kings-and-heres-why/): Today is Saturday, March 28, 2026. Many of you took to the streets to reclaim democracy and demand a stop to the kidnappings of our immigrant neighbors. I was not there. I was on a phone call with a person supporting an immigrant family in Southwestern PA. Originally, I was focused on securing dog food
- [Can't help but think of yesterday. Happy 60th Birthday, John!](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/04/cant-help-but-think-of-yesterday-happy-60th-birthday-john/): Today is a date that would have made John groan, curl up in a blanket on the couch, and turn on the Broadway Musical streaming channel - his 60th birthday. I wish he was here so I could tease him about it. But he is not. Typically, the dates of his birth and death make
- [Davonta Curtis was a Black Trans Woman killed in Chicago](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/04/davonta-curtis-was-a-black-trans-woman-killed-in-chicago/): A 31-year-old Black trans woman was beaten to death in her Chicago home on April 5, 2026. Her name was Davonta Curtis. Police have arrested and charged a 24-year-old man with first-degree murder and possession of a stolen vehicle per Them. The Crime According to Chicago news outlets, Davonta was in an "on again, off
- ["Is she in the shittier?" And other things women say.](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/04/is-she-in-the-shittier-and-other-things-women-say/): Over the weekend, I attended an event staffed by dozens of volunteers, mostly women. As things wrapped up, one woman was looking for another specific person. She was standing with her legs firmly planted to support her frame as she sorted through something or another on the table in front of her, a pair of
- [Corporate sponsors pivot away from Pittsburgh Pride, creating challenges and opportunities for LGBTQIA+ community](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/04/corporate-sponsors-pivot-away-from-pittsburgh-pride-creating-challenges-and-opportunities-for-lgbtqia-community/): Pittsburgh Pridefest has announced a budget shortfall due mainly to a lack of corporate sponsorship. This does have the immediate impact on events, but it also reflects a disturbing pattern of distancing themselves from our community. There is a difference between the impact of these. institutions. Pittsburgh Pride is scheduled for June 5-7 in Allegheny Commons Park
- [UPDATE: My neighbor's dog bit my friend this week. I'm traumatized.](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/04/my-neighbors-dog-bit-my-friend-this-week-im-traumatized/): I don't know if it was in response to this post. My older nephew called me to ask about my neighbor friend - he's met her. He started a nice conversation about his dog. I was really impressed with the steps he's taken to help the dog have his best life. He invited me over
- [Help us pay local sources to make another 1,000 whistle kits. Also update on dog food for families.](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/04/help-us-pay-local-sources-to-make-another-1000-whistle-kits-also-update-on-dog-food-for-families/): Good news - we raised enough funds to make sure 'Roman Brady' has dog food for six months. We'll use autoship, have it delivered to our pantry, and a helper will deliver using their own safety plans. It is not illegal to donate to support your neighbors. We hope you trust us to be smart,
- [104 Trans Voices on the Trans Day of Visibility](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/03/104-trans-voices-on-the-trans-day-of-visibility/): I usually include a collage of participating individuals who submitted it for their Q&A. This year, I don't feel safe doing that. The Trans Day of Visibility is dedicated to celebrating transgender people and raising awareness of discrimination faced by transgender people worldwide, as well as a celebration of their contributions to society. I spend too much time – by
- [Beyond the Gates - One Year Later](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/03/beyond-the-gates-one-year-later/): I'm still hooked on the newest soap to enter the field. General Hospital is still my ride or die show, but Beyond the Gates is one of the very few CBS/Paramount shows I watch. None of them are news programs. Smitty and Lulu Spencer are better sources. Ahem. In one year, they've had a vengeful
- [Pennsylvania House Votes to Make Marriage Equality State Law](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/03/pennsylvania-house-votes-to-make-marriage-equality-state-law/): Are you thinking - wait, isn't marriage equality the law since 2014 based on a Supreme Court ruling? The answer is yes. Marriage equality has been legal in Pennsylvania based on court rulings. A state law against marriage equality, a so-called 'Defense of Marriage Act', has never been repealed. This cowardice by Pennsylvania legislators creates
- [Did You Know That PLC is Distributing Whistle Kits?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/03/did-you-know-that-plc-is-distributing-whistle-kits/): Pittsburgh LGBTQ Charities is working with local partners to assemble whistle kits. We have three primary groups of folx we'll be targeting to distribute the kits LGBTQ+folx, groups, events, organizations, etc - drag shows, bingos, social groups, events Animal rescue/welfare folx, groups, events, organizations, etc throughout Western PA Neighbors on the Northside But we'll respond
- [Bodyworn camera footage exposes shameful cooperation with ICE by the Pittsburgh Police.](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/03/bodyworn-camera-footage-exposes-shameful-cooperation-with-ice-by-the-pittsburgh-police/): These posts from Instagram are shared to highlight the cooperation of the Pittsburgh Police Department with Immigration and Customs Enforcement/Department of Homeland Security. On December 17, 2025, Pittsburgh police officers on bodyworn camera footage details the support and assistance they provided when ICE targeted a local man. It is imperative that the City pass non-cooperation
- [Raising the alarm: co-parenting apps used in Family Court may put immigrant families and trans kids at risk](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/03/raising-the-alarm-co-parenting-apps-used-in-family-court-may-put-immigrant-families-and-trans-kids-at-risk/): "We do want to address directly the issues you raised and encourage you to raise awareness of these risks via your well-established advocacy avenues." Prepare for a long blog post. I'm concerned that a resource used in Family Court does not provide effective privacy for litigants, especially around HIPPA, gender identity, and immigration. For the
- [The Week That Was a Week](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/03/the-week-that-was-a-week/): It has been a week. There's always this one week in theater seasons when multiple shows open and other types of shows also happen and it is just soooo much. This past October, I caught pink eye so that took me out of contention. This past week was the spring version - three plays, one
- [The Violent Death of Black Trans Woman Shyyell Diamond Sanchez-McCray First Reported Homicide This Year](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/03/the-violent-death-of-black-trans-woman-shyyell-diamond-sanchez-mccray-first-reported-homicide-this-year/): Her name was Shyyell Diamond Sanchez-Mccray. She was 42 years old and identified as a Black transgender woman. She died in Petersburg, Virginia. On March 13, just before 2 a.m., Petersburg Police were called to the 300 block of Elm Street for a reported shooting. FIrst responders entered a home with “an unsecured door” and
- [Review: Eureka Day Slyly Explores Meaningful Woke Culture](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/03/review-eureka-day-slyly-explores-meaningful-woke-culture/): Eureka Day at City Theatre is a wry, sly, and thoughtful comedy that just might brighten your spring in a dark time. Set in an elite private elementary school, the action centers a leadership committee (aka PTA) and a harried principal struggling to maintain a safe and supportive learning environment, controlling as much as possible
- [Daphy Michel Deserves to Be Alive. ICE Thought Otherwise.](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/03/daphy-michel-deserves-to-be-alive-ice-thought-otherwise/): Her name was Daphy Michel. She was a 31 year old Haitian immigrant who came to the United States in 2022. She was deemed eligible to remain in the US for “urgent humanitarian reasons" or humanitarian parole. Daphy settled with her brother and extended family in a small Western PA town, Charleroi in Washington County,
- [Why Haven't I Published Memorials for Trans Neighbors This Year?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/03/why-havent-i-published-memorials-for-trans-neighbors-this-year/): The year 2026 has been brutal for many neighbors, but especially ferocious for the trans community. Trans is an umbrella term for transgender, transsexual, nonbinary, gender nonconforming, gender creative, and others whose gender identity does not align with societal expectations and/or the gender assigned at birth. That's a very broad stroke definition. Since 2013, I
- [Review: Apple TV's 'Imperfect Women' Cast Feels Familiar](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/03/review-apple-tvs-imperfect-women-cast-feels-familiar/): New from Apple TV, limited series 'Imperfect Women' struggles with imperfect casting that fails to challenge our familiarity the big names. Conceived as a thriller, it felt too familiar to capture my attention until the final episodes. This is the story of Eleanor (Kerry Washington), Mary (Elisabeth Moss) and Nancy (Kate Mara), best friends since
- [We Need Volunteers to Keep These Projects Going](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/03/we-need-volunteers-to-keep-these-projects-going/): Pittsburgh LGBTQ Charities has three major projects right now Trans media inite Dr. John P. Ruffing VMD Pet Food Pantry Community Safety - Whistle Kit Assembly And we need help. Our current volunteers have taken on the Herculean task of delivering food to all of our pantry caretakers every month, a decision made necessary after
- [Review: PICT Explores Immigration Experiences in 'The Smuggler'](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/03/review-pict-explores-immigration-experiences-in-the-smuggler/): I left the production of 'The Smuggler' on Friday evening feeling uneasy and disconcerted. It took me awhile to sit with those feelings. We are not them and they are not us. 'The Smuggler' is a production of Pittsburgh International Classic Theater at Carnegie Stage running through Sunday, March 22, 2026. The play takes us
- [Will you join us to make whistle kits March 22?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/03/will-you-join-us-to-make-whistle-kits-march-22/): Join your neighbors as we assemble 'whistle kits' to distribute throughout the community. Sunday, March 22 10AM-2PM Allegheny City Brewery 510 E Ohio St, Pittsburgh, PA 15212 Each kit contains a whistle, lanyard, 'Know Your Rights' info, a zine explaining the whistle, and other info. It is the perfect way to keep a whistle in
- [Just a ghost in this house?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/03/just-a-ghost-in-this-house/): This week marked an important milestone for me - I got myself back home two years ago after six months of being homeless. That was March 10, 2024. It's legal, but tenuous. So I began to wonder - am I still homeless? I've lived here since July 18, 2005. That's the longest I've lived anywhere
- [Is it weird that I used a Popsicle mold as a jigger for my bourbon?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/03/is-it-weird-that-i-used-a-popsicle-mold-as-a-jigger-for-my-bourbon/): She gets up and pours herself a strong one My friend Sarah and I are dabbling lightly in the libations lifestyle. In January, I had a cocktail at City Theatre when I saw a play and it was nice - bourbon and other stuff. I said "huh, I guess I like bourbon." This led me
- [How I got my start reviewing all of the things](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/03/how-i-got-my-start-reviewing-all-of-the-things/): Preview Back in the late 90s and early Aughts, I would buy LGBTQ movies on VHS from Ebay. Lifetime movies mostly. They are probably in a box in the attic. Think Stockard Channing, Natasha Lyonne, even Brooke Shields as a lesbian mom When I took a closer look, I saw they were mostly screeners that
- [Why is Allegheny County Government Denying Me My Day in Court?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/03/why-is-allegheny-county-government-denying-me-my-day-in-court/): So here's my occasional plea for your help. I am in the midst of three court cases stemming from events in August 2023. I was homeless for six months. I've been home for nearly two years, but things are tough. I depend on you to help me with living and legal expenses while these cases
- [However, can't you see? Here, the owner illustrates the #OakmontBakeryEffect](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/03/however-cant-you-see-here-the-owner-illustrates-the-oakmontbakeryeffect/): Includes homage to The TIng Ting's "That's Not My Name" The owner of the Oakmont Bakery sent me an email that perfectly illustrates the#OakmontBakeryEffect This song is monotone - more clueless white male privilege treating a woman as if I need to be schooled and corrected. Hi Kim, I own Oakmont Bakery, and I wanted
- [I got things to say to you but like you really care. So I'm canceling political candidate interviews this year.](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/03/i-got-things-to-say-to-you-but-like-you-really-care-so-im-canceling-political-candidate-interviews-this-year/): For nearly ten years, I've been interviewing local folx for political Q&A's. I eventually focused specifically on candidates for office anywhere in Pennsylvania. I'm sitting this year out. I know it is the mid-terms and we have to win control and all of the things Democrats often say to chastise and shame people into a
- [Quakertown Police Chief used a choke hold to subdue a teen. She was protesting ICE. He showed us why.](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/02/quakertown-police-chief-used-a-choke-hold-to-subdue-a-teen-she-was-protesting-ice-he-showed-us-why/): Ah, Bucks County, you never cease to amaze. And disappoint. The Chief of Police in Quakertown waded into a protest organized by high school students, allegedly did not identify himself while dressed in street clothing, and put a female minor into a choke hold. Her friends responded to a stranger choking the young woman, launched
- [Facing a precarious future with a slow blink](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/02/facing-a-precarious-future-with-a-slow-blink/): A slow blink from a cat is a well-documented feline behavior that signifies they feel safe, comfortable, and not threatened in your presence. Tough conversation with my lawyer today, reminding me how perilously close I am to being homeless. Not new information. But for the remainder of the day it was staring me in the face
- [Review: 'An Enemy of the People' Explores the Trauma of Doing the Right Thing](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/02/review-an-enemy-of-the-people-explores-the-trauma-of-doing-the-right-thing/): Pittsburgh has had a surge of adaptations of classics from the 'Realism' era of plays when attentions turned to the working class, language was more direct and common, and we were invited into homes and rooms rather than imaginations and myths. Realism seems like a fitting lens to understand how I review a play or
- [Happy Galentine's Day!](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/02/happy-galentines-day/): Galentine's Day brings women together to celebrate each other every year the day before Valentine's day. Today we honor our platonic soulmates and the bond between friendships formed that deserve celebration. I'm not one for the term "gal" anymore than bestie or BFF or GBF. But a day to celebrate friendship with other women is
- [That Time My Dad Played Santa Claus](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/02/that-time-my-dad-played-santa-claus/): Today is my Dad's birthday. He would have been 85.hs He died in 2024 so only made it to 83. Is that a robust old life. One year when I was working in foster care, I asked my Dad to play Santa at the annual holiday party. He was tickled. The suit fit and he
- [That Time When The Netherlands Took Down My Website](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/02/that-time-when-the-netherlands-took-down-my-website/): We've been offline for a few days. Apparently, my site was targeted by Distributed Denial-of-Service attack. From the Netherlands. DDoSed. I'm wondering if an onslaught of Tony Geary fans came to read my memorial blog post? I mentioned Amsterdam. I know it is not literally a lot of real people from the Netherlands who visited
- [Jose Flores is free, proving my point about the #OakmontBakeryEffect](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/02/jose-flores-is-free-proving-my-point-about-the-oakmontbakeryeffect/): Jose Flores was released from Immigration and Customs Enforcement custody Saturday. He is with his wife and family. I am very relieved for this family. I hope they have every opportunity to heal and recover. Somehow Oakmont Bakery keeps making it about them, centering their business as the true victims in this story. It almost
- [Malcolm X and Redd Foxx Washing Dishes at Jimmy's Chicken Shack in Harlem is what we need now](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/01/malcolm-x-and-redd-foxx-washing-dishes-at-jimmys-chicken-shack-in-harlem-is-what-we-need-now/): City Theatres co-production of Malcolm X and Redd Foxx Washing Dishes at Jimmy's Chicken Shack in Harlem came to Pittsburgh in time for a blizzard, the escalation of ICE kidnappings, and the beginning of Black History Month. City Theatre partnered with Dallas Theater Center, Theatre Squared, and Virginia Stage Company. It was a frenzied fit. People seem
- [The Oakmont Bakery Effect - Ask Businesses Hard Questions Now](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/02/the-oakmont-bakery-effect-ask-businesses-hard-questions-now/): Last week, 47-year-old Oakmont man living in the United States on a work visa was kidnapped by ICE in front of his wife and eight year old daughter. His name is Jose Flores. He and his wife work for Oakmont Bakery, a business that has repeatedly supported the Trump Administration and the Republican MAGA agenda.
- [My Five Year Wedding Anniversary in the Midst of a Divorce](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/02/my-five-year-wedding-anniversary-in-the-midst-of-a-divorce/): My spouse chose Groundhogs Day for our wedding so she wouldn't forget the date. It was a cute comment at the time. Until it wasn't. I never truly thought I would have a wedding day. In part because of marriage inequality, in part because my trauma demons told me I didn't deserve one. But we
- [A Blessed St. Brigid's Day or Why I Hung a Scarf Outside](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/02/a-blessed-st-brigids-day-or-why-i-hung-a-scarf-outside/): Today, February 1 is the Feast of St. Brigid. St. Brigid is the patron saint of babies, blacksmiths, boatmen, cattle farmers, children whose parents are not married, children whose mothers are mistreated by the children's fathers, Clan Douglas, dairymaids, dairy workers, fugitives, Ireland, Leinster, mariners, midwives, milkmaids, nuns, poets, the poor, poultry farmers, poultry raisers, printing
- [I ♡ City Theatre and Hope You Do, Too](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/01/i-♡-city-theatre-and-hope-you-do-too/): I very much enjoy live theater, you've probably noticed that in my blogging. Pittsburgh has multiple live theater companies and venues, from community theaters in McKeesport and Carnegie to mainstream denizens of Downtown. We are fortunate, but we are also divided. Honestly, there's a discernible vibe between the community theaters and the Cultural District theaters.
- [To stop ICE’s reign of terror, we need to SHUT IT DOWN on Fri Jan 30, 2026.](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/01/to-stop-ices-reign-of-terror-we-need-to-shut-it-down-on-fri-jan-30-2026/): The people of the Twin Cities have shown the way for the whole country – to stop ICE’s reign of terror, we need to SHUT IT DOWN. On Friday, January 30, join a nationwide day of no school, no work and no shopping. The entire country is shocked and outraged at the brutal killings of
- [To stop ICE’s reign of terror, we need to SHUT IT DOWN on Fri Jan 30, 2026.](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/01/to-stop-ices-reign-of-terror-we-need-to-shut-it-down-on-fri-jan-30-2026/): The people of the Twin Cities have shown the way for the whole country – to stop ICE’s reign of terror, we need to SHUT IT DOWN. On Friday, January 30, join a nationwide day of no school, no work and no shopping. The entire country is shocked and outraged at the brutal killings of
- [Two Black Minnesota Women activists and a US Army Veteran called out a Christian pastor who works for ICE. Now they have been arrested.](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/01/two-black-minnesota-women-activists-and-a-us-army-veteran-called-out-a-christian-pastor-who-works-for-ice-now-they-have-been-arrested/): UPDATE all three have been released Nekima Levy Armstrong, Chauntyll Louisa Allen and William Kelly. Three community leaders and activists. Today, they were arrested by the federal government for their role in a recent protest at a St. Paul Christian Church helmed by an employee, an agent of Immigrations and Customs Enforcement. Some parishioners were
- [](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2022/06/community-qa-chris-16-talks-about-his-identity-his-family-and-enduring-harassment-in-his-pittsburgh-neighborhood/): This post has been removed at the request of the contributor
- [Volunteer to Distribute Cold Weather Cat Shelters This Wintry Weekend](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/01/volunteer-to-distribute-cold-weather-cat-shelters-this-wintry-weekend/): UPDATE: Please read this post for an update on the pet food pantry being robbed. There are all sorts of winter shelters to help colony cats endure the worst weather. Some are heated where this is electricity, some are made from multiple layers inside a big Rubbermaid tote, some are cute little wooden houses painted
- [I wish it need not have happened in my time](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/01/i-wish-it-need-not-have-happened-in-my-time/): On September 12, 2001, I was scheduled for an interview with a Post-Gazette reporter about a job fair I was coordinating in October. My boss made me call the journalist to confirm the appointment. As we all surmise, they were covering a far bigger story. I knew that journalist would never talk with me again
- [Anthony Geary challenged masculinity in the soap opera genre](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/01/anthony-geary-challenged-masculinity-in-the-soap-opera-genre/): Remember him as Anthony Geary, a gay male actor with many theater credits and a great 30 year on-screen love story, followed by another great 20 year love story. That's what he wanted even though he acknowledged he would always be remembered as Luke Spencer. Yes, he played the character who revolutionized daytime drama, across
- [Impious and irreverent 'sweary' calendars are good for your mental health](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/01/impious-and-irreverent-sweary-calendars-are-good-for-your-mental-health/): I like calendars - being oriented to date and time are good mental health practices. I like calendars with attitude. And cats. In 2025, I had three wall calendars and one daily tear away calendar. The tear away was filled with women's quotes, but in a bland way that focused on traditional messages. But I
- [Impious and irreverent 'sweary' calendars are good for your mental health](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/01/impious-and-irreverent-sweary-calendars-are-good-for-your-mental-health/): I like calendars - being oriented to date and time are good mental health practices. I like calendars with attitude. And cats. In 2025, I had three wall calendars and one daily tear away calendar. The tear away was filled with women's quotes, but in a bland way that focused on traditional messages. But I
- [Ice Out for Good Events in Pennsylvania](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/01/ice-out-for-good-events-in-pennsylvania/): This list compiled from social media listing. Check carefully for local details. Many of these events are organized by chapters of Invisible, others by similar groups. Two events were previously scheduled that are not part of this specific action, but are part of the cause. Please send me (or tag me @Pghlesbian) in photos I
- [Where do we go from here?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/01/where-do-we-go-from-here/): I've been giving serious thought as to what comes next for this blog. This was before the City Paper closed and Pittsburgh Post-Gazette announced its closure. Both are not good. And makes me thinking more important. Typically this time of year, I'd be gearing up for the Political Q&A series, but last year's disrespect from
- [GLAAD Media Award Nominees Reflect Evolution of Independent Journalism](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/01/glaad-media-award-nominees-reflect-evolution-of-independent-journalism/): Nominees for the 37th GLAAD Media Awards were announced this week. As you may know, this blog is a two time winner in the Outstanding Blog category (2019 and 2021.) I removed myself from consideration in this category because two is good. The category has morphed into Outstanding Independent Journalism, a choice I applaud. Blogs
- [The alt-weekly paper that explored two (or more) Pittsburghs](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2026/01/the-alt-weekly-paper-that-explored-two-or-more-pittsburghs/): The demise of the Pittsburgh City Paper The first thing I did after learning about this turn of events was to go to the CP archives and download a pdf of every article that referenced me (77) so I wouldn't lose them. Not a single piece covering the closure of this significant media asset mentioned
- [My eldest nibling turns 20](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/12/my-eldest-nibling-turns-20/): It was 20 years ago that I became an aunt for the first time when the eldest nibling was born. I remember that day like it was just yesterday. I love all the niblings, but there's something unique about the one who teaches you to be an aunt and the youngest who puts all of
- [Blog Wrapped - 50 of the Most Read Posts in 2025](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/12/blog-wrapped-50-of-the-most-read-posts-in-2025/): These are the blog posts you read most often in 2025. This is no a "top" list because the majority of these posts are memorials about trans neighbors who died violent deaths in the United States. That's a blunt fact. Don't turn away from it. If I can write these memorials, you can read them.
- [Pittsburgh LGBTQ Charities Year End Letter](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/12/pittsburgh-lgbtq-charities-year-end-letter/): From Pittsburgh LGBTQ Charities The past (current?) year has been bursting at the seams with happenings. big and small. We hope you'll consider a gift, either financial or in-kind to support our efforts. As you know, we are a small volunteer-driven organization. Our accomplishments and successes are due to the hard work and commitment of
- [Our political blog vicennial means seeing familiar faces in all the old, familiar places ](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/12/our-political-blog-vicennial-means-seeing-familiar-faces-in-all-the-old-familiar-places/): Dan Gilman as Chief of Staff Ricky Burgess as Director of Community Impact Yarone Zober as Director of Redevelopment Corey Buckner as Manager of Community Affairs My jaw dropped when I saw Burgess and Zober were part of the O'Connor 2.0 Administration It is like a b-side of the greatest hits of my first decade
- [Here's to Us: Let's Celebrate 20 Years of Blogging](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/12/heres-to-us-lets-celebrate-20-years-of-blogging/): Today this blog turns 20 years old, an era of words, images, and experiences I could not conceive of back on that chilly December day when I thrust myself into the blogosphere. Filled with curiosity, but lacking any expertise, I began. Quickly, I was off on a wonderful adventure I never saw coming as I
- [I used all of my Target gift cards. Peace out.](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/12/i-used-all-of-my-target-gift-cards-peace-out/): I remember my first time with Target. It was 1995, a college town in Western Tennessee called Clarksville. I lived across the state line in a much smaller town that barely had a Dollar General. A new friend told me about this store that was Wal-Mart equivalent, but so much more. It was so pretty
- [Guest on This News is so Gay podcast](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/12/guest-on-this-news-is-so-gay-podcast/): This week, I was a guest on podcast This News is so Gay with my colleague Mark S. King. We talked about blogging, current events, LGBTQ history, and more.
- [A Christmas Donation in memory of a special cat](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/12/a-christmas-donation-in-memory-of-a-special-cat/): Today Pittsburgh LGBTQ Charities received a letter in the mail. Hello A while ago, Sue Kerr posted on Nextdoor about a cat, I think named Chastity or Charity (she means Charlotte) that had been cared for by ab older woman (street cat) The cat became ill and your charity spent $600 providing her care &
- [The Franco Harris Sports Museum reminds us that the great ones still guide us](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/12/the-franco-harris-sports-museum-reminds-us-that-the-great-ones-still-guide-us/): The Heinz History Center announced plans to rename the Western Pennsylvania Sports Museum after Franco Harris. Renowned for his athletic prowess and accomplishments, Franco was also a savvy businessman and generous philanthropist. The only Pittsburgher who could top any list with Franco is Mr. Fred Rogers. How fortunate we are here in Pittsburgh to have
- [Christmas Gifts That Don't Suck.](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/12/christmas-gifts-that-dont-suck/): No one asked, but here's my list of gifts that don't suck. No Starbucks, no Target. Ground coffee, not Starbucks Athletic mid calf socks, any color Gift cards to TomBoyX, Bombas, or Wildfang Gift cards to Eat 'n Park, Emilianos, Giant Eagle, Chinatown Inn. 20 somethings to represent blog years SD cards, AA batteries for
- [What 'after the holidays' really means](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/12/what-after-the-holidays-really-means/): Last year was a nice holiday season for me - I felt hopeful, comforted, and valued. This year? Not so much. I thought the holiday in tandem with my blog's 20th anniversary would create lots to celebrate. I was wrong. A 20 year milestone is not resonating with local media outlets that typically jump for
- [Where is the LGBTQ+ content?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/12/where-is-the-lgbtq-content/): Good question. Things have been chaotic this past many weeks. Some things just requiring my time and attention, others wrenching my emotional core to zero. I'm sort of stuck when I try to blog. It happens. I read about things that warrant a blog post, but can't find anything interesting to say. I'm worried that I'll
- [Fort Faulsey Finds Another Lost/Missing Cat or Why You Should Donate to #PghCatFolx](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/12/fort-faulsey-finds-another-lost-missing-cat-or-why-you-should-donate-to-pghcatfolx/): His name is Checkers. He's been on the lam since escaping his carrier at Humane Animal Rescue (HAR) Northside a few days ago. Marie saw the flyer online and sprang into action. While I posted around the nearby Facebook groups, she headed out with treats and a carrier. Starting at last reported sighting, she "thought
- [If you smile through your fear and sorrow](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/12/if-you-smile-through-your-fear-and-sorrow/): I went to the dentist last week, abuzz with anxiety. This weirdly ended up okay because I just had one cavity and everything else was fixable. Except one bad tooth that has to be uninstalled. Second chances are always important. The dental cleaning weakened the bad tooth and it really hurt. I called an oral
- [Missing: 19 year old trans teen missing since September with ties to Seattle and Georgia](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/12/missing-19-year-old-trans-teen-missing-since-september-with-ties-to-seattle-and-georgia/): After the situation with Sam Norquist, we must be very careful. Please share with folx in Seattle and Georgia. Update from friends. Once again we come to you for help in finding Van. The last email I received was November 15th, and the last online presence shared was on November 17th. The person who paid
- [Nonbinary actor Wenne Davis walked across a New York City street, killed by a SUV](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/12/nonbinary-actor-wenne-davis-walked-across-a-new-york-city-street-killed-by-a-suv/): Wenne Alton Davis, a 60 year old nonbinary actor, was killed in New York City on Monday, December 8, 2025. They were walking, crossing a street. From NBCNews The New York Police Department said in a statement that Davis was found by officers just after 9 p.m. lying in the road after a Black Cadillac
- [Upbeat crowdfund update: Hey, Sue got a tattoo and 100,000 followers on Instagram](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/12/upbeat-crowdfund-update-hey-sue-got-a-tattoo-and-100000-followers-on-instagram/): Hello friends! This will be (I hope) an upbeat update. I'll post another data driven one tomorrow. My blog turns 20 on December 29, 2025. I am proud of that milestone. Most blogs endure 2-3 years. To commemorate it, I had the blog logo tattooed on my forearm this past Friday night. See photo. I
- [Is there insta approval for this Gen X blogger?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/12/is-there-insta-approval-for-this-gen-x-blogger/): I joined Instagram in August 2012. Mostly I posted photos of my pets and my backyard, with some occasional selfies. It was fun. April 2024 - 3,000 followers May 2024 - 5,000 followers December 2024 - 10,000 followers January 2025 -16,000 followers March 2025 - 22,000 followers May 2025 -50,000 followers December 2025 - 100,000
- [Remember my college internship with then-Congressman Rick Santorum in 1991?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/12/remember-my-college-internship-with-then-congressman-rick-santorum-in-1991/): It was around this time of that year when the photo below was taken. End of winter term. Terrified about what came next. Certain that working in Congress was not for me. 34 years ago. I had no idea how much my degree in political science and that internship would shape this 20 year labor
- [The current administration attempts to erase Dr. Rachel Levine's identity from her groundbreaking healthcare leadership. Here is her 2024 Q&A with my blog.](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/12/the-current-administration-attempts-to-erase-dr-rachel-levines-identity-from-her-groundbreaking-healthcare-leadership-we-will-not-abide-that/): Today, I read this disgusting news on LGBTQ Nation The Department of Health and Human Services (HHS) has altered the official portrait of Adm. Rachel Levine, the out transgender former assistant secretary for health under President Joe Biden, to display Levine’s deadname — a needless act of transphobia that Levine has called “petty.” Her portrait
- [Happy 5th Anniversary to the Fort Faulsey Community Cat Colony](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/12/happy-5th-anniversary-to-the-fort-faulsey-community-cat-colony/): This colony sprang to life before roads were paved or houses built, when the confluence of waterways, plentiful food, and the lush green life by the riverside flourished in this region. We are told that domestic cats arrived with colonizers, they were not native to these lands. But people were. Some of those people had
- [How to celebrate this blog's 20th anniversary?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/12/how-to-celebrate-this-blogs-20th-anniversary/): No news on the legal front, but some good news! Picture it, Manchester. December 29, 2005 was a Thursday. I was on a week of vacation from my job. Somehow I found myself opening up this software called ‘Blogware’ and launching my blog, Pittsburgh Lesbian Correspondents (pghlesbian.com.) My oldest nibling was born the very next
- [Trans Latina Sabrina Gonzales Vasquez found dead in Los Angeles in August 2025. No one has claimed her body.](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/12/trans-latina-sabrina-gonzales-vasquez-found-dead-in-los-angeles-in-august-2025-no-one-has-claimed-her-body/): On August 14, 2025, Los Angeles police discovered the body of Sabrina Gonzales Vasquez at a private residence. In spite of numerous attempts to reach her family, no one has claimed her. Sabrina may possibly have used the name Angel or that may be her deadname. I use trans in the umbrella context based on
- [Rejoice! the Advent of my winter holiday calendar](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/12/rejoice-the-advent-of-my-winter-holiday-calendar/): Advent calendars were not a thing in my Catholic 70s and 80s childhood. We dutifully made Advent wreaths on little pieces of styfoam in our CCD class. We were supposed to light the candles each Sunday, but even parents of Gen X kids realized it was a bad idea to put a flame near styrofoam
- [Do you have an extra Christmas tree for me?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/12/do-you-have-an-extra-christmas-tree-for-me/): Well, sparkle season is here and I'm still stuck in this in-between stage as my lawsuits play out. I share my home with someone I used to well, know. Not any longer. I miss the most mundane things - watching the news together, trying new restaurants, making waffles, eating her lemon chicken recipe. It hurts
- [Pittsburgh Post-Gazette Journalist and Union Member Steve Mellon Reframes the Art of Labor Organizing: a Seven with Sue (+1) Q&A](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/11/pittsburgh-post-gazette-journalist-and-union-member-steve-mellon-reframes-the-art-of-labor-organizing-a-seven-with-sue-1-qa/): Seven with Sue (+1),Q&A,Pittsburgh Post-Gazette, Newspaper Guild of Pittsburgh, strike, labor, victory, Starbucks, resubscribe, Journalist,
- [Balancing our collective grief with my personal despair in response to anti-trans violence](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/03/balancing-our-collective-grief-with-my-personal-despair-in-response-to-anti-trans-violence/): Since 2013, I have reported on the violent deaths of at least 365 transgender, nonbinary, and gender nonconforming peoplem with such grief. I've also reported on the deaths of members of my LGBTQ community in Pittsburgh, members of my own family, and friends. More grief. All in all, there are over 430 posts in the
- [Community Group Partners with Striking Post-Gazette Workers on Pet Food Drive](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2024/12/community-group-partners-with-striking-post-gazette-workers-on-pet-food-drive/): This wasn't a difficult decision, I thought when considering if the Dr. John P. Ruffing Pet Food Pantry could help members of the the Guild facing their third holiday season on strike. Technically, it is month 26, the longest ongoing strike in the United States. Our pet food pantry was created to fill gaps in
- [The Newspaper Guild of Pittsburgh Won Their Three Year Strike](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/11/the-pghnewsguild-won-their-three-year-strike/): I grew up in a union town, of course. My father and other relatives were union men. I understand the importance of a union in the labor and economic ecosystem. While they are as inherently flawed as any other tool of capitalism, unions are necessary to dismantle capitalism in the long run and to protect
- [This is How to Decolonize Thanksgiving](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/11/this-is-how-to-decolonize-thanksgiving/): Or at least get started ... I've been pondering how to reconcile 54 Thanksgivings with the undeniable truths about the harm and trauma that celebration causes my Native and Indigenous friends, neighbors. As a trauma survivor, I appreciate the distinction between bad memories and actively continued experience. It has gnawed at me so I did
- [I grew up being sexually groomed by my grandfather](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/11/i-grew-up-being-sexually-groomed-by-my-grandfather/): Sexual violence with any minor child is abhorrent and too common. "There's a difference between a 15 year old and a 5 year old" Megyn Kelly, defending Jeffrey Epstein. Content Note: sexual violence, child abuse, politics, church, incest Let me start by reminding everyone that sexual abuse of young children, ages 5 and 15, including
- [On this Trans Day of Remembrance: Unidentified Trans/Gender Nonconforming Individuals 2025](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/11/on-this-trans-day-of-remembrance-unidentified-trans-gender-nonconforming-individuals-2025/): Some cases came to light during this past year, but took place in the past. Here are six neighbors whose stories became to known to us in 2025. Their identities are unknown. Unidentified white female, estimated between 30-45 years, found April 19, 2001 in Chicago Illinois. The listing describes her as a transsexual male but
- [Grave men, near death, who see with blinding sight.](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/11/grave-men-near-death-who-see-with-blinding-sight/): Today was rough. We had another conciliation hearing in the divorce/tort proceedings. There's no common ground, I guess. So we go back to the Family Court judge. But our judge is leaving Family Court so we will be assigned a new judge who may be an experienced judge just new to us or an actual
- [Our Official Trans Day of Remembrance Post for 2025](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/11/our-official-trans-day-of-remembrance-post-for-2025/): As you may know, I've been creating blog posts memorializing trans, nonbinary, and gender nonconforming victims of violent death since 2013. I use a calendar year rather than the Trans Day of Remembrance year. A TDoR memorial includes a reading of the names of those who died from October 1 of the former year to
- [Honoring Trans and Gender Nonconforming Individuals Whose Cases are Unresolved 2025](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/11/honoring-trans-and-gender-nonconforming-individuals-whose-cases-are-unresolved-2025/): Some cases came to light during this past year, but took place in the past. Here are four neigbors whose stories became to known to us in 2025. They have been identified, but the investigations have not concluded. There are many others, some we've covered and some we have not. I urge you to follow
- [Adding Six Trans Neighbors to Our Memorial List 2024/2025](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/11/adding-six-trans-neighbors-to-our-memorial-list-2024-2025/): Some of these deaths only came to light recently. I did not want anyone to be overlooked around the Trans Day of Remembrance, so I created a compilation post. Please visit Remembering Our Dead for more robust information. Nonbinary and queer artist of Dominican descent was killed in Seattle in December 2024 Jonny Adamow was
- [My personal Facebook page has been shadow banned for over two years](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/11/my-personal-facebook-page-has-been-shadow-banned-for-over-two-years/): For a long time now, I've noticed that engagement on my personal Facebook page has been dramatically lower than in previous years. No one comments, likes, or shares. People tell me all of the time that they don't see my content (and when I point out that they could seek it out, they don't.) What
- [Pittsburgh Food Security Resources - a List](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/10/pittsburgh-food-security-resources-a-list/): UPDATED as of 10/30/2025 - We've added a dozen listings. This is an ongoing list of food resources to support neighbors, including those who might be affected by the cruel cut to the SNAP (food stamps) program. You would be doing your neighbors a great service to let me know what else should be added
- [People let me down so I made a list](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/11/people-let-me-down-so-i-made-a-list/): I'm trying hard to blog daily for NaBloPoMo. It has been a dark week. Other people let me down, I let myself down. My post for today is a list of what I accomplished today. Two loads of laundry about 60% put away in my dresser. The other 40% are socks requiring matching. Tomorrow's list.
- [Q&A with Councilperson Erika Strassburger about strengthening nondiscrimination protections on the local level](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/11/qa-with-councilperson-erika-strassburger-about-strengthening-nondiscrimination-protections-on-the-local-level/): The two bills were motivated by similar realities at the federal level, where federal executive orders have weakened fair housing and other protections for various protected classes. City Councilor Erika Strassburger steered two pieces of legislation that addressed and bolstered nondiscrimination protections in the City. Protections based on sexual orientation were first added to the
- [The (Red Cup) Rebellion - Starbucks Workers Strike in Pittsburgh and Beyond](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/11/the-red-cup-rebellion-starbucks-workers-strike-in-pittsburgh-and-beyond/): So don't go to Starbucks. They went on strike today and it is open-ended. Don't go to Starbucks. Don't buy Starbucks stuff. The open-ended strike begins with 65 stores across 40+ cities and comes after six months of Starbucks refusing to offer new proposals to address workers’ demands for better staffing, higher pay, and resolution
- [The blog post about placeholders](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/11/the-blog-post-about-placeholders/): I can't think of a blog topic today. That's okay. Sometimes you just need a placeholder while your brain sorts out all of the things.
- [Will the grandchildren of ICE Nazis make amends?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/11/will-the-grandchildren-of-ice-nazis-make-amends/): I watch (and share) a lot of videos that are focused on identifying ICE agents, documenting kidnappings, and lauding the creative, persistent resistance. Sometimes I wonder what I'd say if I was holding the bullhorn or recording with my phone. I'm not sure that the words of an individual have any impact or can prevent
- [My best friend Dr. John P. Ruffing VMD died on this date in 2007. He was 41.](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/11/my-best-friend-dr-john-p-ruffing-vmd-died-on-this-date-in-2007-he-was-41/): I found this today "Susan, Though I do not tell you often, I am glad that you are part of my life. Some or most of my best memories are times that we have shared together. I will love you always and I hope the day (my birthday) was special for you truly are. I
- [Worry. Why do I let myself worry?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/11/worry-why-do-i-let-myself-worry/): Today was busy. I did some work on sourcing winter shelters for our pet food pantry caretakers. Thanks to many volunteers, we now have 10 completed shelters that should be distributed in the next 48 hours as cold weather approaches. We need some more. I asked Animal Friends for more kits. One of our caretakers
- [Things to Watch During Native History Month](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/11/things-to-watch-during-native-history-month/): My friend, Lee Dingus, is a Seneca artist and educator who has contributed to this blog in the past. I asked her to specifically share television shows and movies that do a solid job with representation. Indigenous created content is so much more accessible now, but I don't think people know that. I certainly didn't, until
- [The cruelty of food distribution in the United States](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/11/the-cruelty-of-food-distribution-in-the-united-states/): When I think about the evil decision to cut SNAP benefits for millions of Americans, my next thought is the scene in The Hunger Games where Peeta and Katniss attend a banquet where they learn about the concoction that the elite use to vomit so they can continue to gorge themselves on delicacies. Both are
- [“Why should anyone feel secure about the right to marry when this Court has proven it doesn’t believe in precedent?”](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/11/why-should-anyone-feel-secure-about-the-right-to-marry-when-this-court-has-proven-it-doesnt-believe-in-precedent/): “Why should anyone feel secure about the right to marry,” he asked, “when this Court has proven it doesn’t believe in precedent?” Jim Obergefell to The Advocate magazine. Today, Friday, the Supreme Court Justices will meet behind closed doors to determine if they will hear a case that includes a challenge to the previous ruling
- [NOW This Pittsburgh Pet Food Pantry Needs Your Help Delivering Winter Shelters for Homeless Cats](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/11/now-this-pittsburgh-pet-food-pantry-needs-your-help-delivering-winter-shelters-for-homeless-cats/): The Pet Food Pantry is helping our colony caretakers prepare for cold weather. We've procured 12 shelters BUT we need help ASAP delivering some & dropping kits off to a volunteer to assemble this weekend. Pittsburgh LGBTQ Charities is covering the costs of the kits. A large SUV can accommodate up to six. Here's the
- [That's it.](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/11/thats-it/): I'm too tired to even try to write something witty and thoughtful for #NaBloPoMo. Got up early, drove to Animal Friends to pick up shelters and straw for our pet food pantry folks. Missed the turn. Twice. Opened back of Gertie to find everything had slid everywhere. Wriggled into Gertie which I'm sure was a
- [When first we laid eyes I swore to no compromise](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/11/when-first-we-laid-eyes-i-swore-to-no-compromise/): Once again. my #NaBloPoMo post is coming in under the wire. I spent hours today - HOURS - updating my listing of all of the LGBTQ+ folx elected in Pennsylvania, dating back to 1992. But an update doesn't count. This morning, I heard 'O Valencia' by The Decemberists while I was making coffee. It has
- [We've documented the election of more than 100 out LGBTQ+ folx in Pennsylvania from 1992-2025](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/11/a-list-of-out-lgbtq-elected-officials-in-pennsylvania-historical-work-in-progress/): The firsts include over a dozen bisexual individuals, two pansexual folx, a dozen who identify as nonbinary, nearly a dozen trans folx, and several dozen people of color. When I began blogging in 2005, there were no out elected officials in Pennsylvania (that I knew of.) Now there are so many that keeping track is
- [Sourcing Winter Cat Shelter Whilst Reflecting on My Future](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/11/sourcing-winter-cat-shelter-whilst-reflecting-on-my-future/): Only four days into NaBloPoMo and I'm scrambling to get a post up in the next 51 minutes. Democrats won every single election. I'm sure the analysis will feed news stories for days to come. While it is much needed good news, it still is like the bare minimum to navigate the terror in the
- [If I don't get your calls, then everything goes wrong #NaBloPoMo](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/11/if-i-dont-get-your-calls-then-everything-goes-wrong-nablopomo/): NaBloPoMo 2025, November 3. I have an announcement to make. Like many of you (well, all of you) I find it tiresome to watch my cell phone inbox fill up with spam every single day. I used to just answer the call, wait for it to connect, and then hang up. But that's not always
- [It's time now to sing out,though the story never ends, is it 10,519,200 minutes to measure 20 years of a blog?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/11/its-time-now-to-sing-outthough-the-story-never-ends-is-it-10519200-minutes-to-measure-20-years-of-a-blog/): December 29, 2025 marks the 20th anniversary of this blog. That's huge. Most blogs are abandoned after 90 days, the rest typically last 2-3 years. So we are kicking some ass when it comes to longevity. Anyway, I am here right now to ask you, my correspondents, how we should celebrate? Guest blog posts -
- [Update on Pet Food Pantry and SNAP recipients](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/11/update-on-pet-food-pantry-and-snap-recipients/): Registered households increased by 16% in four days Late last week, we posted about our commitment to support pet owners who have/will lose their Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program or SNAP benefits in November due to the Republicans shutting down the Federal Government. Mind you, the program is structured so it is funded, but Republicans resist
- [LGBTQ+ Poverty and SNAP: NaBloPoMo](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/11/lgbtq-poverty-and-snap-nablopomo/): NaBloPoMo 2025: November 2 A great concern me has always been the lack of solidarity affluent white gay men and lesbians demonstrate to the larger LGBTQ+ community, especially those who do not identify as gay or lesbian. This illustrated the importance of a class or economic analysis when discussing "the" LGBTQ+ community. The lapse of
- [Time for NaBloPoMo 2025 edition](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/11/time-for-nablopomo-2025-edition/): Life is complicated right now, but I decided to get back on this horse and try again. Making time to blog each day is an important mental and emotional exercise. I don't know what to say this first day. There are no prompts for National Blog Post Month days this year. Perhaps as the art
- [Our Caturday Catchup](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/11/our-caturday-catchup/): The ugly decision to target our vulnerable neighbors by halting SNAP benefits disgusts all of us. The Dr. John P. Ruffing VMD Pet Food Pantry is responding two ways Throughout November, our pantry caretakers and households are donating human food to be sent to a local food pantry. It's a gesture of solidarity and gratitude.
- [Video: And the sky is a hazy shade of winter](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/10/video-and-the-sky-is-a-hazy-shade-of-winter/): I'm trying in my own fumbling way to create content. Today, I made a longish video (5 minutes) touring the winter preparations for our cat colonies. I'm actually pleased with how most of it turned out. I have yet to master the art of clipping video and fusing new segments. View this post on Instagram
- [Pittsburgh Based Pet Food Pantry Seeks Donations, Will Offer Emergency Resources to Neighbors Losing SNAP Benefits](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/10/pittsburgh-based-pet-food-pantry-seeks-donations-will-offer-emergency-resources-to-neighbors-losing-snap-benefits/): This crisis is not the time for people to relinquish their pets or feel guilty because they can't feed them. Hi. This is Sue from the Dr. John P. Ruffing VMD Pet Food Pantry, a project of Pittsburgh LGBTQ Charities. Marie and I were talking about the impact of the SNAP crisis on pet owners.
- [The Great White Silence](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/10/the-great-white-silence/): Today I was in an online class with almost 100% white folx over 50. Someone used a racist term about immigrants. I said something. Guess what the other white folx did? There is no space where it is 'safe' to turn away from racism. People are putting their lives on the line, their bodies in
- [Things You Might Learn and Experience Processing Your Trauma](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/10/things-you-might-learn-and-experience-processing-your-trauma/): Today, I saw my trauma therapist. I've been working with her for eight years, through her transferring to three practices and countless psychiatrists. She's working PT now so I also have a primary care therapist so my time with Brittany is spent on trauma work. After I told her I wrote a post about our
- [I Climbed the Ladder to the Kitchen, not Success](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/10/i-climbed-the-ladder-to-the-kitchen-not-success/): My therapist recently asked me to recount a childhood experience where I felt or knew that I had been abandoned. At some point in our childhood, my parents started taking off for little drives on my Dad's off days. They would leave while we were still at school and come home when the spirit moved
- [Long lost photos bring unexpected joy to my 55th birthday](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/10/long-lost-photos-bring-unexpected-joy-to-my-55th-birthday/): Yesterday, an innocuous brown box arrived at the house. There was no name, so I opened it figuring it was a 50% chance of being mine. I was right. Inside I found a package from my brother - a very large handful of photos he had found when he was packing to move. I was
- [Updated Turnout Numbers for 29 No Kings Protests in Western Pennsylvania](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/10/updated-turnout-numbers-for-29-no-kings-protests-in-western-pennsylvania/): My post about the outcomes/attendance at the weekends No Kings events in Western PA got a little convoluted so I pulled this specific information into a new post. The original events are listed with times. Anything w/o a time, I learned about after the fact. I tried to confirm the numbers, but relied on attendees
- [This is My Birthday Week - 55 Here I Am!](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/10/this-is-my-birthday-week-55-here-i-am/): Wednesday, October 22, 2025 is my 55th birthday. Woo hoo. Manifesting My Destiny My annual plan is to order myself a small cake from the Giant Eagle bakery (even though I'm very disappointed with their customer service right now - they make great cake.) Then I load up my all time favorite movie 'When Harry
- [Turnout for 22 No Kings Events in Pittsburgh and Western Pennsylvania. We are Golden. UPDATED](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/10/turnout-for-22-no-kings-events-in-pittsburgh-and-western-pennsylvania-we-are-golden/): Please keep sending updates on turnout in Western Pennsylvania. Source, too. I hear there folks were standing someone on Route 8 - where? That counts! I'll create a clean version of the list tomorrow - Sue I went to the protest on Pittsburgh's Northside with two friends. We showed up, found some shade, and plopped
- [The Right to Marry is not the Requirement to Marry](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/10/the-right-to-marry-is-not-the-requirement-to-marry/): Why are nearly 50% of same sex couples still cohabitating without getting married? This post is part of my ongoing court cases around same sex divorce, civil rights, and trauma. I have three legal cases and one additional legal action sort of floating around involving my work to Protect Trans Kids. I still need help
- [How to Request Toys For Tots in Western Pennsylvania 2025](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/10/how-to-request-toys-for-tots-in-western-pennsylvania-2025/): This is our annual (15 years)) round-up of Toys for Tots programs in Western Pennsylvania for 2025. I’ve done my best to sort through the available information and provide you what you may need to know. PLEASE click through to the applicable link to double check the details. I will update as information becomes available.
- [My Instagram Post About the No Kings Events and the De-escalation/Know Your Rights Training by the ACLU](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/10/my-instagram-post-about-the-no-kings-events-and-the-de-escalation-know-your-rights-training-by-the-aclu/): Two videos. First, my Instagram version where I read off the 21 Western PA No Kings events. The second is the ACLU led training on safety, de-escalation, and knowing your rights. View this post on Instagram A post shared by Sue Kerr (@pghlesbian)
- [Happy birthday to me. Next week, I'll turn 55.](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/10/happy-birthday-to-me-next-week-ill-turn-55/): Content Notes: childhood sexual violence, grooming, birthdays, anxiety, cats I have birthday issues. Not a real surprise to long-time readers. Or my friends. Or anyone who knows me. I used to think it was simple anxiety. But through my trauma processing work and therapy in general, I've sort of had a breakthrough. Birthdays are about
- [All the No Kings Oct 18 Events in the Pittsburgh Region](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/10/all-the-no-kings-oct-18-events-in-the-pittsburgh-region/): **Venue change for Pittsburgh Point Park rally 2-4pm. See below. This weekend, Saturday October 18, Americans return to the streets in a show of grassroots resistance known as No Kings events. The first event was on June 14, 2025, when organizers estimated that more than five million people participated in more than 2,100 cities and
- [Legendary transgender activist Miss Major dies at 78](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/10/legendary-transgender-activist-miss-major-dies-at-78/): Known as a surrogate mother of her community, Miss Major Griffin-Gracy leaves behind a legacy as a fierce advocate for trans and LGBTQ+ rights. This story was originally reported by Orion Rummler of The 19th. Meet Orion and read more of his reporting on gender, politics and policy. Miss Major Griffin-Gracy, a legendary transgender activist,
- ['Tis The Season: Seneca Educator Lenora Dingus on New Challenges of Indigenous People's Day](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/10/tis-the-season-seneca-educator-lenora-dingus-on-new-challenges-of-indigenous-peoples-day/): "it also seems that this is the only time of year Indigenous people and cultures are thought of to any extent by a large part of the population." 'Tis The Season Football; both local and National, INDIGENOUS people’s day – aka Columbus Day, Halloween and Thanksgiving and all the fall harvest festivals which often portray negative Indigenous
- [Celebration of life, second autopsy planned for Trans Intersex US citizen Ezra Hulett who died in a Dominican Republic immigration detention center](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/10/celebration-of-life-second-autopsy-planned-for-trans-intersex-us-citizen-ezra-hulett-who-died-in-a-dominican-republic-immigration-detention-center/): In July, I blogged about the horrific death of 24-year-old Ezra Hulett, a transgender intersex man from Upstate New York. Ezra died in an immigration detention center in the Dominican Republic on June 23, 2025 under mysterious circumstances. There has been almost no US or Engligh-language media coverage, a fact that strikes me as quite
- [Celebration of life, second autopsy planned for Trans Intersex US citizen Ezra Hulett who died in a Dominican Republic immigration detention center](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/10/celebration-of-life-second-autopsy-planned-for-trans-intersex-us-citizen-ezra-hulett-who-died-in-a-dominican-republic-immigration-detention-center/): In July, I blogged about the horrific death of 24-year-old Ezra Hulett, a transgender intersex man from Upstate New York. Ezra died in an immigration detention center in the Dominican Republic on June 23, 2025 under mysterious circumstances. There has been almost no US or Engligh-language media coverage, a fact that strikes me as quite
- [317 Coming Out Stories from LGBTQ+ Folx in Western Pennsylvania](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/10/317-coming-out-stories-from-lgbtq-folx-in-western-pennsylvania/): From 2015-2018, the #AMPLIFY project documented first-person accounts of the lives of LGBTQ+ individuals with ties to Western Pennsylvania. One of the questions is "Please describe your coming out experience. Where did you find support? What challenges did you face?" We have 317 coming out stories. One respondent came out in the Kennedy Administration, others
- [My Eyes are Pink and Painful](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/10/my-eyes-are-pink-and-painful/): I was 54 years old before I contracted double pink eye - conjunctivitis in both eyes. And it sucks. Woke up this morning with nasal congestion and that weird weepy need to depressurize feeling in my left eye. I thought it was sinuses. Blew my nose, drank a hot beverage and it was no better.
- [Review: 'Another Kind of Silence' Challenges the Languages That We Speak](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/10/review-another-kind-of-silence-challenges-the-languages-that-we-speak/): Oh, did I mention I'm taking a class in theater reviews? The first lesson is to write about what you know. I know lesbians better than anything else in this production - better than ASL, Greece, mythology, or being an ex-pat. I didn't learn anything new about lesbians, but I learned a lot about the
- [And now Sue's Reviews of the Famiworths Single-Serve Coffee Maker](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/10/and-now-sues-reviews-of-the-famiworths-single-serve-coffee-maker/): Well, I have to fess up. I now own a Keurig. Well, a different brand single use pod machine, but basically the same thing. A friend gave it to me. I think she got it from a Buy Not a Thing list. That shouldn't matter, but it does. I was going to use it in
- [International Day of the Lesbian 2025](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/10/international-day-of-the-lesbian-2025/): Today, October 8, is International Day of the Lesbian. Or International Lesbian Day. Also known as Lesbian Day. Not to be confused with Lesbian Day of Visibility in April. On these commemorative days, I like to revisit the archive. Sometimes, I publish the #AMPLIFY posts, sometimes my original content. I see some themes - Thanksgiving,
- [The Eyes Have It: Revealing the Truth About Growing Up With Eye Disorders](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/10/the-eyes-have-it-revealing-the-truth-about-growing-up-with-eye-disorders/): Content Note: disability, bullying, child neglect, resilience, superheroes, body neutrality This is my school photo from late September 1975. I was four years old, in kindergarten. If you squint, you can just see my protruding eyes and the beginning of my lazy eye. I had glasses (and the patch) soon after. But here I look
- [This Pittsburgh Pet Food Pantry Now Restocked Thanks to Our Generous Donors](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/10/this-pittsburgh-pet-food-pantry-now-restocked-thanks-to-our-generous-donors/): Thank you to everyone who donated to our September Pet Food Drive for the Dr. John P. Ruffing VMD Pet Food Pantry. We had to cancel our distribution in September due to low inventory. Marie and I spent the entire month working hard to resupply the pantry. It has been exhausting. But successful to a
- [Q&A with Shammen McCune, the Actor, Educator, and Artist](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/04/qa-with-shammen-mccune-the-actor-educator-and-artist/): Magic happens (like empathy, compassion, respect, passion, trust...) when we take a moment to listen to one another, acknowledge our specific existence in the world without judgment, and respect each other Sometimes it is the show, sometimes it is the actor who connects with you, or me in this case. I find that when it is
- [North Carolina Black Trans Woman Tiara Love Jackson Killed](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/10/north-carolina-black-trans-woman-tiara-love-jackson-killed/): A 37-year-old Black trans woman, Tiara Love 'Tori' Jackson, was shot to death on Friday, September 26 in Charlotte, North Carolina. The Crime From WCNC [The shooting] happened at the WoodSpring Suites along Deboer Avenue, which is just off West Arrowood Road, around 9:15 a.m. Medic confirmed its crews responded to the scene. Charlotte-Mecklenburg Police confirmed that
- [Another (Quick) Update on the Appeal to Help With Housing Appraisal – We Need Just $112 in Donations](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/09/another-quick-update-on-the-appeal-to-help-with-housing-appraisal-we-need-just-112-in-donations/): You can read the backstory here. Thanks to donations after the last update, our small goal is down to $112. Our next step is to arrange for a historic home appraisal. There are four points in time – purchase, date of domestic partnership, date of marriage, and date of separation. I’m genuinely curious about that
- [Actor, Director, and Playwright Elizabeth Huffman Changes the Narrative: a Seven With Sue (+1) Q&A](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/09/actor-director-and-playwright-elizabeth-huffman-changes-the-narrative-a-seven-with-sue-1-qa/): "Americans often isolate themselves from the world, overlooking powerful women in global leadership ... For our own future, it's crucial to recognize the global impact of women from all cultures, not just Western ones" In our reconstituted Q&A series, Seven with Sue (+1), we are exploring the local arts scene. We customize the questions for folx in
- [Update on Appeal to Help With Housing Appraisal - We Need Just $289 in Donations](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/09/update-on-appeal-to-help-with-housing-appraisal-we-need-just-289-in-donations/): Last week, I posted an update on court proceedings. In addition to the ongoing need for legal and living donations or perhaps within it, a sub-request, I need $750 for a historical house appraisal. Within 24 hours, you donated $461 - thank you. THANK YOU. That leaves $289. Our next step is to arrange for
- [This List of 13 Missing, Murdered, Unidentified, and Unclaimed Trans People Makes Me Think of Monica Roberts](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/09/this-list-of-13-missing-murdered-unidentified-and-unclaimed-trans-people-makes-me-think-of-monica-roberts/): The work of searching for missing, murdered, unidentified and unclaimed people can be isolating, the sort of loneliness that seeps back into the work. And that can be unproductive. Understanding the Terms Missing: Individuals whose location is unknown. Murdered: Individuals whose death was caused by another person and for whom the perpetrator may not have been identified.
- [The right to marry is not a requirement to marry](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/09/the-right-to-marry-is-not-a-requirement-to-marry/): Over 100,000 same sex couples in the US agree. Starting in 2014, same sex couples were legally able to marry in Pennsylvania. Lots of people did. Not everyone did. When I share my story (domestic partnerships since 2006, married in 2021) - the first thing people say is "Why didn't you get married right away?"
- [The Impact of Police Trauma on My Life](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/09/the-impact-of-police-trauma-on-my-life/): Here Come the Police Last night, a friend stopped by with some meals for me. I jumped in the car with her to avoid the torrent of rain. She was parked behind my house in an alley, but under a streetlight. We chatted about our days, caught up on assorted things. It was maybe 20
- [I need $750 to pay for a historic house appraisal and I need your help to raise it.](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/09/i-need-750-to-pay-for-a-historic-house-appraisal-and-i-need-your-help-to-raise-it/): I need $750 to pay for historic house appraisal. I need your help to raise it. Today, our lawyers met with the divorce hearing master to review facts. One thing to note is that we filed a tort for damages last month in Civil Court and it has been moved to Family Court and combined
- [Trans Woman Chay Reed Shot & Killed in Miami](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2017/04/trans-woman-chay-reed-shot-killed-in-miami/): 28-year-old Chay Reed was shot to death Friday in the West Little River neighborhood of Miami-Dade. She is the 9th trans woman of color to be murdered in the US during 2017. Neighbors provided home surveillance footage to the police, telling the media that they saw several people on the sidewalk before 5 AM. One
- [82 First Person Stories from Western Pennsylvania Offer Good Reasons to Affirm and Celebrate our Bisexual Neighbors](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/09/82-first-person-stories-from-western-pennsylvania-offer-good-reasons-to-affirm-and-celebrate-our-bisexual-neighbors/): In honor of Bisexuality Awareness Day (September 23), I think it is always fitting to get out of the way and allow bisexual folx to have the floor. We published 82 Bi+ Stories From Western Pennsylvania from 2015-2019. I can honestly say that reading these responses changed my life. Scroll to the bottom to see
- [Someone is removing my Protect Trans Kids yard sign](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/09/someone-is-removing-my-protect-trans-kids-yard-sign/): View this post on Instagram A post shared by Sue Kerr (@pghlesbian) Someone in my neighborhood is removing my #ProtectTransKids yard sign. Five days in a row, it was removed from its perch on my vehicle, laid on a table. The other sign, #PghCatFolx, is undisturbed. I have moved them around, used different things to
- [Do You Know Their Name? The Tragic Death of an Unidentified Trans Person in Oklahoma City](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/09/do-you-know-their-name-the-tragic-death-of-an-unidentified-trans-person-in-oklahoma-city/): On July 13, 2025, a person was found unresponsive at a home in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma and later died. They remain formally unidentified. There is reason to suggest they were trans, but there's no clarity yet. They may have used the name Elisa Wilson or be associated with the name Luis Bekkins. They are of
- [My Friend Amy Sent me a PSL Care Package from New York](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/09/my-friend-amy-sent-me-a-psl-care-package-from-new-york/): My friend Amy is pretty awesome. I don't think she hears that often enough. I don't think she believes it to be true. So I am putting it on the official record. I have known Amy since at least 1975 so I should know. Recently, she asked me - oh so innocently - if i
- [Give Now - Donor Pledges 100% Match for Pet Food Pantry Donations, Today Through Saturday](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/09/give-now-donor-pledges-100-match-for-pet-food-pantry-donations-today-through-saturday/): A donor has generously pledged a 100% match on all donations (food and financial) thru Saturday - donations to the Dr. John Ruffing VMD Pet Food Pantry. We are based in Manchester on the Northside. Over 70 households are registered from around Allegheny County. We need 250 pounds of food to reach our goal. GoFundMe
- [Urgent Update: Local Pet Food Pantry Needs 250 Pounds Donated](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/09/urgent-update-local-pet-food-pantry-needs-250-pounds-donated/): Dr. John P. Ruffing VMD Pet Food Pantry Supports 70+ Caretakers and Households Earlier this month, we informed you that the Dr. John P. Ruffing VMD Pet Food Pantry was almost out of supplies for our 70+ caretakers and households. We had to cancel our September distribution. You came through and donated over 400 pounds
- [Nostalgia and Trauma: How Cleaning My Room Reminds Me Why I Have So Much Clothing](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/09/nostalgia-and-trauma-how-cleaning-my-room-reminds-me-why-i-have-so-much-clothing/): This weekend, I had a lot of time and an empty house so I decided to tackle a few tasks for me - tasks that would make me feel more comfortable, more satisfied, more content I guess. Laundry was a big one. I have a lot of laundry packed in IKEA bags. I had off-season
- [Oh, my darling, knock three times](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/09/oh-my-darling-knock-three-times/): Today, I made my favorite casserole- chicken divan - along with a pile of brown rice. Today was a day. Laundry. Therapy. Blogging. Catching up with friends. Oh, I remembered to water the mums. Maybe relationships are like casseroles - you show me your recipe, I change something and share it back. What you consider
- [Two years ago, I launched a GoFundMe for legal/living expenses. More than 300 of you have responded so far.](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/09/two-years-ago-i-launched-a-gofundme-for-legal-living-expenses-more-than-300-of-you-have-responded-so-far/): View this post on Instagram A post shared by Sue Kerr (@pghlesbian)
- [Happy Two Year Crowdiversary. What an awkward way to acknowledge an awkward situation.](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/09/happy-two-year-crowdiversary-what-an-awkward-way-to-acknowledge-an-awkward-situation/): On this date in 2023, my friends Melissa and Diane helped me to get this crowdfund started It was a Saturday morning after an anxious night. I had called RESOLVE to ask for their assistance getting my prescription medications from my home - I was still homeless, staying with friends at that point. So I
- [Sitting cross-legged on the floor 25 or 6 to 4](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/09/sitting-cross-legged-on-the-floor-25-or-6-to-4/): I stayed up too late last night and woke up late, the sort of late start that makes your crotchety and out of sorts for hours until you shake yourself back. I was late enough to have to reschedule an appointment with a very understanding medical provider. Coffee helped. It is the time of year
- ["Five Nights at Freddy's Is this where you want to be?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/09/five-nights-at-freddys-is-this-where-you-want-to-be/): I'm on my own for the next five days - just me and the cats. And the groundhogs. Raccoons. Possum. A few noisy neighbors. Today, I had therapy, followed by a turkey sandwich piled high with lettuce. When I got up to get a napkin, Coco - the turkey obsessed demon - dragged it onto
- [Orange Pumpkin Land Rover Defender is Available for Trunk-or-Treating](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/09/orange-pumpkin-land-rover-defender-is-available-for-trunk-or-treating/): If you want a big orange pumpkin-like vehicle at your trunk-or-treating event, let us know. Here's why we are the perfect participant ... we can roll out the candy and also store donations of pet food. Contact us at folx@pghlgbtq.org
- [The Neil Diamond Story Fills the Benedum with Beautiful Music](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/09/the-neil-diamond-story-fills-the-benedum-with-beautiful-music/): But I got an emptiness deep insideAnd I've tried, but it won't let me goAnd I'm not a man who likes to swearBut I never cared for the sound of being alone I like Neil Diamond. His songs peppered my childhood then slid into the mellow soft rock of my young adulthood. Melancholy rock might
- [In the 90's, the Mormon Calvary Saved a Food Pantry](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/09/in-the-90s-the-mormon-calvary-saved-a-food-pantry/): Update on the Closure of the Pittsburgh Pet Food Pantry Pittsburgh has been responsive - 27 people have ordered items from our wishlists. It is a little hard to know the quantity until they arrive. But 27 is lovely and will help us be prepared for October. I'll admit I was hoping for an autumn
- [My Updated Review of Giant Eagle's Curbside Services and How to Maybe Get Free Delivery](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/09/my-updated-review-of-giant-eagles-curbside-services-and-how-to-maybe-get-free-delivery/): Since the pandemic, I've been a pretty consistent Giant Eagle shopper, predominantly using Curbside Express or Home Delivery. I like supporting a locally owned company, a unionized company, and a company that includes people with disabilities in their workforce. I know the financial prices might be higher, but those things are prices we pay or
- [Update: Reasons Why a Pittsburgh Pet Food Pantry is Closing Temporarily](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/09/update-reasons-why-a-pittsburgh-pet-food-pantry-is-closing-temporarily/): As we announced, the Dr. John P. Ruffing VMD Pet Food Pantry has to close for September because of a lack of donations. I didn't really get much feedback. Chalked that up to there being so much wrong in the world, so much bad news that this was just more. Did I expect the calvary
- [Has My Tunnel Vision About Blogging All Of These Years Contributed To The Erosion Of My Relationship and Marriage?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/09/has-my-tunnel-vision-about-blogging-all-of-these-years-contributed-to-the-erosion-of-my-relationship-and-marriage/): This blog isn't exactly a diary or journal. I do share a lot of my life, at least the interesting parts. At the very least, the interesting to me parts. It is 10:32 on a Saturday night in September. Earlier today, I wrestled some cat food bags and did the dishes. Then I had a
- [Biracial Trans Man, Sam Nordquist, 24, Missing from Minnesota, Tortured and Killed in Canandaigua, New York](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/02/biracial-trans-man-sam-nordquist-24-missing-from-minnesota-tortured-and-killed-in-canandaigua-new-york/): CN: torture, murder, transgender identity This will be an ongoing investigation. But what we know now is: Sam Nordquist was born in Red Wing, Minnesota and lived most recently in St. Paul, Minnesota. He identified as biracial. In the missing person's postings, Sam's family said he had about 22 tattoos, including an owl tattoo on
- [Trans Cherokee woman Aubrey Dameron, 25, was missing for six years. Her remains were found, but there are few answers.](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/09/trans-cherokee-woman-aubrey-dameron-25-was-missing-for-six-years-her-remains-were-found-but-there-are-few-answers/): “It's so scary that that can just happen to you,” Love said. “You can just disappear off the face of the earth for years and nobody can find you. And it's so wrong.” Aubrey Dameron, a young Cherokee transgender woman left her family’s house in Grove. Oklahoma on March 9, 2019. She was never seen
- [Reasons Why a Pittsburgh Pet Food Pantry is Closing Temporarily](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/09/reasons-why-a-pittsburgh-pet-food-pantry-is-closing-temporarily/): PET FOOD PANTRY temporarily closed due to lack of donations. We are sorry to inform our neighbors that the Dr. John P. Ruffing VMD Pet Food Pantry will not be distributing in September due to lack of pet food. The pantry has over 70 registered households and caretakers. Based on Pittsburgh's Northside, they serve families
- [Ballroom Legend Karmin Wells Was Killed in Detroit. Her killer remains on the loose.](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/09/ballroom-legend-karmin-wells-was-killed-in-detroit-her-killer-remains-on-the-loose/): Karmin Wells, a 37-year-old Black trans woman, was killed in Detroit on May 25, 2025. Her killer remains unidentified. The Crime Detroit Police, who suspect the slaying was a set-up, said Wells arranged to meet a man for a date at her house in the 15400 block of Troester St., at around 11 a.m. Police
- [Cartoonist Joe Wos Celebrates the Amazing Friends We Meet Along the Way: a Seven With Sue (+1) Q&A](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/09/cartoonist-joe-wos-celebrates-the-amazing-friends-we-meet-along-the-way-a-seven-with-sue-1-qa/): "… but ultimately they teach us patience and persistence. I think those are the most important qualities to succeed at anything. Solving a simple maze gives us a sense of accomplishment, we are rewarded for patience and persistence. That’s an important lesson to learn." In our reconstituted Q&A series, Seven with Sue (+1), we are exploring the
- [Here's the Truth About Holidays After a Divorce](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/09/heres-the-truth-about-holidays-after-a-divorce/): It is a crisp autumish Sunday afternoon this August 31 in the year 2025. Tomorrow is Labor Day. I did have plans for a project that fell through, so I am left to my own devices. Chores, laundry, nap. In the before-times, three day holiday weekends usually included housework, a project, and - this is
- [Every now and then I get a little bit angry. And I know I've got to get out and cry.](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/08/every-now-and-then-i-get-a-little-bit-angry-and-i-know-ive-got-to-get-out-and-cry/): Honoring the lives and acknowledging the deaths of trans victims of violence The disappearance of trans and queer identities from federal and national databases is having a terrible impact. This is especially true for missing living members of our community who might be found alive and safe. But the sadness of unnamed decedents, of those
- [Idaho trans teen Onyx Cornish was shot to death by their father. They are at least the seventh trans victim of filicide in past decade](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/08/idaho-trans-teen-onyx-cornish-was-shot-to-death-by-their-father-they-are-at-least-the-seventh-trans-victim-of-filicide-in-past-decade/): In a horrifying act, an 18-year-old trans and queer teen was shot to death by their own father. Their name was Onyx Cornish. This took place in Caldwell, Idaho on Tuesday, August 19, 2025. The Crime PEOPLE magazine published details from the probably cause affidavit. This is hard to read. I have modified to correct
- [What is Coming to Pittsburgh Live Theater This Fall 2025](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/08/what-is-coming-to-pittsburgh-live-theater-this-fall-2025/): What's better than a Sunday matinee on a crisp autumn weekend? Don't laugh. I'm excited the season begins soon. Even writing 'the season' feels so festive. The previous season has been a powerhouse - Witch at Carnegie Stage, Miss Julie via PICT, POTUS at City Theatre, 12 Angry Men at New Hazlett, Christmas at Pemberley
- [How to cope with relationship trauma and recovery](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/08/how-to-cope-with-relationship-trauma-and-recovery/): It feels important to acknowledge this day, this anniversary of a terrible series of events two years ago that upended my life forever. You can read the details here. The details matter, of course, but at the same time - it is today that matters. My due process rights were violated. I was homeless for
- [Betty Who, Lesbophobia, and the Unacknowledged Trauma of Bisexual Erasure](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/08/betty-who-lesbophobia-and-the-unacknowledged-trauma-of-bisexual-erasure/): I've read a few thought pieces on a recent interview out bisexual singer Betty Who gave. She was talking about the recent news from several queer women who are now in relationships with men we are to presume are cisgender heterosexual. Similar to Betty Who. She got a bit snarky and riled up the lesbians
- [27-year-old Trans Cyclist Fatally Hit By a Car,  Driver Leaves the Scene](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/08/27-year-old-trans-cyclist-fatally-hit-by-a-car-driver-leaves-the-scene/): A 27-year-old white trans woman is the latest recorded victim of fatal violence in Louisville, Kentucky. Blair Sawyer was riding her bicycle when she was hit by a moving car, then fell off her bike with fatal injuries. Police say the impact caused the bicyclist to be knocked off. The driver did not stop, continuing
- [31 year old Hairstylist and Black Trans Woman Kasí Rhea shot dead in Lynchburg, Virginia](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/08/31-year-old-hairstylist-and-black-trans-woman-kasi-rhea-shot-dead-in-lynchburg-virginia/): A Black trans woman, Kasí Rhea, died from gun shot injuries in Lynchburg, Virginia on Monday, August 18, 2025. The 31 year old woman was found dead in the front yard of a home in the 1100 block of Rivermont Avenue around 8:58 p.m. Law enforcement and media have misgendered and deadnamed Kasí . At approximately 8:58
- [How to help me with housing](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/08/how-to-help-me-with-housing/): After I wrote the blog post "Here’s the truth about housing after a divorce" I received two questions - "What are you going to do?" and "Why aren't you mobilizing your followers?" I don't know what I'm going to do. The post laid out the assorted options. I have to believe there is a way
- [Black Trans Woman Kamora Woods, 27, Was Shot to Death in Indianapolis](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/08/black-trans-woman-kamora-woods-27-was-shot-to-death-in-indianapolis/): The worst kind of horrifying moment for Danielle Dehoniesto was when she found her 27-year-old Black trans daughter, Kamora Woods, dead on the floor from a gunshot wound. Her mother found Kamora half-naked in her bedroom, shot in the head. This was June 26, 2025 in Indianapolis. Police determined that Kamora died June 25, 2025
- [These are your neighbors spewing violence and hate](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/08/these-are-your-neighbors-spewing-violence-and-hate/): Content Note: racism, gender, body autonomy, rape, immigration, violence, mental health. Read at your own risk. Some of the comments I've received lately on FB and Instagram. These are your neighbors spewing violence and hate. Why share? For a permanent record. I'd really like to tell the guy that I lived in the DMV for
- [Trans Latina Rosa Martinez Machuca, 24, Among Murder Victims of Target Shooting in Austin](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/08/trans-latina-rosa-martinez-machuca-24-among-murder-victims-of-target-shooting-in-austin/): A shooting outside of a Target in Austin, Texas on August 11 claimed three lives, including a trans woman who was an employee. Also killed were a 4 year old girl and her grandfather. The shooter was a 32-year-old White male who offered no explanations for his actions. The Crime Rosa Martinez Machuca, a trans
- [Here's the truth about housing after a divorce](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/08/heres-the-truth-about-housing-after-a-divorce/): As you know I'm in the middle of a divorce. Contentious, one might say. It has been very rough. So many legal questions. We have been together since 2003, lived together since 2005, and domestic partners since 2006. We married in 2021. So its a 2.5 year marriage and a 16 year partnership, a 18.5
- [And middle-aged woman really are invisible](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/08/and-middle-aged-woman-really-are-invisible/): It is true that middle-aged women are invisible in many spaces, at least those I occupy. I literally take up 225 lbs and 5'3" of space, but that is compacted and impacted until my body remains but my essence is this small overlooked thing. One example is how I rushed, crammed, fit in, scheduled, rescheduled,
- [Crisis alert: The Dr. John P. Ruffing VMD Pet Food Pantry faces dwindling inventory, fewer donations, and more households registering](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/08/the-dr-john-p-ruffing-vmd-pet-food-pantry-is-facing-a-second-crisis-this-summer-with-a-dwindling-inventory-and-increased-registration/): Things are dire with the Dr. John P. Ruffing VMD Pet Food Pantry. I'm out of ideas. We can't get the shed up. To get started, here's a sweet video clip of two bonded cats born outside separately in 2019. They've lived here ever since. Spencer Cassadine is on the left, Kinzua on the right.
- [Will the Supreme Court Overturn Marriage Equality? What Does That Mean for Domestic Partnerships?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/08/will-the-supreme-court-overturn-marriage-equality-what-does-that-mean-for-domestic-partnerships/): Marriage equality is going to fall. Marriage equality is going to fall. Soon, much sooner than we expected. Potentially very soon. I’ve been saying this all along and pleading with everyone to strengthen functional marriage equivalents (domestic partnerships, civil unions, etc) especially in states like Pennsylvania. PA has a ‘trigger law’ - a Defense of
- [We Are Bringing Back 'Seven with Sue (+1)' Q&A Series Focusing on Artists and Creators](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/08/we-are-bringing-back-seven-with-sue-1-qa-series-focusing-on-artists-and-creators/): After the disastrous spring run of our Political Q&A series, I've decided to pull it. If the Mayoral candidates failed to see value in a 10 year labor of love, that says something to other candidates. Maybe I'll revive it, maybe not. Still, I really do enjoy the Q&A so exciting news ... we are
- [This Post Brought to You By the #LAMusicFestival](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/08/this-post-brought-to-you-by-the-lamusicfestival/): Have You Heard About the #LAMusicFestival
- [When Occasional Empty Spaces Get You Down](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/08/when-occasional-empty-spaces-get-you-down/): I am restless today, but in that quiet way where my body is still while my mind leaps from topic to topic. The plan for today was to clean the cab of Gertie. She's a mess. But it feels like 90 degrees outside so I'll have to wait a few hours. My back hurts. I
- [Our 2025 List of Pittsburgh and Pennsylvania Pride Festivals in August, September, and October](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/08/our-2025-list-of-pittsburgh-and-pennsylvania-pride-festivals-in-august-september-and-october/): There's been a lot of Pride events in 2025, but there are still 12 events and probably more. August 2025 2-3 August 2025 Weirton Pride 9 August 2025 Pittsburgh Transgender Community Picnic 9 August 2025 Knoebel’s Park Pride Picnic 17 August 2025 Lehigh Valley Pride 23 August 2025 Akron, OH Pride 24 August 2025 Pike County Pride September 2025 27 September
- [16 People Detained by ICE After Violent Raids at Emiliano's Local Restaurant](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/08/16-people-detained-by-ice-after-violent-raids-at-emilianos-local-restaurant/): An Immigrations and Customs Enforcement (ICE) raid on two restaurants in the locally owned and operated Mexican chain, Emiliano's, left unprecedented damage and destruction in its wake. ICE took 16 of our Pittsburgh neighbors into custody from the restaurants in Richland Township and Cranberry Township. Our neighbors. People who were working hard in a difficult
- [Women Dressed as Handmaids Silently Follow GOP Congressman](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/08/women-dressed-as-handmaids-silently-follow-gop-congressman/): I have watched this a million times. It is a brilliant action - legal but creepy, the perfect song, highly recognizable costumes, and easily replicated with any GOP elected. The action is the brainchild of 'Handmaids of Nebraska' View this post on Instagram A post shared by COURIER (@couriernewsroom)
- [Vacation, all I ever wanted Vacation, had to get away Vacation, meant to be spent alone](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/08/vacation-all-i-ever-wanted-vacation-had-to-get-away-vacation-meant-to-be-spent-alone/): Two weeks before the #Decommitment in August 2023, we went on a week long vacation in Western PA. We stayed in a sweet B&B then our favorite motel by the shore of Lake Erie. Little did I know it might be my last. I don't have the resources for even a modest trip - I
- [Quantum Theater Explores Comedic Subtext of Chekhov with Queer Adaptation of 'The Seagull'](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/08/quantum-theater-explores-comedic-subtext-of-chekhov-with-queer-adaptation-of-the-seagull/): Note: This play contains an incomplete and a completed suicide, not typical fare for a comedy as I describe it. Also, important content notes. Also this might be slightly spoilerish for a play written 129 years ago. It isn't often that the location of a play is the setting. Quantum Theater's production of 'Seagull' breaks
- [Pghlesbian Named Finalist for BlueSky and Threads Acounts in Best of Pittsburgh poll. Vote Daily Through August 22.](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/08/pghlesbian-named-finalist-for-bluesky-and-threads-acounts-in-best-of-pittsburgh-poll-vote-daily-through-august-22/): I was pleasantly surprised to be named a finalist in two categories of the 'Best of Pittsburgh' 2025 awards - for Best BlueSky account and Best Threads account. I have a much bigger following on Instagram and Facebook, but I do spend time on these platforms and regularly share content I find important. I've blogged
- [](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/07/42073/): People, don't make me beg for crumbs. Don't I deserve abundance, flowing and growing Knowing that I need to be wrapped, swaddled in comforts I was denied. Perhaps you were, too. Perhaps the voices were not lullabies, but hushing and shushing your cries. What we needed became what they thought we should have. Or not.
- [What Happened to Transwoman Blair Lumpkins Crabb in San Francisco?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/07/what-happened-to-transwoman-blair-lumpkins-crabb-in-san-francisco/): Blair Lumpkins-Crabb, 31, has been missing from San Francisco, CA since June 26, 2023 after leaving a hospital. She also used the name Blair Styles (Styles is one of her middle names.) That's what I read on Facebook. Nothing more. Well, I found a RIP blog post from someone I assume is a cousin. I've
- [Trans woman Georgina Riva de Neyra was found dead in Los Angeles in 2022. No one claimed her body.](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/07/trans-woman-georgina-riva-de-neyra-was-found-dead-in-los-angeles-in-2022-no-one-claimed-her-body/): Trans woman Georgina Riva de Neyra found deceased in Los Angeles, CA on Jun. 16, 2022 and still unclaimed. No picture has been found of Georgina From the NamUs report (where she is misgendered and deadnamed) The decedent was found unresponsive on the sidewalk and pronounced. The decedent is believed to be transient. The decedent
- [Dog (and CAT!) Days of Summer are Here and our Pet Food Pantry Needs Help](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/07/dog-and-cat-days-of-summer-are-here-and-our-pet-food-pantry-needs-help/): Dog (and CAT!) Days of Summer are Here (again) This period of sweltering weather coincides with the year’s heliacal (meaning “at sunrise”) rising of Sirius, the Dog Star. Sirius is part of the constellation Canis Majoris—the “Greater Dog”—which is where Sirius gets its canine nickname, as well as its official name, Alpha Canis Majoris. Sirius
- [Help identify this Black Trans woman found in San Francisco](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/07/help-identify-this-black-trans-woman-found-in-san-francisco/): This unidentified Black Trans woman found deceased on June 30, 2025 in San Francisco, CA. She was found in public view on the sidewalk on Lilly Street and Franklin Street. Her hair black, her eyes brown. Her height was 5' 10"(70 inches) and she weighed 169 lbs. They believe she is under 50. There is
- [Epstein Files, Civil Commitment Executive Order Remind Us Why Process and Compassion are Due to All Americans. Now Let's Make Sure Local Leaders Know.](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/07/epstein-files-civil-commitment-executive-order-remind-us-why-process-and-compassion-are-due-to-all-americans-now-lets-make-sure-local-leaders-know/): The pain of this week is pretty hard to describe. I'll try. First, there is the Epstein files/lists/cases and victims. Every news cycle is filled with debates about who is on the list, if the list exists, and should it be revealed. Pittsburgh's own Congresswoman Summer Lee made a bold move - a subcommittee of
- [Q&A with Hannah Davy: This is not the end, we will keep fighting and never give up.](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/07/qa-with-hannah-davy-this-is-not-the-end-we-will-keep-fighting-and-never-give-up/): What message do you have for trans and queer youth? You are 100% worthy of being here, being you, and having the care you deserve. There are many of us who are here trying our hardest to keep that for you. We see you, we hear you, and we want you to know that we
- [Best of Pittsburgh Nominations Open via City Paper - Here are my suggestions](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/07/best-of-pittsburgh-nominations-open-via-city-paper-here-are-my-suggestions/): It is that time again - the reader voted Best of Pittsburgh project of the City Paper. Nominate until 07/26/2025 @ 11:59 PM Eastern Vote starting 08/01/2025 @ 12:00 AM Eastern Go nominate your heart out for all of your favorites through Saturday night. Then the CP staff tally the top nominees in each category to create a
- [Black Trans Man Tony McDade Killed by Police in Florida](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2020/05/black-trans-man-tony-mcdade-killed-by-police-in-florida/): The fatal police shooting we aren't discussing involved a 38-year-old Black trans man named Tony McDade. Tony was killed by police this past Wednesday in Tallahassee, Florida. He's accused of stabbing another man to death immediately prior to being shot five times by a police officer. His final Facebook live shares his plans to retaliate
- [My 'Burgh Vivant Q&A with Jill Sobule #7WithSue](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2019/08/my-burgh-vivant-qa-with-jill-sobule-7withsue/): Welcome to the second edition of Seven with Sue, a Q&A series with local creators and artists. Each edition will ask seven questions (plus demographics) exploring the creator’s experience and views on all things arts and culture in Pittsburgh. The questions are crafted by our in-house Q&A contributor, Sue Kerr. Up next is Jill Sobule,
- [Pittsburgh Native Laurie Glodowski Directs, Produces CLO Debut of Madame Clicquot with the CLO (and her daughters): A Seven with Sue Q&A](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/05/pittsburgh-native-laurie-glodowski-directs-produces-clo-debut-of-madame-clicquot-with-the-clo-and-her-daughters-a-seven-with-sue-qa/): For the summer arts and culture season, we've revived 'Seven With Sue' - a sort of quick Q&A with seven questions (and a plus one!) To kick off this new-ish series, we are talking this week with creators involved with Madame Clicquot opening on Thursday. Pittsburgh CLO is proud to present this exclusive world premiere
- [A Black Trans Woman Was Threatened, Chased in Edgewood Town Center by Knife Wielding Man While People Just Watched](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/07/a-black-trans-woman-was-threatened-chased-in-edgewood-town-center-by-knife-wielding-man-while-people-just-watched/): A Black trans woman was approached, threatened, and chased while standing in the Edgewood Town Center just outside of Pittsburgh. A bustling retail shopping center, it is also home to one of the region's trans competent health providers, Metro Community Health Center. The woman who is protecting her privacy and safety by not using her
- [Actor Phoebe Lloyd Talks About Queering Chekhov in a new local production: a Seven (+1) With Sue Q&A](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/07/actor-phoebe-lloyd-talks-about-queering-chekhov-in-a-new-local-production-a-seven-1-with-sue-qa/): Every time I answer a question about Constantine's life and desires, another seven are created and I continue to find work in the work. ~ Phoebe Lloyd The hallway of a local theater group is covered with seemingly hundreds of framed playbills, stretching back decades. Each time I pass by, craning my neck to make
- [Q&A with Katherine: Many Of Us Will Always Choose to "Aid and Abet" For Trans Kids](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/07/qa-with-katherine-many-of-us-will-always-choose-to-aid-and-abet-for-trans-kids/): What message do you have for trans and queer youth? We love you. We will fight for you, always. Your only job is to be a kid, to learn who you are, to experiment, to fuck up, to keep going. Our job as the adults who love you is to protect you. They want to
- [How Responding to a Crowdfund Shows You Understand the Assignment](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/07/how-responding-to-a-crowdfund-shows-you-understand-the-assignment/): My friend Melissa set up a crowdfund for my legal and living expenses in September 2023. It is still active and still needed. I've posted 48 updates, about 2x month, to keep donors and supporters informed on the legal issues, the living issues, and other items. This is the 48th update pasted below. I work
- [20 Years Ago Today This House Became My Home](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/07/20-years-ago-today-this-house-became-my-home/): Settle down, it'll all be clearThe trouble it might drag you downIf you get lost, you can always be found 20 years ago this very day, we loaded up the UHaul at my home in West Mifflin, drove to Manchester where we unloaded for what I thought would be forever. Friends and family had helped
- [Trans intersex US citizen Ezra Hulett, 24, brutally detained, then dies in a Dominican Republic immigration camp](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/07/trans-intersex-us-citizen-ezra-hulett-24-brutally-detained-then-dies-in-a-dominican-republic-immigration-camp/): In June 23, 2025, a 24-year-old American citizen was found dead in custody of an immigration detention center in the Dominican Republic. Ezra Hulett identified as an intersex transgender person. He died at the Haina Detention Center in the Dominican Republic. Ezra also used the name Ezri Hajiune. To the best of my knowledge, Hajiune
- [Violent Assault Leaves Trans Woman Seriously Injured in Washington DC](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/07/violent-assault-leaves-trans-woman-seriously-injured-in-washington-dc/): On June 29, Cayla Calhoun a 48-year-old white trans woman, was violently assaulted after leaving her DC workplace in the early hours. Calhoun, a transplate from Alabama, described leaving work on her hoverboard only to find herself contending with three men on scooters physically and verbally assaulting her. Her last memory was being shoved off
- [Q&A with Kailey Andrew: Gender Affirming Healthcare is Legal in Pennsylvania](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/07/qa-with-kailey-andrew-gender-affirming-healthcare-is-legal-in-pennsylvania/): What message do you have for trans and queer youth? You are not alone. Don’t let them erase you. This isn’t the first time or the last time that trans people will have to fight to exist - don’t give up the fight. Read up on your history and take pride in it. Make art. Write
- [Open Letter to UPMC From Staff Calling for Reinstatement of Gender-Affirming Healthcare for Youth and Adults Under 19](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/07/open-letter-to-upmc-from-staff-calling-for-reinstatement-of-gender-affirming-healthcare-for-youth-and-adults-under-19/): I have been asked to publish this letter that I think speaks for itself. I will be publishing Q&A's with some of the employees leading this effort to protect trans youth. I asked them the same questions. The differences in their answers may offer some insight into the tactics UPMC is using to sacrifice trans
- [The silence of a falling star lights up a purple sky. I wonder where you are.](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/07/the-silence-of-a-falling-star-lights-up-a-purple-sky-i-wonder-where-you-are/): The lonely work of memorializing trans neighbors. One of the worst moments as a blogger is when I publish a post memorializing a trans neighbor, take a breath and realize I have to write another one. That always hurts. Each time this happens, I take a breath and let it out, feeling the fury and
- [Status of missing Canton drag artist JJ Godbey now a homicide investigation with suspect in custody](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/07/status-of-missing-canton-drag-artist-jj-godbey-now-a-homicide-investigation-with-suspect-in-custody/): Last week, we reported on the disappearance of a 26 year old trans drag artist from Canton, Ohio. Sadly, police have now determined this is a homicide investigation. Canton police announced late Thursday that the disappearance of JJ Godbey is now a homicide investigation. They’ve charged Daniel Mattay, Ryan’s former boyfriend, with four felonies: murder,
- [Did Hill's Department Store Blow Up Your Sky Every Fourth of July? Don't Read This Post.](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/07/did-hills-department-store-blow-up-your-sky-every-fourth-of-july-dont-read-this-post/): In 2014, I wrote a blog post about the Fourth of July, focusing on things we saw in movies but didn't experience in real life. The thing most people take away from that post is my reference to the annual firework displays hosted by Hill's Department Stores around the region. Something about that simple experience
- [I need your help funding my two ongoing legal battles](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/07/i-need-your-help-funding-my-two-ongoing-legal-battles/): It has been almost two years since the event I now refer to as the 'Decommitment' hit its full stride and while calm right now, things are still roiling under the surface. You can read the backstory here including many updates. And it has been verified by GoFundMe - they've been so helpful. Here's the
- [26 Year Old Drag Artist Missing from Canton, Ohio](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/07/26-year-old-drag-artist-missing-from-canton-ohio/): Ryan "JJ" Godbey was seen on June 19, 2025 departing a local LGBTQ club, Darlin's Crew. They were a regular performer. Note - I am unsure how JJ identifies so I am using gender neutral pronouns. JJ's family grew worried the next day when they didn't show up for a performance at a local queer
- [Trans Woman Hope Youngblood, 49, Killed on Los Angeles Highway](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/06/trans-woman-hope-youngblood-49-killed-on-los-angeles-highway/): Hope Lyca Youngblood was 49 years old when she was killed in vehicular incident in Los Angeles on June 7, 2025. Hope identified as a trans woman. [They were] struck and killed Saturday by multiple vehicles near a freeway offramp to the Santa Monica (10) Freeway in the Palms community of Los Angeles, authorities said.The
- [Little Pridefests Everywhere and the Fluidity of Pride Organizing](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/06/little-pridefests-everywhere-and-the-fluidity-of-pride-organizing/): Little Pridefests Everywhere and the waves of Pride organizing in Pittsburgh and Beyond. This is a draft of an essay I submmitted to multiple sites about the nature of a Pride festival. It was not accepted for publication because they publish Pride pieces in June. I think they missed my point. ~ Sue Once upon
- [Our 2025 List of Pittsburgh and Pennsylvania Pride Festivals - Now up to 88](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/05/our-2025-list-of-pittsburgh-and-pennsylvania-pride-festivals/): I created a list of about 60 76 Pridefest events across Pennsylvania and in the tri-state area. Sadly, Google trashed my formatting so I'm going to have to go back and do that by hand. But you can use what I've shared to search Google or even FB/Instagram for details. It is very important that
- [Generational Differences in Social Media Solidarity, How Ageism Shows Up](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/06/generational-differences-in-social-media-solidarity-how-ageism-shows-up/): I was recently contacted by a 'content creator' whose work I had shared. I used the attribution mark, I tagged the account, but she was not happy with me because I wasn't interacting with the content - likes and comments - and she assumed I was just building up my own page without giving back.
- [Attachment disorder, bipolar depression, and me](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/06/attachment-disorder-bipolar-depression-and-me/): I've been feeling down the past few days - overwhelmed by the media I consume, processing some difficult things in therapy this week, not eating well, not having much energy. Some of that is the weather of course. But June is historically a tough month for me with regard to bipolar depression. I have what's
- [Review: The Queen of My Dreams Explores Queer Pakistani Themes](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/06/review-the-queen-of-my-dreams-explores-queer-pakistani-themes/): My third indie movie review with Asian Americans, Native Hawaiians, and Pacific Islander (AANHPI) characters (watching the fourth now) was a little disappointing. The story focuses on a mother-daughter relationship between Pakistani-Canadian Azra, a young queer filmmaker, and her traditional Pakistani mother, Mariam. Azra's father and Mariam's husband dies at the beginning of the film.
- [Contributing to This Cat Vet Visit Will Help Us Develop a New Pet Food Project](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/06/contributing-to-this-cat-vet-visit-will-help-us-develop-a-new-pet-food-project/): I developed a theory over 30 years ago while working in social service ministry in Western Kentucky - if we could find ways to help folx out with small problems, we'd avoid a lot of bigger problems. I saw this play out nearly daily in the rural community with no traffic lights and nearly 100
- [Help 16 year old neglected cat get another chance now with updates](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2024/10/help-16-year-old-neglected-cat-get-another-chance/): Peyton is doing very well. She had significant dental surgery - over 15 teeth pulled. The dental surgeon thinks that she has a congenital deformity in her sinuses - or she was hurt badly - and one dissolved hence the ongoing discharge. So that may never stop, but her sneezing, coughing,etc is not infectious. It
- [The Real Reason I've Been Blogging for 20 Years](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/06/the-real-reason-ive-been-blogging-for-20-years/): If you had asked me last year or even last week to specify my blog audience, I would have said "the LGBTQ community" or "white cisgender people who need to read this" or some such statement. Those things are true, but they are not quite complete. I am writing this blog for my six niblings
- [Dear white women. Here are seven things you need to consider on Juneteenth](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/06/dear-white-women-here-are-seven-things-you-need-to-consider-on-juneteenth/): View this post on Instagram A post shared by Lance Tsosie (@modern_warrior__) View this post on Instagram A post shared by Sue Kerr (@pghlesbian) View this post on Instagram A post shared by Blair Imani Ali • Smarter in Seconds (@blairimani) View this post on Instagram A post shared by Joel Bervell (@joelbervell) View this
- [Brian Wilson, Love, Mercy, and What God Only Knows](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/06/brian-wilson-love-mercy-and-what-god-only-knows/): "I may not always love you" As I move through the transformation of a divorce, I am humbled that I can look back at the past 20+ years and find those exquisite aching moments of happiness, joy, and beauty. Music is a language my spouse shared with me. She helped me level up from pop
- [My Fear of the Police Kept Me From Rallies in the Street](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/06/my-fear-of-the-police-kept-me-from-rallies-in-the-street/): I really wanted to participate in a No Kings rally today. But I was afraid. For 22 months, I've coped with the traumas of my interactions with police during and following the fraudulent involuntary civil commitment authorized by Allegheny County OBH on Sunday, August 27, 2023. The police failed me that day and on ensuing
- [And within the very public crisis of democracy lies the ongoing violent deaths of trans neighbors.](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/06/and-within-the-very-public-crisis-of-democracy-lies-the-ongoing-violent-deaths-of-trans-neighbors/): Posted on my Instagram feed, thoughts on the trans community. View this post on Instagram A post shared by Sue Kerr (@pghlesbian)
- [Cincinnati Black Trans Woman, Laura Schueler, Shot to Death](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/06/cincinnati-black-trans-woman-laura-schueler-shot-to-death/): Laura Schueler, a Black trans woman, was 47 when she was killed in Cincinnati, Ohio on Saturday, June 7, 2025. TransVitae and Planet Trans first covered her story. Local police responded to the deadly shooting on the 1500 block of Jonathan Avenue around 6:50 a.m. Saturday in the Evanston neighborhood. They found Laura at the
- [Here, we rise up and take the power back. We unify and watch our flag ascend to support our neighbors.](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/06/here-we-rise-up-and-take-the-power-back-we-unify-and-watch-our-flag-ascend-to-support-our-neighbors/): On June 2, 2025, I created a video appeal for the Dr. John P. Ruffing VMD Pet Food Pantry - we were/are running low on pet food. By the end of the week,we had received 890 pounds of dry food and $970 in $$ and gift cards. Maybe a few straggling donations will come in
- [Locally, Puttshack Sponsored Pridefest and Has a Month Long Promotion Supporting 'It Gets Better'](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/06/locally-puttshack-sponsored-pridefest-and-has-a-month-long-promotion-supporting-it-gets-better/): We spend a lot of our time pointing out the corporate entities who cowed to the Trump Administration's vicious mandates around Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion, especially Pride. So here's a little about one company that is sponsoring Pride events by donating a percentage of profits during June. Puttshack Pittsburgh is partnering once again with the It
- [Update on Pet Food Pantry Drive. Fantastic momentum - we just need $30 and a little more pet food](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/06/update-on-pet-food-pantry-drive-fantastic-momentum-we-just-need-30-and-a-little-more-pet-food/): View this post on Instagram A post shared by Sue Kerr (@pghlesbian)
- ['Wild Blue Yonder' Band Collecting Pet Food Donations at June 14 Concert](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/06/wild-blue-yonder-band-collecting-pet-food-donations-at-june-14-concert/): Our very first pet food drive of the season is hosted by local musical group 'Wild Blue Yonder' at their upcoming show in Dormont. We'll be there with a table and info. You can bring donations with you or donate virtually. View this post on Instagram A post shared by Parking Pad (@parking.pad)
- [A Q&A With the 2025 Pittsburgh Dyke March Organizers](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/06/a-qa-with-the-2025-pittsburgh-dyke-march-organizers/): Saturday, June 7 will mark the 15th anniversary of the Pittsburgh Dyke March, an institution that began formally in 2006. The stories of queer women, lesbians, dykes organizing in Pittsburgh stretch much further back. Be sure to check out our timeline and watch the Pgh Dyke March spaces for dyke history. This year's dyke march
- [The Pet Food Pantry Has Run Out of Dog Food](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/06/the-pet-food-pantry-has-run-out-of-dog-food/): View this post on Instagram A post shared by Sue Kerr (@pghlesbian)
- [RIP Loretta Swit. Thank you for being Major Margaret Houlihan](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/06/rip-loretta-swit-thank-you-for-being-major-margaret-houlihan/): When I was a child, I thought Major Margaret Houlihan was one of the prettiest, smartest women in the TV world. She had beautiful blond hair and was the head nurse so she was the best. She was one of the highest ranking officers. Her tent was pretty and well appointed. She had lovers who
- [The Purrfect Pride Shirt for Cat Folx](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/06/the-purrfect-pride-shirt-for-cat-folx/): Happy Pride. I did not go to Pittsburgh Pride because it was my final day of COVID quarantine. I did help distribute pet food, scooped several litter boxes, drafted a Q&A, and listened to a few episodes of a podcast about racial justice history. So that's cool. I also received my first inquiry from a
- [Black Trans Man Shy'Parius Dupree Shot to Death in Memphis](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/05/black-trans-man-shyparius-dupree-shot-to-death-in-memphis/): Shy'Parius Dupree, a Black Trans man, was shot on May 18, 2025, and died in the hospital in Memphis, Tennessee on May 19, 2025. He was 32. The Crime On May 18 Memphis Police Department Officers responded to the shooting at 12:10 a.m. at Range Line Road near James Road in a neighborhood known as
- [Donate extra tickets for the caretakers](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/06/donate-extra-tickets-for-the-caretakers/): As you know, the focus of the Dr. John P Ruffing VMD Pet Food Pantry is to support the folx, the people doing this work. Most of the time, we provide supplies and materials for their work. This week, something changed - we received gifts of extra tickets. One set was for a Pirates game
- [Mental Health Awareness Month: Revealing the Layers of My Mental Illness and Childhood Trauma](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/05/mental-health-awareness-month-revealing-the-layers-of-my-mental-illness-and-childhood-trauma/): Content Note: This post delves into mental health diagnoses, but also child abuse, childhood sexual violence, rape, abandonment, and more in great detail. An important piece of my mental health journey has been to embrace the different diagnoses. I have bipolar disorder Type I, I have severe anxiety, and I have complex trauma or cPTSD.
- [Video: Afternoons with Pretty Girl, a tail of a community cat](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/05/video-afternoons-with-pretty-girl-a-tail-of-a-community-cat/): If you'd like to support Pretty Giirl and her colony chums, we'd appreciate that. Anything you can do to support these families and caretakers is appreciated. Here’s how GoFundMe bit.lyGivePghCatFolx Venmo @ PittsburghLGBTQ Paypal.me/PittsburghLGBTQ Amazon Wishlist bit.ly/TheRuffList Chewy wishlist bit.ly/TheChewyList Donations can be dropped to: 1213 W. North Avenue Pittsburgh 15233 (steps to the bins) 1440 Faulsey Way 15233
- [I Didn't Win the Award, But I'm Part of the Story](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/05/i-didnt-win-the-award-but-im-part-of-the-story/): I have received some awards, honors, and maybe even a badge or two over the past 20 years of blogging. Now, an article about me has won a Golden Quill award for the journalist, Steve Mellon of the Pittsburgh Union Progress. He also won two other categories. Excellence in Written Journalism, Profile – Division 2: “Peering
- [Pittsburgh Native Janet Campbell Talks Costuming Lines for Madame Clicquot with the CLO: A Seven with Sue Q&A](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/05/pittsburgh-native-janet-campbell-talks-costuming-lines-for-madame-clicquot-with-the-clo-a-seven-with-sue-qa/): For the summer arts and culture season, we’ve revived ‘Seven With Sue’ – a sort of quick Q&A with seven questions (and a plus one!) To kick off this new-ish series, we are talking this week with creators involved with Madame Clicquot opening on Thursday. Pittsburgh CLO is proud to present this exclusive world premiere at the
- [And I have COVID, again. And Feel Cruddy.](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/05/and-i-have-covid-again-and-feel-cruddy/): I've chalked up my recent symptoms to allergies as one does in the spring. I noticed yesterday that I couldn't taste very well, but also again seemed to be allergies. I was very sick all night and all day, low grade fever, muscle aches, headache, etc. So, I called my PCP who ordered me to
- [Social Justice Actions Near Pittsburgh: May 22, 2025 ** New Feature](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/05/social-justice-actions-near-pittsburgh-may-22-2025-new-feature/): Opening note - I made a list of groups like Indivisible and Progress. It is at the end of the post. I will update as time goes by. And feel free to make a suggestion pghlesbian @ gmail. Welcome to our latest feature! Note to self – these posts have consistently been in the top
- [Riding in cars with boys - how exposure therapy resolved my trauma](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/05/riding-in-cars-with-boys-how-exposure-therapy-resolved-my-trauma/): In October 2023, I began writing about two specific trauma experiences arising from my experiences the previous August - police interactions and riding in cars. Since then I've been working to process both. This post is about the car trauma. How I realized I had car trauma Back then I wrote "Then we layer in
- [This is How Allegheny County Interprets Due Process Under the Pennsylvania Mental Health Law.](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/05/this-is-how-allegheny-county-interprets-due-process-under-the-pennsylvania-mental-health-law/): 'No Kings' Means 'Yes, Due Process' Right? Local government in Allegheny County might not agree. I think it is important you know that Allegheny County and UPMC are denying they have certain due process obligations in the involuntary civil commitment process. Allegheny County government is denying that they have certain due process obligations. Scroll to
- [Pittsburgh's Northside Pet Food Pantry Seeking Monthly Volunteers, Donations. Are You Willing to Drive Pet Food Distributions to Your Neighbors?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/05/pittsburghs-northside-pet-food-pantry-seeking-monthly-volunteers-donations-are-you-willing-to-drive-pet-food-distributions-to-your-neighbors/): Immediate Need for 120 lbs or 24 five pound bags The Dr. John P. Ruffinng VMD pet food pantry needs some volunteers for specific driving tasks to remain open. The main one is a 20 minute commitment. We distribute to X amount of people each Sunday dividihng our total caretakers into different weeks. The pantry
- [A one woman riot rejects calls for unity](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/05/a-one-woman-riot-rejects-calls-for-unity/): My most recent Instagram discovery is the artist MILCK. I should have known about her, maybe I did. I've said before that I dislike the artificiality of calls for unity. Unity is not a tent nor an umbrella, not even a physical place. Unity is a battle cry, a silent affirmation, a demand to know
- [Lettuce spread the butter, not the shame or stigma](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/05/lettuce-spread-the-butter-not-the-shame-or-stigma/): I regularly rely on a food pantry. Of course, I'm researching a blog post to destigmatize food insecurity resources. Because that's what I do. I talk about it openly with my circle of friends. I felt no shame or guilt about it. I meet the criteria of the pantry. No shame until today. Today, someone
- [Being Promoted to Middle Management as a Social Media Influencer](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/05/being-promoted-to-middle-management-as-an-social-media-influencer/): CN: anti-trans rhetoric, influencer, suicide, haters I hit a nice, fun milestone last night, reaching 50k followers on Instagram. Being a curious person, I dove deep into the world of followers and influencers and so forth. In return, every social media analytic company under the sun sent me an email. See, fun? But what does
- [Social Justice Actions Near Pittsburgh: May 15, 2025 ** New Feature](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/05/social-justice-actions-near-pittsburgh-may-15-2025-new-feature/): Welcome to week 3 of our latest feature! Note to self - these posts have consistently been in the top ten most read during May. There’s so much going on that sometimes it feels overwhelming to find the details, sift through the logistics, roll up your sleeves and get involved. Volunteers with local Indivisible chapters and other
- [What one place does this South Park small business owner think 'disgusting' LGBTQ people belong?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/05/what-one-place-does-this-south-park-small-business-owner-think-disgusting-lgbtq-people-belong/): Earlier in the week, I posted about the decisions by Mayor Ed Gainey and Mayoral candidate Corey O'Connor to not honor their commitment to complete our Political LGBTQ&A for next week's election. My post was deleted from some spaces on Facebook and other platforms because it was creating negative energy for the campaigns. Today I
- [I need help with daily living. Dr. Oz thinks I just need to be more patriotic.](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/05/i-need-help-with-daily-living-dr-oz-thinks-i-just-need-to-be-more-patriotic/): Overall, I think I've been a good citizen/resident of Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania. Imperfect, but I do fight the good fight. Still being declared totally and permanently disabled at age 40 was hard. Like many of you, I've internalized the belief that being productive aka working AND earning money sets the bar for being a good citizen,
- [That Time When Mayoral Candidates Gainey, O'Connor Gave Interviews to Gay White Men. Full Stop.](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/05/that-time-when-mayoral-candidates-gainey-oconnor-gave-interviews-to-gay-white-men-full-stop/): Both candidates for Mayor of the City of Pittsburgh made time for interviews with white gay men, but not a disabled queer lesbian who connected with the campaigns in February. It is disrespectful and takes me AND my readers for granted. At least the O'Connor campaign had the good manners to own their mistakes and
- [Mental Health Awareness Month Resists Stigma](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/05/mental-health-awareness-month-resists-stigma/): Over the past 20 years of blogging, my understanding of my mental health has deepened considerably. I share more and more often because I am always learning and because I know that one of the biggest threats to my mental health is stigma. Every time I post here or on my social media about my
- [Social Justice Actions Near Pittsburgh: May 8, 2025 ** New Feature](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/05/social-justice-actions-near-pittsburgh-may-8-2025-new-feature/): Welcome to week 2 of our latest feature! There’s so much going on that sometimes it feels overwhelming to find the details, sift through the logistics, roll up your sleeves and get involved. Volunteers with local Indivisible chapters and other froups work regularly to compile and distribute each week as do other organizers. I am not identifying
- [LGBTQ Media Reporting on Bar Raids, Anti-Trans Violence Reveals Systemic Weakness](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/05/lgbtq-media-reporting-on-bar-raids-anti-trans-violence-reveals-systemic-weakness/): On April 24, 2025, a 25 year old Black trans woman named Kelsey Elem was brutally murdered in St. Louis, Missouri. Local media reported on her death, as they do. I wrote a memorial post. And ... Where is the LGBTQ media? Young Black trans woman brutally murdered. 20 minutes away from the location where
- [Review: 'Come From Away' Changed My Relationship to Musicals](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/05/review-come-from-away-changed-my-relationship-to-musicals/): Here's a review secret - I don't love musicals. I grew up immersed in the old-school classics that my mother watched, they hold a special place in the nostalgia corner of my heart. But the tendency to convert everything that moves into a musical - Disney, children's books, movies - has left me skeptical of
- [25 year old Black trans woman fatally shot by boyfriend in St. Louis](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/05/25-year-old-black-trans-woman-fatally-shot-by-boyfriend-in-st-louis/): Her name was Kelsey Elem. She was 25 years old when her boyfriend killed her after an argument. They both lived in St. Louis. St. Louis County Police reported an altercation broke out in the 5800 block of Grace Avenue between Kelsey and her partner, Martino Lewis. Reportedly, an eyewitness overheard an argument. Elem's family
- [Social Justice Actions Near Pittsburgh: May 1, 2025 <-- New Feature](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/05/social-justice-actions-near-pittsburgh-may-1-2025-new-feature/): There's so much going on that sometimes it feels overwhelming to find the details, sift through the logistics, roll up your sleeves and get involved. Volunteers with local Indivisible chapters and other froups work regularly to compile and distribute each week as do other organizers. I am not identifying those folx by name to give
- [Never Any Extra Food, Never Enough Food - When the Pet Food Pantry Says No](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/04/never-any-extra-food-never-enough-food-when-the-pet-food-pantry-says-no/): The Dr. John P. Ruffing VMD Pet Food Pantry team spent the weekend packing up non-food donations like beds, trees, bowls, towels, blankets, and so forth. That's when we realized something problematic - we are going to run out of food at the end of May. We know you came through for us in February
- [Review: Intersectional Adaptation of 'Miss Julie' Stirs the Pot in Pittsburgh](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/04/review-intersectional-adaptation-of-miss-julie-stirs-the-pot-in-pittsburgh/): Spoilerish, reference to animal cruelty Some of you are familiar with the play Miss Julie from traditional interpretations of August Strindberg's 1888 play. Others may remember the storyline in the television show The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel where character actor Sophie Lenon decides to stage an ultimately disastrous version. The latter is how I first encountered
- [My First Earth Day was in 1990](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/04/my-first-earth-day-was-in-1990/): It was 1990. I was a college sophomore in Northern Virginia, learning about environmental issues from my friend, George Neighbors. Earth Day was my first activist event. The week before, George took a group of us out with wheat paste to flyer Alexandria also known as Old Towne. It was pretty tame, but it felt
- [Test](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/04/test-8/): 123
- [Pittsburgh Blogger Sue Kerr Has Been Named to Curve Magazine's 2025 'Power List' in Honor of Lesbian Visibility Week](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2025/04/pittsburgh-blogger-sue-kerr-has-been-named-to-curve-magazines-2025-power-list-in-honor-of-lesbian-visibility-week/): I am honored to be named to the 2025 'Power List' to kick-off Lesbian Visibility Week. Thank you to the Curve Foundation for this honor and the chance to highlight important issues. "[T]hese individuals are breaking barriers, challenging norms, and leaving an indelible mark on our community and beyond. It is essential for us to
- [Brand New Test!](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2005/12/brand-new-test/): Big Test from Pittsburgh!
- [Mona on her throne.jpg](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2005/12/mona-on-her-throne-jpg/)
- [The First Step is the Hardest](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2005/12/the-first-step-is-the-hardest/): A little over a year ago, I received the coveted title of "Unofficial Lesbian Correspondent" for a local liberal talk radio program. While it mostly entailed double entendres and Santorum bashing, it did give me a heady sense of unearned power and unabashed self-promotion. And I parlayed it into a one-time gig judging a costume
- [Gay Bingo!](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2005/12/gay-bingo/): The next gay bingo is coming up on January 7 2006. This is a terrific activity for the whole family (in all senses of the term). Benefits the GLCC and the Shepherd Wellness Community. What's great about bingo is that not only is it a space that is safe and comfortable, but it is
- [KDKA - Pintek Out, McIntire In?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2005/12/kdka-pintek-out-mcintire-in/): Found this during my morning peruse of the Post-Gazette ... Three of KDKA Radio's primary on-air hosts -- Mike Pintek, Paul Alexander and Mike Romigh -- have been let go in a staff shake-up. One possibility for the 8 p.m. to midnight shift previously held by Mr. Romigh is John McIntire. Mr. Clark said
- [Family Tidings](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2005/12/family-tidings/): This morning we became aunties for the first time. Laura's brother and his wife had a beautiful baby girl - Ava Grace. We spent some time with them last night before they left for the hospital and were there this morning to welcome Ava to the world. Well, Laura was there first as I was
- [Starting 2006 on the Left Paw](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/starting-2006-on-the-left-paw/): Greetings from the official pet delegate of the Pittsburgh lesbian correspondents! 2005 was a year of change for Miss Mona. I moved to a nice new home with a big back yard, soft blue couch and another person to tend to my every whim. In the process, I acquired 4 more cats to deal
- [Resolutions - Looking Back](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/resolutions-looking-back/): 2003 was my resolution year. Frustrated with feeling disconnected from the LGBT community, I resolved to try at least one new lesbian friendly activity each month. In hindsight, I feel very proud of my resolve and continue to reap the benefits of the contacts I made during that year. And, of course, that resolution led
- [NYC Lesbian Becomes City Council Speaker](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/nyc-lesbian-becomes-city-council-speaker/): This GOOD news from 365gay.com New York City) Christine Quinn has earned a double distinction, becoming the first woman and the first out lesbian to serve as the speaker of New York City Council. The Manhattan Democrat becomes the second most powerful person in city politics, after Republican Mayor Michael Bloomberg. Some of my friends
- [From Dallas Voice - Mary Cheney and 2006](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/from-dallas-voice-mary-cheney-and-2006/): Mary Cheney: “I resolve to hold my partner’s hand in front of cameras. Even if I have to pretend I’m just helping her up.” Mary Cheney is not a good person. I believe that Mary Cheney exploited the LGBT community for her own personal benefit but turns her back on us when it really counts.She
- [Justice Sunday](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/justice-sunday/): Here's a take on Justice Sunday from the winner of the Best LGBT Blog ...Pam's House Blend As you can see, the AmTaliban has its splash of color up there for the big shindig, all prominently featured on the web site. Sadly, one of them is the niece of Dr. Martin Luther King, Alveda C.
- [ACT UP!](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/act-up/): > Philadelphia SUNDAY JANUARY 8 at 7 PM AT "JUSTICE SUNDAY III" > > Jerry Falwell. > Tony Perkins from the Family Research Council. > James Dobson from Focus on the Family. > Rick Santorum. > > All coming to Philadelphia on Jan 8 to rally on "Justice Sunday" to pack the Supreme Court with right wing extremist judges. > > This event will
- [Mama, Its Thrifty Not Cheap](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/mama-its-thrifty-not-cheap/): This past November, we coughed up $25 to support the Homeless Cat Management Team's fundraiser (yes we feed feral cats) and came away with our very own Enjoy book. I made a solemn vow that this would be our ticket out of the Olive Garden and into a bright local restaurant scene! Then ... bonus
- [Confessions of a Rick Santorum Intern](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/confessions-of-a-rick-santorum-intern/): My favorite line of the morning thus far from 2 Political Junkies Rick Santorum - a man of strict principles, until he needs to win an election. This calls for full confession -- in 1991, I spent six months as a legislative intern for then-Congressman Rick Santorum. I was 20 years old and hopelessly heterosexual.
- [From Arizona - First Out Lesbian Named to State Senate](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/from-arizona-first-out-lesbian-named-to-state-senate/): From PageOneQ ... Good news from Arizona ... History was made Tuesday, Jan. 3, when the first open Lesbian was named to the Arizona Senate. By a unanimous vote during their weekly meeting, the Pima County Board of Supervisors named Paula Aboud (r) to the vacant District 28 State Senate seat for the remainder of
- [Blessed bigotry: Pope Benedict XVI is Anti-Gay Person of the Year](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/blessed-bigotry-pope-benedict-xvi-is-anti-gay-person-of-the-year/): From the Washington Blade EDITORS’ NOTE:As 2005 draws to a close, many media outlets will announce their selections for person of the year. In past years, Blade editors have selected a Story of the Year instead. This year, the Story of the Year was, in our view, the extraordinary efforts of one individual to not
- [Stop anti-LGBT activists from writing discrimination into the Pennsylvania Constitution](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/stop-anti-lgbt-activists-from-writing-discrimination-into-the-pennsylvania-constitution/): NOTE: On January 24, the Pennsylvania Family Institute will be introducing their amendment. Click and do something NOW. This from the .... We need you to contact your state representative and ask them to NOT co-sponsor or support the Marriage Protection Amendment. Ask them to protect all Pennsylvania families and not harm some by writing
- [Not a good time to be a woman at Penn State ...](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/not-a-good-time-to-be-a-woman-at-penn-state/): The women at Penn State aren't fairing well in the hands of the current Administration. Women basketball players have been enduring the homophobic tyranny of Rene Portland for years. and this from today's Post-Gazette ... The only sour note is that JoePa appears not to have understood the seriousness of a sex assault charge made against a
- [AFA at it again:  NBC's Book of Daniel LGBT connections](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/afa-at-it-again-nbcs-book-of-daniel-lgbt-connections/): This from 365gay.com (Terre Haute, Indiana) NBC affiliate WTWO has become the first station to announce that it will not carry the program "The Book of Daniel" following pressure from the American Family Association. The American Family Association has been calling for its members to complain to NBC affiliates about the show which features
- [America helps the white Katrina survivors ....](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/america-helps-the-white-katrina-survivors/): Caught this little tidbit in Newsweek Katrina—Welcome: 'White Couple' Newsweek Jan. 9, 2006 issue - As Katrina evacuees scrambled to find homes, whites were given incentives to rent in some places, while blacks were charged extra or politely turned away 66 percent of the time, according to a five-state report by the National Fair Housing
- [NBC's Today Reviews Brokeback Mountain:  Labels Character Predator](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/nbcs-today-reviews-brokeback-mountain-labels-character-predator/): From Pam's House Blend and GLAAD Gene Shalit of the Today show offered a strange review of Brokeback Mountain, characterizing Jake Gyllenhaal's character as a sexual predator because he's gay. He dredges up a classic predator/victim gay stereotype that indicates, IMHO, that Shalit was uncomfortable with the movie. Homophobic? Yes. Should GLAAD have called him
- [Brokeback Mountain in Pittsburgh](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/brokeback-mountain-in-pittsburgh/): Opens in Pittsburgh on 1/13/2005. Sue
- [Coach Rene's team succumbs to Lavender Menace](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/coach-renes-team-succumbs-to-lavender-menace/): From 365gay.com (East Lansing, Michigan) More than a dozen people in purple T-shirts with the slogan "Lavender Menace" were scattered throughout the stands Thursday night as Penn State met Michigan State in women's basketball. The demonstrators were protesting against Penn coach Rene Portland who is accused of engaging in a reign of terror over her
- [Book of Daniel](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/book-of-daniel/): Two hour premiere tonight. Found it to be engaging, more reminiscent of Picket Fences than Joan of Arcadia. With a salty dash of Desperate Housewives tossed in or perhaps it was the similar background music? Either way, the gay characters are soooo not the biggest issue for the American Family Association. This show has several flavors
- [Mass voters claim tricked into signing anti-gay petition](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/mass-voters-claim-tricked-into-signing-anti-gay-petition/): This from 365gay.com .... (Boston, Massachusetts) "I don’t want to alarm you, but was your signature stolen?" That is the beginning of an automated telephone message that is going out to thousands of homes throughout Massachusetts. The calls to 10,000 people, along with letters to another 14,000, warn that they may have unwittingly signed petitions
- [10 Reasons Gay Marriage is Wrong](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/10-reasons-gay-marriage-is-wrong/): This is making the rounds. Found it at HouseBlend Ten Reasons Gay Marriage Is Wrong1. Being gay is not natural. And as you know Americans have always rejected unnatural things like eyeglasses, polyester, and air conditioning.2. Gay marriage will encourage people to be gay, in the same way that hanging around tall people will make
- [Ricky and Friends: "Don't Fool With the Church"](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/ricky-and-friends-dont-fool-with-the-church/): Yesterday, Rick and his hate-mongerer-in-Christian-clothing buddies spewed the typical claptrap at Justice Sunday III Mr. Santorum said "extreme liberal judges" are "destroying traditional morality and creating a new moral code." "The Supreme Court has become the supreme branch of the government imposing its unrestrained will on all of the people," Mr. Santorum said. "The only
- [John McIntire and KDKA:  Lesbian Correspondent Appearance Tonight](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/john-mcintire-and-kdka-lesbian-correspondent-appearance-tonight/): Must to the delight of all my fans (Hi Mom), I'll be joining John McIntire tonight for a tete-a-tete during the 11 PM hour on KDKA. We'll be discussing gay cowboys, Gene Shallit, the AFA and, of course, lesbians. Very exciting stuff. For all you McIntire fans, he'll be guest hosting in the 9 -12 slot all week.
- [Libertarian Former Marine Reads Correspondent!](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/libertarian-former-marine-reads-correspondent/): It was bound to happen I suppose, but geez it was cool. A friend of mine, libertarian in his views but openminded in his practices, mentioned that he stumbled across my blog while wasting his precious personal time on the Internet. I was all smiles. Then he asked me if I've had any other visitors
- [TV Station Receives Death Threats for Book of Daniel](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/tv-station-receives-death-threats-for-book-of-daniel/): Fresh off a scintillating ;-) discussion with John McIntire about the merits and woes of NBC's Book of Daniel, I find this at 365gay.com. Terre Haute, Indiana) Police in Terre Haute are investigating death threats against the manager and program director at KWBF-TV after the station decided to run the NBC series "The Book of
- [PA Anti-Gay Amendment 14 Days Left](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/pa-anti-gay-amendment-14-days-left/): Date: Mon, 9 Jan 2006 20:10:44 -0800 (PST)From: Capital Region Stonewall Dems Subject: Pa. Anti-Gay Amendment UPDATE: 14 Days Left; NEW Resource PageTo: crstonewalldems@yahoo.com Here's the bad news: As of this writing, some members of your state legislature are still planning to introduce an anti-gay "marriage" amendment to the state Constitution on Jan. 24. In fact, this
- [Homo Haters Target Ford ... Again](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/homo-haters-target-ford-again/): Tonight from 365gay.com comes this In a thinly veiled threat of another boycott the American Family Association and 41 other groups are demanding that Ford live up to a commitment to end funding to LGBT organizations and cease advertising in the gay media. But it seems the AFA has learned a lesson from their first
- [Utah Gays Call Boycott Over 'Brokeback Mountain' Ban](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/utah-gays-call-boycott-over-brokeback-mountain-ban/): More from 365gay.com .... the Utah Gays calling for boycott over Brokeback Mountain. I'm not exactly what this means other than not going to the theatre that isn't showing the movie you want to see anyway. More later. Sue
- [Gene Shalit apologizes for gay predator comment](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/gene-shalit-apologizes-for-gay-predator-comment/): Today's Gene Shalit has apologized for his inflammatory review of Brokeback Mountain. Shalit's statement: In reviewing the fictional movie "Brokeback Mountain", I expressed my opinion of "Jack", one of the fictional characters. It is my responsibility to my audience to present my views of the film and the actions of the film's fictional characters. My
- [More on Utah GLBT Boycott](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/more-on-utah-glbt-boycott/): It took a bit of poking around, but I found this call to action to boycott Larry H. Miller. Let the gay wrath unfold ...
- [How Many Costas are there?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/how-many-costas-are-there/): Can ANYONE tell me exactly how many Costas roam these hills? Every time I turn around, I see reference to yet another Costa kin either holding some obscure office or being appointed to something. Guy Costa should just be hired by KDKA since he gets almost as much airtime as pretty boy Jeff Verszyla. Given
- [City Paper Review of Brokeback Mountain](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/city-paper-review-of-brokeback-mountain/): There is nothing to add. The movie opens Friday at Loews and The Manor theaters. From the City Paper Speaking Its NameWriter: HARRY KLOMAN Brokeback Mountain is based on Annie Proulx’s 1997 short story about two cowboys in love, and it’s not an easy work to translate. Literature never is, especially a story that deals
- [What does Rick "Frothy" Santorum think?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/what-does-rick-frothy-santorum-think/): Gary at American Agenda is not happy about the latest attempt to constitutionalize homophobia in Pennsylvania. (I love the Frothy reference) Go here to sign the petition to stop the anti-gay marriage amendment.
- [LGBT Town Meeting on January 18:  Marriage Amendment](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/lgbt-town-meeting-on-january-18-marriage-amendment/): Received this today from Steel City Stonewall Democrats ----- Original Message ----- From: Steel City Stonewall Democrats Sent: Thursday, January 12, 2006 9:51 PM Subject: Town Meeting: PA Constitutional Amendment An amendment to the PA constitution has been proposed that would both limit marriage to one man and one woman and deny all unmarried
- [PG Review of Brokeback Mountain](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/pg-review-of-brokeback-mountain/): From today's paper. My favorite lines Having seen "Brokeback Mountain," I can promise you two things: It's not a social contagion planted on the screen to infect America's youth, and the water-cooler comics who've been making all those gay-cowboy jokes without seeing the film are going to look really stupid on Monday morning.
- [Check out Pgh's Queer Cabaret  - K'Vetch](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/check-out-pghs-queer-cabaret-kvetch/): > K'Vetch is home from the holidays.... and more lovely local and> talented than ever.>> Two features below followed by an open-mic.... Thursday January 26, 2006 at 8:00 p.m. $5/Free for writers Modernformations 4919 Penn AveWHO''S PERFORMING!?!?!?!>> Sensual lyrics of life and love connect the audience to Gina Marie Mignogna's poetry. An honest response to a
- [The Boondocks on Gay Marriage](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/the-boondocks-on-gay-marriage/): I am a regular read of The Boondocks strip in the PG, but I must confess that I am often confounded. I get the feeling that I'm definitely not "in" on the real humorous element and/or the real spin on the issue. But I suppose that is how any white middle class lesbian would
- [Hens-Greco named Campaign Field Director for Berner](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/hens-greco-named-campaign-field-director-for-berner/): Sam Hens-Greco named Campaign Field Director for Democratic Congressional Candidate Georgia Berner. I'm not aware of Ms. Berner's position on LGBT issues but I'm going to find out. Her opponent in the primary, Jason Altmire, is prolife which of course opens the door to the concept of a right to privacy inherent in many LGBT
- [Nashville's NBC Affiliate Succumbs to HomoHaters over Book of Daniel](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/nashvilles-nbc-affiliate-succumbs-to-homohaters-over-book-of-daniel/): From 365gay.com, I discover that yet another Bible Belt NBC affiliate has capitulated to the right-wing hate regarding homosexuality and cancelled the Book of Daniel. According to WSMV mangement, they received over 137 complaints via telephone, email and postal mail. And apparently the independent nature of the 137 responses caught their attention "Over the years,
- [Lesbian Take on Brokeback Mountain](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/lesbian-take-on-brokeback-mountain/): I hope you do go see this soon. I am a total loss for words to describe howwonderful this movie is. The cinematography is stellar, but so is thestoryline and the acting. Heath Ledger blew me away, definitely an Oscarworthy performance. Michelle Williams (played his wife) was also stunninglygood for a former Dawson's Creek star.What
- [Are lesbians allowed in the North Hills?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/are-lesbians-allowed-in-the-north-hills/): Who the heck waits 45 minutes on a Wednesday night to eat at Olive Garden? in Pittsburgh! Needing a meal while doing errands on McNightmare Road last Weds night, we grudgingly decided that cookie-cutter Italian food was the best option among the chain restaurants. I should have known something was amiss when I encountered a
- [Small changes in this hard world](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/small-changes-in-this-hard-world/): Sometimes, the best part of a mystery novel is a few pages after the crime is solved. Last weekend, I picked up Sara Paretsky's latest at the library. I was looking forward to visiting with my old friend V I Warshawski over the weekend while I recuperated from the vetiges of the flu. That it was
- [Monday at 11 is the Lesbian Hour on KDKA with John McIntire](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/monday-at-11-is-the-lesbian-hour-on-kdka-with-john-mcintire/): Tonight your faithful correspondent will talk with ardent lesbian admirer John McIntire during the 11 PM hour on KDKA. Our topics of conversation will be Brokeback Mountain and other random LGBT issues. Call in! Sue
- [British Cops Most Gay Friendly Employer](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/british-cops-most-gay-friendly-employer/): Here's something interesting from 365gay.com - Britain's most gay-friendly workplace is a POLICE department. (London) Less than a decade ago Staffordshire police were rated the most homophobic force in the country after going on a clandestine operation to arrest gays suspected of having public sex. Today, the force is being honored as the most gay-friendly force
- [PA Legislators Deem Gay Marriage Bigger Threat than Economy, Health Care or Terrorism](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/pa-legislators-deem-gay-marriage-bigger-threat-than-economy-health-care-or-terrorism/): This ain't funny, folks. The PA legislature, home of the midnight pay raise, has made protecting marriage from the homos a focus right now. Never mind that our fair city of Pittsburgh is crumbling around us while our beloved mayor plugs holes with political hacks. Never mind that GM is closing a plant and putting
- [Microsoft Target of Homo Hater Boycott](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/microsoft-target-of-homo-hater-boycott/): The homohating bigots are at it again, calling for a boycott on Microsoft and other companies supporting a LGBT civil rights bill in the Washington state legislature. What can you say to this kind of overt hatred? Again, I cannot get my mind around the fact that these bigots and their sheep actually BELIEVE that
- [KDKA, McIntire and Some Good News](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/kdka-mcintire-and-some-good-news/): The gays swept the Golden Globes last night, taking home Best Actor (Capote), Best Actress (Transamerica), Best Film, Best Director, Best Screenplay and Best Original Song (Brokeback Mountain) for all heavily gay themed performances. Here's what the incomparable Felicity Huffman said during her acceptance of the Best Actress award for her performance as Bree in
- [Brokeback Mountain Rocks Pittsburgh](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/brokeback-mountain-rocks-pittsburgh/): L.A. Johnson sums up local reaction to the Pittsburgh opening of Brokeback Mountain Variety reports that from Friday through Sunday, the Pittsburgh theaters in which the film opened grossed more than $20,000, a high figure for even a Hollywood blockbuster. That confirms my unofficial report from Dustin, the Loews' waiter who took care of our
- [Rhode Island Gays Hit With Federal Tax Penalties](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/rhode-island-gays-hit-with-federal-tax-penalties/): Well, you knew it wouldn't be too long before the clash between state and federal acknowledgement (or lack thereof) of same sex partnerships would create turmoil. Rhode Island has just sent notices to domestic partners of state employees informing them that the health and insurance benefits they received are federally taxable income. And the state
- [Vatican Investigates Sexual Climate at Local Seminaries](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/vatican-investigates-sexual-climate-at-local-seminaries/): From yesterday's Post-Gazette, I discover that the Vatican has sent teams to determine if American seminaries are providing "proper spiritual, moral and theological training for the priesthood." This includes visits to St. Vincent Seminary in Latrobe, SS. Cyril & Methodius Byzantine Catholic Seminary on the North Side and St. Paul Seminary in East Carnegie. Only one
- [Hines Ward:  I am not a Metrosexual](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/hines-ward-i-am-not-a-metrosexual/)
- [Book of Daniel "Cures" a Gay](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/book-of-daniel-cures-a-gay/): Last night episode of the Book of Daniel should appease all the homo-hating fears of the right wingers. Not one but both gay characters lived down to stereotype and experimented with heterosexual sex. The self-described "lesbian" sister in law got all hot and bothered by one of the male mafia construction workers, but in all
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- [Gay Republicans and Santorum Spokesfag](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/gay-republicans-and-santorum-spokesfag/): Homos for Santorum! per the City Paper's rant feature. You tell 'em Ron Pedersen Jr of North Versailles, PA The biggest traitor of them all is Santorum Apologist and Spokesman, Robert Traynham an openly gay man who also happens to be African-American. Pay attention because this is what Mr. Traynham has to say about being a
- [CP's Marty Levine on Anti-Gay Marriage Amendment](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/cps-marty-levine-on-anti-gay-marriage-amendment/): In the latest City Paper, intrepid homofan Marty Levine takes a brief look at the latest political maneuvers in Harrisburg where homohaters have launched another drive to constitutionalize discrimination. It boils down to this But as with all debates about gay rights, the issue seems to boil down to conservative fears about the sexuality of
- [Trib Columnist Condemns Anti-Gay Marriage Amendment](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/trib-columnist-condemns-anti-gay-marriage-amendment/): I missed this last week. The Trib's Dimitri Vassilaros opined against the PA legislative attempt to constitutionalize hate and discrimination. Whenever a judge or legislative body in a state say that homosexuals have the same marriage rights as heterosexuals, it promotes more marriage. Denying gays and lesbians that right is anything but protecting marriage -- it's
- [Correspondent Screw Up](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/correspondent-screw-up/): Last night I accidentally deleted one of my entries. An entry I thought was witty and insightful. Something that might entertain the random people who visit this site. As I watched my words vanish forever from this earth, a curtain of despair enclosed me. I turned off the PC and went downstairs to sulk in
- [Pgh and Gay Movies](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/pgh-and-gay-movies/): Brokeback Mountain came to town two weeks ago and opened in two (2) theatres -- Loews at the Waterfront and The Manor in Squirrel Hill. That's it. Fast forward and there are homo curious moviegoeers lined up all over this town. It is playing in NINE theaters. Hmmm .... Another point of interest ... I
- [Homo-Good News](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/homo-good-news/): The other night some of my homo-friends were griping that the only "news" on LGBT issues is bad news ... discrimination, hatred, conversions, proof that Melissa Hart is gay, etc, etc, etc. So for all my "glass is half empty" readers .... here is some good news. Note: the good is one small nugget in a very
- [Steelers and Lesbians](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/steelers-and-lesbians/): In my family, I am a freak. Not for the obvious reason. No, the fact that my girlfriend loves football almost compensates for the whole homo thing. Because I don't really watch it. I tune in once in awhile. I know the tune to "Here we go" and I have vivid memories of lunchroom pep
- [Cleveland LGBT Center Reached Out to Homeless LGBT Youth](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/cleveland-lgbt-center-reached-out-to-homeless-lgbt-youth/): From 365gay.com, Cleveland's LGBT Community Center is partnering with Cuyahoga County to determine how many homeless LGBT youth there are between the ages of 14 and 24. The study is the first major look at gay homelessness in more than a decade, when one study suggested that almost a third of the homeless in big
- [PA Legislators Hate Gays and Have the Amendment to Prove It](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/pa-legislators-hate-gays-and-have-the-amendment-to-prove-it/): Does this look even remotely like YOUR family? Today, Pennsylvania legislators unveiled their plan to destroy the families of 20,000 gay and 250,000 heterosexual families. The heterosexual families, unmarried per the 2000 Census, are the innocent victims in the homo-haters all out war on Pennsylvania's gay families. Rep Scott W. Boyd, R-Lancaster County and Daryl Metcalfe,
- [Pittsburgh's Gay Agenda](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/pittsburghs-gay-agenda/): Tonight is the monthly meeting to plan and carry out Pittsburgh's Gay Agenda. :-) Voices for a New Tomorrow: a collaboration of LGBT organizations and individuals All are welcome! 4th Wednesdays monthly 6 pm - 8 pm FSWP East Liberty Offices Village of Eastside 6401 Penn Avenue, 2nd Floor Pittsburgh, PA 15206 voices @ glccpgh.org ************************
- [Homophobes in High School - Teachers?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/homophobes-in-high-school-teachers/): A group of teachers in San Leandro High School (California) are refusing to display posters promoting gay diversity. The posters were designed by the school's Gay-Straight Alliance and show a rainbow flag and bear the words "This is a safe place to be who you are." The "educators" are hiding behind the illusion that the
- [State Rep. Dan Frankel - A Homo's Best Friend](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/state-rep-dan-frankel-a-homos-best-friend/): State Rep. Dan B. Frankel D-Allegheny www.pahouse.com/frankel MEDIA CONTACT: Ben TurnerHouse Democratic Communications OfficePhone: 717-787-7895Fax: 717-772-9930Email: bturner@pahouse.net FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE Frankel blasts constitutional amendmentSays it would harm unmarried straight couples, including seniors HARRISBURG, Jan. 24 - State Rep. Dan Frankel, D-Allegheny, said a stateconstitutional amendment being introduced today would harm same-sexfamilies and unmarried opposite-sex couples,
- [Do the Penguins have a gay agenda?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/do-the-penguins-have-a-gay-agenda/): I have absolutely no thoughts on the retirement of Mario Lemieux. Except for this weird recurring dream where I save his dog from a car accident and he gives me a really cheap tee-shirt in gratitude. Whatever. This is the closest thing I've got on the penguin gay agenda
- [Why do these Western PA Democrats Hate Unmarried Heterosexuals?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/why-do-these-western-pa-democrats-hate-unmarried-heterosexuals/): Here's the list of Western PA State Representatives who have signed on as co-sponsors of the anti-gay marriage amendment. Legislators who think that this is a valuable use of their time, time not spent on your economy or your property taxes or your health care. Time not spent funding road repair, public transportation or workplace
- [Penn State:  No Lesbians Policy?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/penn-state-no-lesbians-policy/): Penn State Women's Basketball Coach Rene Portland is seeking to have a lawsuit alleging "lesbian baiting' dismissed. Go here for the story at 365gay.com [T]hat didn't stop the school from publicly supporting her for the last several decades, despite receiving so many complaints about her that they actually had to pass a university policy banning sexual
- [Missy Hart Challengers Line Up Their Luminaries](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/missy-hart-challengers-line-up-their-luminaries/): From the Post-Gazette, we discover that "the Democrats' would-be challengers to Rep. Melissa Hart, R-Bradford Woods, are jockeying for the endorsements of party luminaries." That's Melissa Hart who toes the homo-hating Republican line, amendment and all. Melissa Hart who has an openly gay man working as her press secretary. Blogactive.com had the story this past fall.
- [PG Condemns Anti-Gay Amendment](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/pg-condemns-anti-gay-amendment/): This commonwealth doesn't need to write bigotry into its constitution in the name of misplaced morality. This morning the Post-Gazette editors condemn the bill introduced in the PA House of Representatives that would amend the constitution to "protect marriage." The PG notes that the amendment's impace reaches far beyond the queer community, threatening unmarried heterosexual
- [Transamerica comes to Pittsburgh](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/transamerica-comes-to-pittsburgh/): This weekend, Transamerica opens in Pittsburgh. This film, which garnered a Best Actress Golden Globe for Felicity Huffman, focuses on the relationship between a transgender woman (Huffman) and the teenage son she didn't know she fathered. It is playing in one (1) theater -- the Cinemagic on Forward Avenue in Squirrel Hill. (Side note: Brokeback Mountain is now
- [Penn State - Lesbian policy benefits Paterno](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/01/penn-state-lesbian-policy-benefits-paterno/): Rene Portland, coach of the PSU Lady Lions basketball team, is coming under increasing fire for her "no lesbians" policy. This from Minnesota, site of weekend anti-Rene protests .... NCLR lawyer Karen Doering calls Portland's discriminatory policy -- "No drinking, no drugs, no lesbians," the lawsuit terms it -- the "worst-kept secret" in NCAA athletics.
- [BlogActive.com Ramps Up the Culture War](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/02/blogactive-com-ramps-up-the-culture-war/): GLBT activist Mike Rogers has significantly ramped up the gay response to the culture wars with this latest posting on blogactive.com I fully support Mike's tactics of outing the closeted hypocrites whose actions harm our community. It is not a popular opinion, but a world in which a black gay man can openly toil for
- [Does Joe Paterno also hate lesbians?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/02/does-joe-paterno-also-hate-lesbians/): I found this little tidbit while idly surfing the net (and not watching the State of the Union address) on Women's Hoops Blog It would seem that our revered football coach has been a longtime defender of Portland's hate-policies. Joe Pa, then and now the most beloved and powerful figure at the school, refused to
- [The Loss of a Champion - God Speed Coretta Scott King](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/02/the-loss-of-a-champion-god-speed-coretta-scott-king/): Across the blogosphere, Coretta Scott King's legacy is evident particularly with respect to her longtime support of LGBT civil rights. We here at Lesbian Central - Pittsburgh are saddened to lose a woman we both admire and revere for her work on behalf of all human beings. God be with you, Coretta. Pam's House Blend
- [Steelers = Girly-Men in Gold?   PG Fashion Editor Weighs In](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/02/steelers-girly-men-in-gold-pg-fashion-editor-weighs-in/): Ditch the "gold" pants in favor of black, the other half of the Steelers' official team colors. Maybe add a tuxedo-style gold stripe down the outer legs for some pizzazz. Yes, LaMont, because a bit of pizzazz will definitely quell any suspicions about their manliness. Dispelling any questions over his own manliness, LaMont goes on to wonder
- [Political Dissent Not Appropriate at SOTU; Women in Tee Shirts Shake Up Capitol](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/02/political-dissent-not-appropriate-at-sotu-women-in-tee-shirts-shake-up-capitol/): Even while acknowledging that wearing a tee shirt to the SOTU is NOT a criminal offense, the US Capitol Police's actions have once again highlighted the egregious "no dissent" policies of this administration. From CNN.com Anti-war protester Cindy Sheehan wore a shirt with the message "2,245 Dead. How many more?" -- a reference to the
- [PA Rep Mike Diven:  Homohater AND Illiterate?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/02/pa-rep-mike-diven-homohater-and-illiterate/): It seemed like such a simple request. She wrote to The Honorable Mike Diven, Republican member of the Pennsylvania House of Representatives. Her mission? To ascertain how Diven would vote on the proposed anti-gay marriage amendment to the Pennsylvania Constitution. What Diven offered in response is a testament to why the Democrats should be able
- [Lesbian Tagged](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/02/lesbian-tagged/): Somewhat misleading title. This is my first time being "tagged," but since i love those little email questionnaire things, this seems fun. Four Jobs I’ve Had: 1. Foster Care Recruiter2. Special Projects Coordinator3. Lay Missioner4. Intern for Senator Rick Santorum Four Movies I Watch Over and Over Again: 1. A Family Affair2. When Harry Met
- [Good News for Pittsburgh's Queer Youth](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/02/good-news-for-pittsburghs-queer-youth/): From the City Paper Tom Wyse, faculty adviser for Gay-Straight Alliance groups in two Pittsburgh Public high schools, says a new meeting spot in Carnegie Library's Oakland branch is the start of a community-wide Alliance. The Carnegie’s dedicated teen room will become the "Safe and Respectful Space" every Wednesday after school, beginning with a post-Valentine's
- [80ish Catholic Grammy Loves McIntire AND Correspondent](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/02/80ish-catholic-grammy-loves-mcintire-and-correspondent/): Had dinner with my long-time friend Amy (27 years or so) and her adorable two-year old daughter last weekend. She informed me that her 80ish grandmother had heard my "Lesbian Correspondent" segments on The Temporary John McIntire Show and was very pleased. Apparently, Grammy is a big fan of both McIntire and Lynn Cullen. Obviously
- [Catty Call - PG Column Throwback to When Women Were Girls](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/02/catty-call-pg-column-throwback-to-when-women-were-girls/): For proof the PG's inevitable downward spiral, one need look no further than "Just Ask Cat," a misguided attempt to offer advice to Pittsburgh's lost and lovelorn. Would-be columnist Catherine Specter dishes out bad advice more often than Joe Grata disses Penndot. Ms. Specter is caught up in a retro-delusion that with the right
- [A Slippery Slope to Hate: Gay Bar Murderer Snared in Arkansas](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/02/a-slippery-slope-to-hate-gay-bar-murderer-snared-in-arkansas/): As you can see, no one seems to have a clue that the homobigotry that oozes out of the swamps of Freeperland and the mouths and pulpits of the AmTaliban has anything to do with this. They must claim the Jacob Robidas of the world, because these disillusioned, poorly educated people out there see that
- [Here We Go Steelers!](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/02/here-we-go-steelers/)
- [LGBT activists "call out" Stonewall response to DNC](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/02/lgbt-activists-call-out-stonewall-response-to-dnc/): From Blogactive.com Not to stand silently by as the party trashes gays and lesbians, Stonewall Democrats have issued a statement about Howard Dean's insensitivity to the gay and lesbian community and condemning his actions totally kissing Howard Dean's ass: From keithboykin.com the DNC eliminated the GLBT outreach office but is keeping the GLBT fundraising office.
- [Penn State:  we said it but we didn't REALLY mean to protect homos](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/02/penn-state-we-said-it-but-we-didnt-really-mean-to-protect-homos/): In an expected (but pathetic) twist to the Penn State Lesbian Discrimination case, lawyers for anti-lesbian coach Rene Portland and the University argued that the non-discrimination policy was a non-binding contract. You expect this from Portland who obviously didn't bind herself by the policy. Plus, she's also claiming that former player (and plaintiff) Jennifer Harris was
- [DNC:  Don't talk about the Homos and Maybe They'll Go Away](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/02/dnc-dont-talk-about-the-homos-and-maybe-theyll-go-away/): The DNC's Annual Grassroots Report was released last week. Not a single mention of the LGBTQ community. Nada. Howard Dean eliminates the gay outreach post, then wonders why people are upset .... and now this .... So what's happening in the Pennsylvania/Pittsburgh LGBT democratic wing ....You tell me. Here's what BlogActive and LGBT political activist
- [Lynn Swann Fumbles on Gay Marriage Amendment](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/02/lynn-swann-fumbles-on-gay-marriage-amendment/): OK, disregard the trite football phrasology.. From our friends at Steel-City Stonewall Democrats, here's the skinny from social conservative Lynn Swann on gay marriage ... Drum roll ... while marriage is between a man and a woman, he does think private contracts should take care of us queers. With no governmental protections. Now for my
- [Casey - "I'll fight [LGBT] Discrimination"](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/02/casey-ill-fight-lgbt-discrimination/): Our own Bob Casey told a crowd of 600 attending a HRC gala event that he will fight discrimination against gays. Unlike Senatorum and his loyal spokesfag Robert Traynham. ''I think it's time we had a senator who wasn't pushing a narrow, intolerant ideology that says 'I'm right, you're wrong … and you don't know
- [PG Letters to Editor on Gay Issues](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/02/pg-letters-to-editor-on-gay-issues/): A quick round of the PG's latest gay coverage .... First, the ugly. From Jennifer Freker of Bethel Park a letter to the PG editor .... God created Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve! You tell 'em Jennifer. Make sure we know all about the abnormalities of a Godless society and how much friggin'
- [Lesbians and Seven Springs Don't Mix](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/02/lesbians-and-seven-springs-dont-mix/): Last night, your intrepid correspondent headed out the turnpike to Seven Springs (aka the middle of friggin nowhere) for an evening of laughter and yuks at a charity fundraiser for the Pittsburgh Foodbank. Our goal was to see KDKA talk host and friend-of-the-lesbians John McIntire as well as a bunch of other funny people of
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- [Boondocks Shout Out to Willie Nelson](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/02/boondocks-shout-out-to-willie-nelson/): The songwriter of Willie Nelson's "gay cowboy" song was on NPR's What Do You Know this weekend. He's was wryly funny discussing how this song emerged from the Urban Cowboy phase of the early 80's. He also pointed out that Brokeback Mountain is about sheepherders, not cowboys. LOL. So I was waiting for Aaron MacGruder
- [Local Law Firm Specializes in Gay Services](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/local-law-firm-specializes-in-gay-services/): Monday's Post-Gazette featured Buchanan Ingersoll PC's Nontraditional Couples and Families practice group which specializes in LGBT legal work. [Maureen] Cohon, the wife of Carnegie Mellon University President Jared Cohon, said her firm's nontraditional couples practice began quietly when a friend in a gay relationship asked her about guardianship for a child and drafting a will. After
- [Gay Marriage is Good Mental Health](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/gay-marriage-is-good-mental-health/): Another story from today's Post-Gazette According to a policy paper from the National Sexuality Resource Center at San Francisco State University,denying us marraige can lead to mental health problems. Well, duh! The stress of being a second class citizen will do that you. Having to rush to your partner's hospital bedside while realizing you left
- [Pittsburgh:  More Gay Friendly than Manhattan?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/pittsburgh-more-gay-friendly-than-manhattan/): The PG is all queered up this week .... L.A. Johnson takes a look at a recent New York Times piece lauding Pittsburgh as more gay friendly than Manhattan. The NYT author cites our thriving arts scene, affordable housing and high-profile LGBT events. Several local LGBT leaders weigh in with some skepticism that we are
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- [More Boondocks on Willie Nelson Gay Cowboy Song](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/more-boondocks-on-willie-nelson-gay-cowboy-song/): This is especially funny. One of the good things about Aaron McGruder's satire is not having to add much in the way of commentary. Click on the cartoon to read the strip.
- [Rene Portland - Gay Protest  ... AGAIN](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/rene-portland-gay-protest-again/): Big Gay Picture has a little update on anti-Rene Portland protests at Penn State women's basketball games ... Here's a quote from Rene Portland that sums up the entire situation (and she is oblivious to the irony) "Can we just talk about basketball? You guys have tried for six goddamn months, excuse my language," Portland
- [Pittsburgh PG Gay Cowboy Quiz](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/pittsburgh-pg-gay-cowboy-quiz/): The Post-Gazette's Scott Mervis faces down Brokeback Mountain's impending dominance of the Oscars ... With a nod to "Brokeback Mountain," the PG brings you its first-ever gay-cowboy 12-question movie quiz. Because, to no one's surprise, the genre doesn't run deep, our focus here is not on cowboy movies with gay people, but rather, with Oscar-related
- [Pennsylvania Lesbian Delight: Jodie Foster to Speak at Penn](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/pennsylvania-lesbian-delight-jodie-foster-to-speak-at-penn/): Unproclaimed lesbian idol Jodie Foster will be the commencement speaker for the University of Pennsylvania's Class of 2006. The university will bestow an Honorary Doctor of Arts degree upon Ms. Foster. My commencement speaker was the CEO of some chemical firm that had financial investments in apartheid South Africa. :-( Congratulations to the Penn lesbians!
- [Pgh Native Presbyterian Minister on trial for gay weddings](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/pgh-native-presbyterian-minister-on-trial-for-gay-weddings/): In another example of homopersecution, the Presbyterian Church is at it again. This time, the Reverend Jane Spahr is facing a trial for conducting wedding for same sex couples in 2004 and 2005. Spahr is a native of Pittsburgh's Northside. Spahr choose to use the term wedding at the couples' request in order to honor
- [West Virginia Sheriff Refused to use CPR; Gay Man Dies Suit Alleges](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/west-virginia-sheriff-refused-to-use-cpr-gay-man-dies-suit-alleges/): Didn't we leave this behind in the 20th Century? According to a federal discrimination suit filed yesterday, Welch West Virginia Sheriff Robert K. Bowman physically prevented a bystander from performing CPR on Claude Green, Jr. who was suffering a heart atack. Green died at the hospital. Sheriff Bowman acted because he thought Green was HIV positive.
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- [The Boondocks:  Gay is Okay?  Could Granddad be a Metrosexual?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/the-boondocks-gay-is-okay-could-granddad-be-a-metrosexual/): In the final strip from the recent gay cowboy thread, Aaron McGruder's Granddad comes to the startling revelation that he can appreciate gay-themed movies and music without turning gay himself! GASP! Click on strip to read it.
- [Gay Bingo This Weekend in Pittsburgh](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/gay-bingo-this-weekend-in-pittsburgh/): Saturday March 4, 2006 6:30 PM
- [Lesbian Pastor Not Guilty in Same Sex Marriage Trial](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/lesbian-pastor-not-guilty-in-same-sex-marriage-trial/): From www.365gay.com comes this great news ... (Santa Rosa, California) A longtime Presbyterian minister who was the first of her faith to be tried for officiating at the unions of gay couples was acquitted Friday of violating her denomination's position on same-sex marriage.A regional judicial commission of the Presbyterian Church (USA) ruled 6-1 that the
- [Anglican/Episcopal Church and Gay Injustice](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/anglicanepiscopal-church-and-gay-injustice/): In Sunday's Post-Gazette, I found this piece from John Bryson Chane who is Episcopal bishop of Washington. The Bishop questions the pastoral concern of the conservative wing of the Anglican church for the gay and lesbian community. Archbishop Peter J. Akinola, primate of the Church of Nigeria and leader of the conservative wing of the
- [Cat Specter:  Good girls don't challenge racism](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/cat-specter-good-girls-dont-challenge-racism/): I'm not a fan of Catherine Specter's alleged advice column in the Post-Gazette. In fact, I'm secretly convinced she was planted by the Mellon-Scaife contingent to subtly shift PG readers back to "when men were men and girls were girls." Her advice has mostly been ridiculous and demeaning. Today, however, she took herself to a
- [Rebuttal to PG Piece:  Why African Anglicans would oppose ordination of homosexuals](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/rebuttal-to-pg-piece-why-african-anglicans-would-oppose-ordination-of-homosexuals/): From Wednesday's Post-Gazette, this response from the Rev. Luke Mbefo, C.S.Sp., associate professor in the Theology Department at Duquesne University to Sunday's Forum "A Gospel of Intolerance" I'm having a rather unpleasant day so I'll refrain from too much editorializing. Reverend Mbefo seems to believe that Africans' worldview of the ordering of society (divinely ordered) prohibits
- [Tribune Review article on local Prebyterian Minister](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/tribune-review-article-on-local-prebyterian-minister/): Fom Monday's Tribune Review. "Marriage is a sacred union of two people who are committed to each other, without regard to gender," Janet Edwards said. "I do not feel I have done anything wrong. On the contrary, I felt I was holding up the vows of my ordination." This is an excellent article about a
- [Gay Rights Rally  Tuesday March 14 in Harrisburg](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/gay-rights-rally-tuesday-march-14-in-harrisburg/): From the Center for Lesbian & Gay Civil Rights The Center for Lesbian and Gay Civil Rights is coordinating the rally opposing the anti-family state constitutional amendments. The rally will occur in the Capitol Rotunda at 2:00. Lobby training will be held a block away from the Capitol building at 11:00 at St. Michael Lutheran
- [NFL discriminates against gay, HIV + former pro football player?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/nfl-discriminates-against-gay-hiv-former-pro-football-player/): Was a former Giants lineman denied access to the Super Bowl media center, game and parties because he is gay and HIV positive? The NFL says his sexual orientation and health status have nothing to do with it. Uh huh. Simmons, who played for the Giants from 1979-81 and Redskins in 1983, disclosed that
- [John McIntire Talks Gay Marriage with Local Presbyterian Minister on KDKA Tonight](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/john-mcintire-talks-gay-marriage-with-local-presbyterian-minister-on-kdka-tonight/): Tune into the John McIntire show tonight on KDKA when John interviews local Presbyterian minister Janet Edwards. They'll be discussing the Presbyterian Church response to Edwards' performing a wedding for two women this past summer. 8 PM on KDKA. Sue
- [Why John McIntire matters for gay people](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/why-john-mcintire-matters-for-gay-people/): Last night, KDKA talk show host John McIntire interviewed a local presbyterian minister under investigation for joining two women in marriage. Reverend Janet Edwards is facing disciplinary action for officiating at the June 2005 wedding of two lesbians. A wedding your lesbian correspondent attended. John and Janet discussed the issue for nearly 45 minutes and
- [Crash deserved the Oscar](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/crash-deserved-the-oscar/): Last night, we went to see Crash at The Manor in Squirrel Hill. This is one of your lesbian correspondents stating that Crash deserved the Oscar for Best Picture over Brokeback Mountain. I loved Brokeback and believe it to be one of the best movies in my 35 years of movie watching. But Crash resonates
- [Not Gay Related: KDKA invades privacy, grief](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/not-gay-related-kdka-invades-privacy-grief/): During the Thursday evening broadcast, KDKA news stepped over the line covering a local fire. A Trafford fire left 10 people homeless; everyone made it out alive and unharmed. But to get the sensational angle, David Highfield stuck a camera in the face of one victim who was clearly distraught over the deaths of her
- [Catholic Church Hates Gays More Than It Loves Children](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/catholic-church-hates-gays-more-than-it-loves-children/): The Catholic Church strikes another blow for homobigots everywhere. 365gay.com reports that Catholic Charities of Boston will no longer provide adoption services because they choose not to comply with the states human rights law requring them to not discriminate against GLBT parents. The Catholic Church wants a special exemption from the law. They want to
- [Save the Date:  Art for Aids](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/save-the-date-art-for-aids/): an auction to benefit Persad CenterThe Patron Party*Friday, April 7, 2006Society for Contemporary Craft2100 Smallman StreetPittsburgh, PA 15222 (Strip District)7:00 - 10:00 p.m. The AuctionMonday, May 15, 2006Carnegie Museum of Art, Oakland4400 Forbes AvenuePittsburgh, PA 15213
- [Christian Gay Intolerance:  Why Remain Silent?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/christian-gay-intolerance-why-remain-silent/): In today's Pittsburgh Post-Gazette, Jane Little of Mt. Lebanon responds to the question of why the worldwide Christian community remain silent about the homophobic outrages in Nigeria which are endorsed by the Nigerian Anglican Church. (One response appeared last week.) Ms. Little writes " Surely the bishop knows that the tension within church communities is
- [Catherine Specter defends premarital tweezing](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/catherine-specter-defends-premarital-tweezing/): Hurrah for Catherine Specter! This week's version of the PG column Cat's Call manages to avoid being racist or sexist. She even musters up a little "catty" rant that is mildly amusing if not actually funny. Otherwise, it was boring as can be. I guess that's the best we can expect. Note that this week Cat adroitly
- [Miami Columnist - Bible Bashing Gays is Hypocritical](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/miami-columnist-bible-bashing-gays-is-hypocritical/): This is awesome. I found this through Pam's House Blend Miami Herald columnist Leonard Pitts, Jr. takes a local homo-hater to task. An open letter to Donna Reddick: I'm writing this for Desiree. She's a student at Miami Sunset Senior High, where you teach business technology. A few days ago, she sent me an e-mail
- [60 Minutes  "Something" before birth determines sexual orientation](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/60-minutes-something-before-birth-determines-sexual-orientation/): Today, scientists are looking at genes, environment, brain structure and hormones. There is one area of consensus: that homosexuality involves more than just sexual behavior; it’s physiological. The show interviewed two sets of male twins to explore issues of nuture vs nature. While overall the piece is interesting, I was somewhat disturbed by how close
- [PG Letters to the Editor:  Shout Out to the Homos!](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/pg-letters-to-the-editor-shout-out-to-the-homos/): In today's Pittsburgh Post-Gazette, we find two (2) letters to the editor responding to A Gospel of Intolerance. Susan J. Boulden of Oakmont writes " As a 20-year member of Integrity, the Episcopal Organization of Gays and Lesbians, and a 35-year member of the Episcopal Diocese of Pittsburgh, I had been praying that someone in
- [ACLU honors Pittsburgh gay activist Randy Forrester](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/aclu-honors-pittsburgh-gay-activist-randy-forrester/): (Pittsburgh) - The Greater Pittsburgh Chapter of the American Civil Liberties Union of Pennsylvania (ACLU-PA) will hear ACLU national president Nadine Strossen discuss "Taking Liberties" at its Annual Meeting on Sunday, March 26, at 1 p.m. in McConomy Auditorium at Carnegie Mellon University. Highlighting the free public event is the presentation of this year's Marjorie
- [Another PG letter defending African intolerance](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/another-pg-letter-defending-african-intolerance/): Today's Post-Gazette includes a letter from Scott Means, Administrator of the Seeds of Hope Fellowship in Bloomfield. Seeds of Hope is a mission church of the Episcopal Diocese of Pittsburgh. As a member of the Episcopal Church, I was ashamed to read Bishop Chane display his ignorance of African culture. He clearly presumes that it
- [PA Legislators Vote on Gay Marriage Amendment on 3/15/2006](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/pa-legislators-vote-on-gay-marriage-amendment-on-3152006/): Take Action! On March 15th, the Pennsylvania House of Representative's State Government Committee will be voting on HB 2381, the anti-LGBT, anti-family constitutional amendment that would prohibit recognition of same-sex marriage and all unmarried relationships in the Commonwealth.We need your help to stop anti-LGBT activists from writing discrimination into the Pennsylvania Constitution. Pennsylvania state legislators
- [Why Does Jane Orie Hate Gay People?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/why-does-jane-orie-hate-gay-people/): State Senator Jane Orie is putting her time and energy behind persecuting homosexuals (and the 250,000 unmarried heterosexual couples in Pennsylvania). (412) 630-9466 Western PA Senate sponsors of Joint Resolution proposing an amendment to the Constitution of theCommonwealth of Pennsylvania, providing for marriage. State Senator Bob Regola - District 39 Greensburg 724-600-7002 State Senator Don
- [Dan Frankel - Hatin' Homos Not Good For PA economy](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/dan-frankel-hatin-homos-not-good-for-pa-economy/): "We must fight this irrational amendment. Progress on this issue is slowbut it is steady. Look at Corporate America: about half of the Fortune500 companies offer domestic-partner benefits - it's just equal benefitsfor equal work. Eleven states provide these benefits to their employees,as do many major universities around the country. More than 8,000 U.S.companies now
- [Update on Marriage Amendment](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/update-on-marriage-amendment/): From the Value All Families Coalition: The amendment is still active. So far, there has been a motion totable the amendment for two weeks so there could be a public hearingon the amendment. We LOST this motion on a tie vote, 14-14. Thecommittee has now recessed so that the legislators can go intosession. The committee
- [Play that funky music dubya!](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/play-that-funky-music-dubya/)
- [Homo Lovers, Homo Haters Issue Press Releases on Gay Marriage](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/homo-lovers-homo-haters-issue-press-releases-on-gay-marriage/): Here's the latest from our friend Dan Frankel ......... of unmarried same-sex and opposite-sex couples in Pennsylvania,including many senior citizens. Rushing this amendment through wouldjeopardize their inheritance rights and their rights to make medicaldecisions for each other." And our homohating foe Darryl Metcalfe (shown with his traditional family) “The definition of marriage as ‘the union of one
- [Notes on anti-gay boycotts](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/notes-on-anti-gay-boycotts/): According to the New York Times, advertising in gay media has been on the rise. Rivendell Media, an advertising representative for gay and lesbian media outlets in Mountainside, N.J., said spending in publications aimed at gay audiences rose 2 percent in 2005, to $212 million. From 2003 to 2004, spending increased 28 percent. This year,
- [Another Update on Marriage Amendment](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/another-update-on-marriage-amendment/): From the ACLU lobbiest: "He feels that we can still win this battle, BUT THE IMPORTANT THING IS TO PUT A HUMAN FACE ON THIS AMENDMENT! State legislators and state senators need to meet people, both GLBT and straight, who oppose this amendment. IT IS VERY IMPORTANT to set up district office visits to speak
- [Clear Channel Protects Tom Delay](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/clear-channel-protects-tom-delay/): From Progressive PA Politics .... SHAME! Part III. Clear Channel won't run anti-Gerlach billboard.March 16, 2006Speaking of limiting democracy, Clear Channel won't let supporters of Lois Murphy (D) to advertise on their billboards in the 6th CD. Clear Channel, which owns most of the billboards in the district, says they won't run a billboard
- [Local Anti-War Movement Gains Queer Contingent](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/local-anti-war-movement-gains-queer-contingent/): Check this out from the City Paper The March 18 anti-war march from East Liberty to Oakland has gained a new queer contingent. And the weekend’s activities -- which mark the beginning of the Iraq War’s fourth year -- has spawned concerts and opened a Greensburg front this year as well. In addition to
- ["Christian" Tennessee welcomes Soulforce Homo-Hater Style](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/christian-tennessee-welcomes-soulforce-homo-hater-style/): Look at what a positive and uplifting impact "Christianity" has made in Tennessee ... (Cleveland, TN) – The Equality Ride bus was defaced Thursday evening outside the hotel where Riders were in a planning meeting for their action on Friday at Lee University. As the meeting dispersed, Riders found pink letters scrawled across the side of
- [6 reasons Jesus was gay](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/6-reasons-jesus-was-gay/): 1. He never got married. 2. He lived at home until he was 33. 3. He was followed around by men who left their wives to be with him. 4. He was "sensitive" toward women and other vulnerable people. 5. He was docile and loving toward others. 6. He was persecuted by the church AND
- [No particular reason to post this except its kinda cool](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/no-particular-reason-to-post-this-except-its-kinda-cool/)
- [Lesbian Takes on the Man:  Don't Dump In My Neighborhood](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/lesbian-takes-on-the-man-dont-dump-in-my-neighborhood/): Here's proof that one person can make a difference.
- [Gay Irish New Yorkers Denounce KKK Comparison](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/gay-irish-new-yorkers-denounce-kkk-comparison/): The thing that really gets me is when homo-bigots are not content to just hate us for ourselves, but have to take the extra step of connecting us with something vile ... like pedophilia, bestiality or white supremacy. From the New York City St. Patric's Day Parade comes this gem. In an interview with the
- [Has Fred Phelps finally gone too far in Pennsylvania?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/has-fred-phelps-finally-gone-too-far-in-pennsylvania/): According to an article in the Wednesday (March 15) Post-Gazette, several state legislators have decided to attempt to ban a notorius gay basher--Fred Phelps--from protesting at the funerals of fallen soldiers. Putting aside for a minute the First Amendment issues this ban would involve, I find this incredibly hypocritical. As perhaps some of you may know, Fred Phelps and
- [Trib Readers Defends Homos](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/trib-readers-defends-homos/): How did I miss this? Published on March 9, this letter to the editor from Lionel Deimel of Mt. Lebanon rightly condemns the intolerant words and actions of Nigerian Anglican Archbishop Peter Akinola. Deimel opines: Those applauding his principled stand in opposition to the consecration of gay bishops should recognize that Akinola's principles apparently also
- [Catherine Specter: Women Should Sacrifice Comfort and Health for Fashion](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/catherine-specter-women-should-sacrifice-comfort-and-health-for-fashion/): DEAR BARE: If makeup isn't your thing, then it's not a must for you. The goal is to look fresh and ready, so pretty up in other ways. Fun-up your hair, wear dangly earrings, think very good thoughts to erase work from your brain, and put a gleam in your eye. Nothing's sexier than "that
- [Pittsburgh's Anti-War Rally](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/pittsburghs-anti-war-rally/): I was unable to attend this year b/c of another unbreakable commitment. I was there last year. God willing, I won't have to be there next year. For more photos from the rally, click here For PG coverage, go here For Tribune Review Coverage, go here
- [](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/1484/): Now this makes for an interesting Monday morning read. A letter to the Tribune Review from a pagan that stems from another letter commenting on an Anglican Nigerian Bishop. Anne E. Lynch of Swissvale writes in response to John Patterson's letter. You'll recall from last week that Mr. Patterson is an admirer of homophobic Nigerian
- [Whiny Kids Grow Up To Be Conservatives](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/whiny-kids-grow-up-to-be-conservatives/): This is worth a quick peak. A recent study from Journal of Research Into Personality tracked children for 20 years and discovered The whiny kids tended to grow up conservative, and turned into rigid young adults who hewed closely to traditional gender roles and were uncomfortable with ambiguity. The confident kids turned out liberal and
- [Dubya Comes to Pgh to Visit Ricky](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/dubya-comes-to-pgh-to-visit-ricky/): 2 Political Junkies has the scoop on Bush's upcoming trip to support his man Rick Santorum. WHAT: Candlelight Antiwar/Peace RallyWHEN: Friday, March 24, 2006, 7:00 PMWHERE: The corner of Beaver and Broad in Sewickley at the Gazebo
- [Political Junkie Goes Off Q](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/political-junkie-goes-off-q/): If you are not at the peace rally Friday night, you should be glued to your television watching one of our 2 favorite political junkies duke it out with WQED's Off Q panelists.. These include Alan Cox, Fred Honsberger and Ruth Ann Dailey. WQED Friday, March 24, 7:30 PM And, if you do make
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- [PG Advice on Manly Hugs](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/pg-advice-on-manly-hugs/): THE MOST IMPORTANT PART occurs: the ritual back-slap. This is where you retain your masculinity while in an embrace with another man. To counteract this possibly homosexual act, you need to cause pain. Not much, but just enough that says while you are giving love, you are also giving pain. This is very amusing. :-)
- [Poll Shows Americans Become More Supportive of Gay Marriage](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/poll-shows-americans-become-more-supportive-of-gay-marriage/): A poll released Wednesday from the Pew Research Center for the People and Press shows that opposition to gay marriage has dropped from 63% to 51% since February 2004. (365gay.com) More good news. The number of people who say they strongly oppose gay marriage has dropped from 42 percent in early 2004 to 28 percent
- [US stands by while Iraq Death Squads Murdering Gays](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/us-stands-by-while-iraq-death-squads-murdering-gays/): In a stunning human rights travesty, Gay City News reports that gays and lesbians are being systematically kidnapped, beaten and murdered on a daily basis by Iraqui death squads. Following a death-to-gays fatwa issued last October by Grand Ayatollah Ali al-Sistani, death squads of the Badr Corps have been systematically targeting gay Iraqis for persecution
- [New Marc Jacobs Ad Exploits Violence Against Women](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/new-marc-jacobs-ad-exploits-violence-against-women/): From the latest edition of Vogue comes this ad for Marc Jacobs (click on the image to see the larger ad). To see the whole thing for yourself, go to his website click on the rat (???) and then click on Ads under the Collections menu. Most ads are just annoying. This goes over
- [Mac Jacobs.jpg](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/mac-jacobs-jpg/)
- [Pitt Human Rights Conference to Discuss Gay Rights](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/pitt-human-rights-conference-to-discuss-gay-rights/): I found this on the Trib web site Oakland Pitt sponsors human rights conference The University of Pittsburgh is sponsoring the Conference on Human Rights and the Security Continuum from noon to 6 p.m. March 31 and 9 a.m. to 5:30 p.m. April 1 at Posvar Hall, third floor, 230 S. Bouquet St., Oakland. The
- [Catherine Specter: Hypocrites Shouldn't Point Fingers](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/catherine-specter-hypocrites-shouldnt-point-fingers/): This week, I found Catty's advice to be fairly benign. She does still deliver a healthy dose of hypocrisy along with a rather nasty scratch at a reader. Overall, she continues to fall far short of the bar set by the advice goddesses, Ann and Abby. How much longer will the Post-Gazette force us to
- [Creepy](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/creepy/): Rick's smile couldn't be more fake if Hillary were behind him.
- [Easter Bunny v Spring Bunny](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/easter-bunny-v-spring-bunny/): This is not the Easter Bunny (or the Spring Bunny). Her name is Autum and she needs a permanent home. Clickon her picture for more information on helping rabbits. World Net Daily fumes about the left-wing attack on yet another Christian holiday ... Easter. See what Shakespeare Sister does with this ....
- [Are there really Gay Pirates?  Come to Pride Night at PNC Park to Find Out](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/are-there-really-gay-pirates-come-to-pride-night-at-pnc-park-to-find-out/): Take me OUT to the Ballgame! PRIDE NIGHT Saturday June 17, 2006 (After the Pride Awareness March & Riverwalk PrideFest) Gates open at 5:05pm; Game Time 7:05pm Portions of Ticket Sales benefit The Gay & Lesbian Community Center of Pittsburgh We ARE Family .....
- [Hypocrites & bigots](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/hypocrites-bigots/): Some random notes...Rep. Randy Cunningham's loot came on the auction block last week. You remember Randy? The gentleman who ranted about the evils of gay people but then accepted bribes. The last time I checked, stealing was a big one in the ten commandments, but, uh...being gay ...WAS NOT. Also, some observations about who might
- [Trib Writer Takes Solace at Gay Bar](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/trib-writer-takes-solace-at-gay-bar/): The Tribune-Review's Mike Seate enjoys going to True (he doesn't name it, but we all know that's the place he's describing). He also enjoys the reactions of his straight friends to being in a gay oriented bar. Seate does a nice job tweaking the social homophobia of men who delusionally believe they are the sexual target of
- [Would you give your life for a homosexual person?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/would-you-give-your-life-for-a-homosexual-person/): Do you know someone who is homosexual? Would you give your life for that person? Christ did. End religious based bigotry now.
- [Queer Event Listing: K'vetch Pittsburgh is Back](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/queer-event-listing-kvetch-pittsburgh-is-back/): If you loved Sonji Woodruff at the Steel Queer N' At show come see her in an even more intimate setting. (She was the artist who played after intermission with cello...so hot, and we're so damn lucky to have her in Pittsburgh...) Continue to support queer art. Kvetch Thursday March 30 Modernformations Penn/Millvale Show starts
- [AFA says PA Human Relations Commission Oversteps on Gay](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/afa-says-pa-human-relations-commission-oversteps-on-gay/): The American Family Association of Pennsylvania has some problems with the Pennsylvania Human Relations Commission. They claim that Chairman Stephen Glassman is using his position as a "bully pulpit" to promote the homosexual agenda. Mr. Glassman's sins include meeting with homosexual groups to discuss the anti-marriage amendment and working with local municipalities to add sexual
- [KDKA's John McIntire unveils official website and blog](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/kdkas-john-mcintire-unveils-official-website-and-blog/): Here's something new to read ...
- [Church Ad Deemed "Too Controversial" for Networks](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/church-ad-deemed-too-controversial-for-networks/): The United Church of Christ has had another inclusive ad rejected by all major networks for being too "issue oriented." The point of the ads is to reach out to people who feel alienated from church. You can view the ads here. They are hysterical. Interestingly, the networks embrace the Christian Right -- which is decidedly NOT mainstream
- [Professional Wrestler Comes Out](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/professional-wrestler-comes-out/): Just a quick hurrah that professional wrestler Chris Kanyon has come out and given a substantial interview to the Windy City Times. Does it matter? Sure and here's why. Kudos to you, Chris!
- [Gay Round Up](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/gay-round-up/): Lots of goings on today .... From the local front, two letters to the editor in the Post-Gazette. David Schelbe, co-chair of PFLAG Pittsburgh, asks the crucial question -- how will amending the Pennsylvani constitution protect marriage? Amy Beisel of the Pennsylvania Catholic Conference opines that a one man/one woman marriage is unique and special,
- [Bad Gay News from Massachusetts](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/03/bad-gay-news-from-massachusetts/): From 365gay.com comes word that the State Supreme Court will let a 1913 law stand that prohibits clerks from issuing marriage licenses to people from states where their marriage would be illegal. Originally passed to prohibit interracial marriage, the law has been used to prevent non-Mass. same-sex couples from marrying. According to Pam's House Blend ...The
- [Dan Frankel - Anti Gay Marriage Amendment will hurt Pennsylvania](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/04/dan-frankel-anti-gay-marriage-amendment-will-hurt-pennsylvania/): Pennsylvania State Representative Dan Frankel writes a passionate op/ed in today's Post-Gazette. Frankel, a Democrat and long time progressive ally of the LGBT community, examines the potential damage the marriage protection amendment will do to the gay AND unmarried straight communities. Including senior citizens. The impact could be far reaching - health insurance coverage, foster
- [Evangelicals Agree on Gay Marriage and ... Nothing Else?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/04/evangelicals-agree-on-gay-marriage-and-nothing-else/): An article in the Wall Street Journal discussed the lack of unity among Evangelicals around immigration issues. Apparently, our Christian friends are unable to find consensus on this topic - some favor Christian compassion while others believe that law breakers should be punished ... Despite their past unity on other issues, some evangelicals are divided
- [Where are correspondents?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/04/where-are-correspondents/): Thanks for stopping by. The Correspondents are under the weather. Hope to be back soon.
- [Lightning Strikes Library - Lesbian Cannot Get Gender Bending Book ?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/04/lightning-strikes-library-lesbian-cannot-get-gender-bending-book/): Last night, lightning struck the Carnegie Library on the North Side in Allegheny Center. It is my library branch and waiting at the front desk is a copy of Self Made Man by Norah Vincent. My little pile of things to be returned (books and cds) was all set to go, along with my
- [Trib Eggpostulates on Gay Easter Invasion](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/04/trib-eggpostulates-on-gay-easter-invasion/): You thought our first post would be about Darryl Metcalfe's PG opinion piece, didn't cha? We'll save that for later when correspondent Shelly joins the PghLesbian team .... In today's Tribune-Review, the editors whine that homos are trying to steal Easter from the little children. The Family Pride Coalition has organized about 200 gay families
- [Best Pgh Restaurant Ever](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/04/best-pgh-restaurant-ever/): Thursday evening it was my turn to cook and I was feeling uninspired by the dismal pantry contents. Well, actually I was at work and not remotely interested in preparing a meal. So I proposed we dine out. Luckily for us, the Post-Gazette's Munch had reviewed a great little South Side joint ... Cambod-ican Kitchen.
- [White House Lets Gay Families In the Back Door to Easter Egg Hunt](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/04/white-house-lets-gay-families-in-the-back-door-to-easter-egg-hunt/): The White House is generously alllowing children in gay families to participate in the annual Easter Egg Roll festivities. However, amid growing controversy about the gays invading a children's event (code for preventing homos from recruiting children), the White House pulled a fast one as Page One Q reports. The gays queud as early as 24
- [PG Readers Speak Up For Gay Marriage](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/04/pg-readers-speak-up-for-gay-marriage/): The PG has published several letters to the editor in response to Darryl Metcalfe's uninspiring diatribe on the need for a anti-gay marriage amendment. The letters tend to be from heterosexual people, some parents of gay adult children, who clearly get that not only is Metcalfe scapegoating gays but that he has no business investing
- [Photo from White House Easter Egg Hunt](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/04/photo-from-white-house-easter-egg-hunt/): Courtesy of Pam's House Blend Same-sex couple Christina Burke (L) and Victoria Burke (R), both from Salisbury, Maryland, pose with Mrs. Bunny and their daughter, Phobe (6 months old), on the South Lawn of the White House during the annual 2006 White House Easter Egg Roll in Washington, April 17, 2006. The Burke's are wearing
- [Eat Pancakes for Queer Kids --- Something Fun to do next weekend](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/04/eat-pancakes-for-queer-kids-something-fun-to-do-next-weekend/): Dreams of Hope Youth Invited to Perform in Twin Cities Pancake Breakfast Fundraiser! hosted by Dreams of Hope Saturday, April 29 Seating times: 10:00am and 11:30am Community of Reconciliation; 100 N. Bellefield Ave corner of 5th and Bellefield; street parking and lot across Bellefield Performance for both seatings $5 for breakfast EAT DRINK (juice, coffee,
- [Will Congress Allow Christian Schools to Legally Reject LGBT students?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/04/will-congress-allow-christian-schools-to-legally-reject-lgbt-students/): Holy smokes .. this one slipped under the radar. An amendment to the Higher Education Act will allow private Christian colleges to be exempted from state and local non-discrimination laws when it comes to accreditation. Its a cloak and dagger maneuver to essentially allow Christian schools to reject (or expel) homosexual students w/o fear of
- [More from PG readers on anti-gay marriage amendment](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/04/more-from-pg-readers-on-anti-gay-marriage-amendment/): Apparently, I spoke too soon. Today's Post-Gazette includes a letter to the editor from Nancy Staible of Zelienople, Pennsylvania Director of Concerned Women for America. Ms. Staible rambles on about children needing two parents and the fact that married couples are wealthier and less prone to injury. After reading her letter 4 or 5 times,
- [Penn State "reprimands" lesbian baiter coach](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/04/penn-state-reprimands-lesbian-baiter-coach/): Proving once again that athletics trumps anything else in higher education, Penn State has issued a "letter of reprimand" to Rene Portland for her lesbian baiting ways. AND it will go in her permanent file ... ooohhhhh. This is so utterly pathetic ... they acknowledge that Rene Portland harassed Jennifer Harris, but don't deem it
- [City Paper Drops the Ball Exploring the Black Gay Faith Experience](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/04/city-paper-drops-the-ball-exploring-the-black-gay-faith-experience/): This week's City Paper takes an interesting look at the conflict many gay African-American's struggle with between their faith and their sexual orienation. Commend the CP for exploring the range from those who want church help "getting through" being gay to those seeking full acceptance and inclusion. Some ministers take a hard stance invoking scripture
- [PG article on Presbyterian Homophobia confuses Correspondent](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/04/pg-article-on-presbyterian-homophobia-confuses-correspondent/): In today's PG, Ann Rodgers reports on the Pittsburgh Presbytery's decision to keep homonegative language in a document that underscores anti-LGBT ordination. I get that the majority of Presbyterian voters decided that this language is okay with them, even when challenged to reflect on whether this language truly represents the church. What language? Here's a bit:
- [Let's hear it for Heather from Shaler!](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/04/lets-hear-it-for-heather-from-shaler/): The notion of bringing the gay marriage amendment to a referendum vote is laughable. As a woman I feel it is my duty to remind her that the vote she would like to use is the one we gained only in 1920. How can we take a basic civil liberty and use it to bludgeon
- [Rene Portland - What the Local Media Has Been Saying](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/04/rene-portland-what-the-local-media-has-been-saying/): You know Rene Portland is not my favorite person. She is found guilty of discriminating against lesbians (or perceived lesbians) and Penn State gives her a little slap on the wrist. As the Trib reports, Penn State is clearly responsible for "creating Rene Portland and allowing her to get away with this" per Jennifer Harris
- [PG Columnist Catherine Specter Continues to Demean Readers](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/04/pg-columnist-catherine-specter-continues-to-demean-readers/): For the past two weeks, I haven't found anything worth commenting about in the Post-Gazette's "Just Ask Cat" column, a quasi-advice section penned by Catherine Specter. Specter is the genetic mutation of Harriet Nelson and Carrie Bradshaw, minus the cool hair. Why does it bother me so? One need only turn to the back of
- [More sports folks weigh in on Rene Portland's gay bashing](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/04/more-sports-folks-weigh-in-on-rene-portlands-gay-bashing/): What in the world is the Penn State administration thinking by allowing Portland to stay on as coach after its half-year internal investigation determined she created a "hostile, intimidating and offensive environment" for at least one of her players whom she believed to be a lesbian? Ron -- Penn State is thinking they can get
- [Tribune Review - Metcalfe's "Marriage Amendment" Unnecessary](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/04/tribune-review-metcalfes-marriage-amendment-unnecessary/): Tribune Review colunist Eric Heyl has coined a new verb. To "Metcalf" is to "wantonly engage in acts of stupefying redundancy." Heyl goes right for the political jugular Regardless of your opinion on same-sex marriage, know this about Metcalfe's anti-brokeback bill: It is entirely unnecessary, as superfluous and manipulative a piece of legislation as you
- [Do local politicans read the Post-Gazette?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/04/do-local-politicans-read-the-post-gazette/): By my count, the Post-Gazette has published 11 letters to the editor on the topic of the anti-gay marriage amendment making its way through the Pennsylvania House of Representatives. Prior to these letters, the PG featured two op-ed pieces on the same topic. The pro-amendment position came from sponsor, Darryl Metcalfe. The anti-amendment position came from
- [More on Nigerian Gay Hate Bill](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/04/more-on-nigerian-gay-hate-bill/): From Black Looks and Feministing comes this update on the Nigerian legislation criminalizing homosexuality (you'll recall the PG op-ed discussion on this issue). The Nigerian homosexuality bill, the "Same Sex Marriage Prohibition Act, 2006" which was presented to the House on the 31st March has now had its first reading in the Senate. A report
- [Post Gazette Applauds Penn State Stance on Rene Portland](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/04/post-gazette-applauds-penn-state-stance-on-rene-portland/): We applaud university President Graham Spanier for upping the penalty from the initially suggested and insultingly negligible one-game suspension to a $10,000 fine. Perhaps the punishment should have been more severe. Had she discriminated against a player on the basis of race or ethnicity, she'd likely be looking for a new job. I never thought
- [Hurrah for Dana Elmendorf!](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/04/hurrah-for-dana-elmendorf/): Local gay advocate Dana Elmendorf asks Pennsylvania to consider why Darryl Metcalfe and his band of merry men are rushing the marriage protection amendment to the House floor? This was in the PG. UPDATE 11:27 AM: And this was in Friday's Tribune Review. Good job Dana!
- [Lesbians Host ManXposure 2006](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/04/lesbians-host-manxposure-2006/): Aren't they cute? These are two of our canine crew members, Alexander and Amadeus. We've been working on a 7 month quest to help them come to terms with their apparent fear of men. Hence ... MANXPOSURE 2006 Essentially, we ferret out our male friends who aren't afraid of big dogs and invite them over
- [Take Heart:  Rich White Liberals Can Drive Back the Wingers](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/04/take-heart-rich-white-liberals-can-drive-back-the-wingers/): From a blurb on the Post-Gazette website comes the nugget that the Upper St. Clair School District is reinstating the International Baccalaureate program in the face of a hailstorm of protest and a pending lawsuit. IB is an educational curriculum that proposes to give students an "international" perspective in the classroom. Obviously, its a propaganda
- [Trib :  Portland Proves Hate Okay](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/04/trib-portland-proves-hate-okay/): The Trib's Mike Seate steps up for his turn on the Rene Portland homobashing situation and considers Portland a viable candidate for Pennsylvania politics. [I]nstead of offering any apologies or explanations for her bigotry and paranoia, Portland held a news conference last week where she refused to answer any questions. In fact, she pretty much
- [Update on PA Marriage Amendment](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/04/update-on-pa-marriage-amendment/): From the PA-GALA website, an update on the PA marriage protection amendment ... The Anti-Marriage Amendment (HB 2381) is on the Pennsylvania State House of Representatives Agenda for the week of Monday, April 24th! A vote on the Amendment could be held anytime this week! PA-GALA needs you to contact your State Representative and ask him or her to oppose the Anti-Marriage Amendment. Ask your
- [Update on Rich White People, Upper St. Clair and Uncle Eddie](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/04/update-on-rich-white-people-upper-st-clair-and-uncle-eddie/): I was wrong! On Monday, I credited the USC decision to reinstate the International Baccalaureate Program as a sign of hope. From the PG: Funding will come from a combination of $45,000 raised by families of the students and $85,000 guaranteed by Gov. Ed Rendell to the district, board members said. I just shake my
- [Is America headed toward 1870 and 1930 era Germany?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/04/is-america-headed-toward-1870-and-1930-era-germany/): My partner and I went to see the play "I am my own Wife" last night. I know it didn't get a good review in the City Paper, but we both liked it. But, of course, this little post isn't about reviewing a play. According to the program that gave the history of the play,
- [Anti-Gay Graffiti at Geneva College](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/04/anti-gay-graffiti-at-geneva-college/): From the KDKA.com website comes this brief story about a second round of hate laced graffiti in one month on the campus of Geneva College in Beaver Falls. The first time, it was solely racial slurs, now its expanded to anti-gay and anti-Semitic remarks as well. Geneva officials and students state they are trying to avoid
- [A Reply to Rep. Daryl Metcalfe](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/04/a-reply-to-rep-daryl-metcalfe/): Dear Mr. Metcalfe: Your information about the history of marriage is far from accurate. Marriage, as an institution, was first recorded less than 4400 years ago. It was first created as an economic institution: a way of insuring that a man's children were actually his and that his wealth, accumlated over generations, would pass onto
- [Big Lesbian Welcome to Correspondent Shelly](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/04/big-lesbian-welcome-to-correspondent-shelly/): Pittsburgh Lesbian Correspondents is pleased to welcome our newest correspondent Shelly. We've known Shelly for several years -- she is very active in the local LGBT community. Her writing, you will find, is articulate, insightful and from a slightly different perspective than Ledcat and me. Three's Company, too! Welcome aboard Shelly! Sue
- [City Paper - Marriage Amendment Could Hurt A Lot of Heterosexuals](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/04/city-paper-marriage-amendment-could-hurt-a-lot-of-heterosexuals/): We've said it before, but it bears repeating .... Metcalfe's Marriage Amendment could hurt tens of thousands of unmarried heterosexual couples. The City Paper does a nice job with this. U.S. Census 2000 estimates there are roughly 240,000 Pennsylvania families — about 5 percent of the state’s 4.8 million households — made up of unmarried
- [AFA of PA: Being Queer More Risky Than Bullying and Harassment](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/04/afa-of-pa-being-queer-more-risky-than-bullying-and-harassment/): I just have to post the whole damn message I received as part of my subscription to the American Family Association of PA email list. :-) Apparently, homos have shorter life spans than our heterosexual counterparts. Not to mention the obligatory reference to us hurting kids. From: AFA of PA [mailto:info@afaofpa.org] Sent: Thursday, April 27,
- [Hypocrites in right winger land](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/04/hypocrites-in-right-winger-land/): As a member of the female species and a feminist I have been paying attention to the furor in Mt. Lebanon. I have some friends who live in Mt. Lebanon and my grandfather lived there for many years. It's a nice place. Lately it has also provided a lesson in good ole fashion hypocrisy, one
- [Lesbian Correspondent Goes National!](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/04/lesbian-correspondent-goes-national/): I want to thank the man who made it all possible for this little correspondent to hit the big time .... soon to be former US Senator Rick Santorum! Yes, folks, I am doing a one month guest stint as a lesbian correspondent for a NATIONAL blog (ooohhhhhhh!). :-) It is called Big Gay Picture
- [Thugs Linked to Government Attack Polish Gay Marchers](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/04/thugs-linked-to-government-attack-polish-gay-marchers/): From 365gay.com, we find this morning that marchers in a Polish gay tolerance parade (Equality Days) were attacked by youth "counterprotestors" (thugs). Dozens of the parade's 1,000 marchers were injured. Media sources indicate that there is a link between this particular group of thugs and Polish President Lech Kaczynski who has a history of oppressing
- [Altoona Finds Soldier Not Guilty of Sexual Assault; Complaintant Forced to Come Out](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/04/altoona-finds-soldier-not-guilty-of-sexual-assault-complaintant-forced-to-come-out/): An Altoona jury found that an Army Reserve officer was not guilty of sexually assaulting a female officer. He said it was consensual sex. She claimed otherwise. Guess who the jurors believed? During the trial, the woman soldier testified that she had not wanted to file charges for fear that it would come out that she
- [Rene Portland:  Could PFLAG Help?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/04/rene-portland-could-pflag-help/): Rene Portland wins basketball games. She brings out the basketball best in her players. She knows her craft. But is Rene Portland is a good coach?A front-page story in today's Pittsburgh Post-Gazette takes an in-depth look at Portland's background, including her professional successes. She uses a "Mommy" approach to her team -- monitoring their clothing,
- [PA Amendment Vote Expected This Week](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/04/pa-amendment-vote-expected-this-week/): The House Appropriations Committee voted the so-called "Marriage Protection Amendment" out of Committee on April 24th. This was the next procedural step to running the bill, HB 2381, on the House floor. We have heard from legislators that both supporters and opponents to the amendment have been contacting them in unprecedented numbers.It is critical that
- [Russian Christians Partner with Skinheads on Gay Rights](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/05/russian-christians-partner-with-skinheads-on-gay-rights/): Here's a sad fact: Russian Orthdox Catholics are working in unity with skinheads to oppose gay rights. On Sunday police had to hold back a crowd of bottle-tossing skinheads and Bible- clutching church folks who were protesting a gay event at a local club. Not to be outdone by the Christian-Skinhead connection, Russian Muslims are
- [The Trib's Mike Seate - Homo Friend or Foe](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/05/the-tribs-mike-seate-homo-friend-or-foe/): Tribune-Review columnist Mike Seate has recently made repeated forays into gay issues, commenting on Rene Portland as well as the straight-appeal of beloved gay bar True. His most recent column examines anti-gay activists outrage with that icon of the gay community ... Wal-Mart. Yes, of course, its because Wal-Mart is selling DVD copies of Brokeback Mountain.
- [Ohio: Gay Rights Trump Religious Freedom](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/05/ohio-gay-rights-trump-religious-freedom/): Words I thought might never cross my lips ... Hurrah for Ohio! The 6th Circuit Court of Appeals ruled that public employees can be disciplined for discrimination even if they are following religious beliefs. This is a big victory for gay rights advocates because it gives teeth to workplace non-discrimination policies. The case involves a Baptist prison
- [Why Pgh Catholic Schools should contact GLSEN](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/05/why-pgh-catholic-schools-should-contact-glsen/): From last week's Tribune-Review, I found this little item about a young Catholic middle school child who was the victim on-line bullying. According to his mother, classmates put up a faux My Space profile identifying the young man as gay. This happened hand in hand with unspecific physical bullying. So what happened to this kid?
- [Ambridge seminary leader describes gay bishop as "terrorist bomb"](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/05/ambridge-seminary-leader-describes-gay-bishop-as-terrorist-bomb/): Oh, those whacky Episcopalians --- doing their best to drag Pennsylvania back into the Dark Ages. Up to bat this time is the Very Reverend Paul F. M. Zahl, dean of Trinity Episcopal School for Ministry in Ambridge, Pennsylvania. Let me catch you up. This coming weekend, we'll see the election of a bishop for
- [2 Political Junkies Call Out Santorum's Family Value Hypocrisy](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/05/2-political-junkies-call-out-santorums-family-value-hypocrisy/): Today my good friend David over at 2 Political Junkies has an excellent skewer of Ricky Sanctimonious' HYPOCRISY. Apparently, Ricky is willing to support Republican Don Sherwood who acknowledged that he had a five year affair and settled a lawsuit with his lover after she accused him of choking her. Ahem. David does a
- [Rumor has it ...](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/05/rumor-has-it/): He's Back! Commence with the lesbian happy dance!
- [14 year old "gay" child executed in Iraq](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/05/14-year-old-gay-child-executed-in-iraq/): From Raw Story comes news that Iraqi police accused a 14 year old child of corrupting the community because he had sex with men. His punishment was to be dragged from his family's home and shot more than 4 times. The child's name is Ahmed Khalil. According to international lgbt rights group OutRage! Ahmed, like too
- [Corresponents Enjoy Listening to Eve Goodman](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/05/corresponents-enjoy-listening-to-eve-goodman/): Last night, we took a drive into Regent Square to hear singer/songwriter Eve Goodman perform at the Square Cafe. She's great. We heard about her performance through a local Queer Events email list and thought it sounded like a nice evening. So off we drove. It was well worth the $98.34 in gas (kidding). :-) Eve
- [Mary Cheney - Republican Princess of Collusion](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/05/mary-cheney-republican-princess-of-collusion/): How could I not post this (Mike Tidmus blog)
- [Rene Portland Article in PG -- No Letters?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/05/rene-portland-article-in-pg-no-letters/): It has been one week since the Post-Gazette article on the Rene Portland debacle ran (Penn State's 'Mommy Coach' a bigot?) Given that women's hoops are fairly popular around here, I expected ... well, something! Between the lesbians, the parents of high school players, the Pitt b-ball fans, and those who actively support the criminalization of
- [Update on PA Marriage Amendment  - good news](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/05/update-on-pa-marriage-amendment-good-news/): From The Center for Lesbian and Gay Civil Rights comes word that the Pennsylvania House of Representatives has recessed without taking action on the amendment. What exactly does that mean? For one thing, your legislator is home in your district for the next month. This is a good time to contact her/him in person AGAIN and
- [Unintended Casualties: Another Example of Anti-Gay Impact on Unsuspecting Heterosexuals](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/05/unintended-casualties-another-example-of-anti-gay-impact-on-unsuspecting-heterosexuals/): PG writer Sally Kalson tackles the thorny issues of surrogate pregnancy custody in response to a recent court ruling removing custody of triplets from their surrogate mother. It is a complicated, sticky mess and certainly deserving of some attention for our legislature. However, PA plans to establish a legal framework in surrogacy matters will tap into
- [Catherine Specter should work for the Mt. Lebanon School District](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/05/catherine-specter-should-work-for-the-mt-lebanon-school-district/): This week Catherine Specter starts off strong with a well-phrased dose of withering advice for a woman manipulating her husband with a "did he notice my haircut?" test. Nicely done. Could I be wrong about Specter's Carrie Bradshaw ambitions? Not so much. In the next letter, a reader asks whether a lack of compliments from a
- [Post Gazette Kisses White House Ass,  Fawns Over Local Sibs](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/05/post-gazette-kisses-white-house-ass-fawns-over-local-sibs/): Thanks to the Post-Gazette, we now know to avoid Chocolate Celebrations and the Milkshake Factory on Southside. It is the family business of siblings Chris and Dana Edwards, both of whom are proud members of the Bush Administration. Dana coordinates POTUS travel and Chris, who bears the title SPECIAL assistant to the President, oversees logistics
- [Lesbian Brains Differ From Straight Women's Brains](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/05/lesbian-brains-differ-from-straight-womens-brains/): From the AP today, I picked up an interesting little tidbit. Swedish research indicates that lesbians' brains react differently to sex hormones than the brains of straight women. In fact, lesbian reactions are similar to the reaction of heterosexual men; previous research indicates that the opposite is true for gay men - their reaction are
- [Mon Valley Schools Bury Heads in Sand Over Bullying](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/05/mon-valley-schools-bury-heads-in-sand-over-bullying/): From Monday's Valley Independent, I learned that most of the high schools in the mid-Mon Valley believe they are being proactive on cyber-bullying. According to Charleroi Superintendent Dr. Brad Ferko. "I think technology is a great thing, but like everything, it has to be controlled," he said. "We've (addressed) bullying and cyber safety at the PTA
- [Do Pittsburgh Lesbian Correspondents = Pornography?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/05/do-pittsburgh-lesbian-correspondents-pornography/): Tonight some disturbing news from our good friend Dave over at 2 Political Junkies. It seems that the Carnegie Library of Pittsburgh has categorized the Pittsburgh Lesbian Correspondents' website as pornography and blocked access from their computers. OH MY! Seriously, pornography? I took a quick look at the online library policies which indicates that material
- [Anti-Gay Group's Free Speech Violated in Harrisburg](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/05/anti-gay-groups-free-speech-violated-in-harrisburg/): A federal judge has ruled that the constitutionally protected freedom of speech of the Worldwide Street Preachers' Fellowship were violated when the Harrisburg Police refused them access to the 2003 PrideFest celebration. (365gay) The Fellowship attempted to enter an unused portion of Riverfront Park which was not roped off for the event. They were prevented
- [Sue and John McIntire Discuss Mary Cheney on KDKA](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/05/sue-and-john-mcintire-discuss-mary-cheney-on-kdka/): Tune into KDKA Thursday evening when I'll join evening host John McIntire for an in depth look at Mary Cheney's book tour. Yes, Mary has a new book out "It's My Turn Now" which gives us an inside peek at the life of a traitorous Republican whore who happens to be a lesbian. John enjoys lesbian peeking,
- [Howard Dean sucks up to anti-gay 700 Club, will be gay democrat keynote speaker in June](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/05/howard-dean-sucks-up-to-anti-gay-700-club-will-be-gay-democrat-keynote-speaker-in-june/): Ah, Howard. You were a good homo friend. Democratic Party Chair Dean sat down with the always-delightful Pat Robertson on The 700 Club and promptly lied that the Democrartic Party platform did not include gay marriage. In fact, it does support gay marriage. "We support full inclusion of gay and lesbian families in the life
- [No Lesbian Pornography Here!](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/05/no-lesbian-pornography-here/): Earlier this week, the Correspondents learned that our website was allegedly being classified as "pornography" by the Carnegie Library computer system. I contacted the librarians to ask for clarification. Richard Kaplan, Manager of Reference Services, wrote back to me with an explanation. It would seem that my site is not categorized as pornography, but that
- [Catherine Specter - Yinzerette Wannabe?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/05/catherine-specter-yinzerette-wannabe/): In yet another ridiculous attempt to court younger readers, the PG's Cat Specter has gotten herself a makeover. At least her photo has. The Betty Crocker 'do is gone. Instead, Cat has for a very predictable Pittsburgh look - Yinzerette skeeve. You know what I mean -- pseudo skanky hair and the undernourished look of someone who
- [PG Readers Sorely Lacking in Christian Compassion](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/05/pg-readers-sorely-lacking-in-christian-compassion/): I think a few PG readers must have slept in on the Sundays when their pastors talked about visiting the imprisoned and other Jesus references to compassion for the less fortunate. Last week, the paper ran a feature on mothers who are in jail. It was harsh and difficult to read, especially when a woman admitted
- [Butler Co Woman:  God is Not Tolerant](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/05/butler-co-woman-god-is-not-tolerant/): Marlene Lott of Butler County picked up her pen to share her thoughts on gay marriage with the readers of the Post-Gazette. I want my grandchildren to know that their grandmother did what she could to leave a wholesome America for them to live in. Ms. Lott trots out the same tired old connections between
- [PA AFA slap down Laura Bush on gay tolerance](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/05/pa-afa-slap-down-laura-bush-on-gay-tolerance/): The American Family Association of Pennsylvania is displeased with the First Lady for suggesting that gay marriage not be used as a campaign tool. Even Laura Bush is not spared their fury when the AFA smells a whiff of tolerance. From their May 17 press release: Homosexuals have a right to live their lives as they
- [Specter, Feingold Clash; Anti-Gay Marriage Amendment Moves to Senate Floor](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/05/specter-feingold-clash-anti-gay-marriage-amendment-moves-to-senate-floor/): From the AP WASHINGTON -- A Senate committee yesterday approved a constitutional amendment banning same-sex marriage, after a shouting match that ended when one Democrat strode out and the Republican chairman bid him "good riddance." "I don't need to be lectured by you. You are no more a protector of the Constitution than am I,"
- [Fed Court Strikes Down Oklahoma's Anti-Gay Adoption Law](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/05/fed-court-strikes-down-oklahomas-anti-gay-adoption-law/): Whereas our federal government seems insistent on bringing the anti-gay marriage amendment to the Senate floor, things are looking up in the federal court system. More accurately, we aren't losing ground in the federal courts On Friday, the US District Court ruled that an Oklahoma law banning LGBT couples from adopting was so extreme that it
- [Rene Portland - Future Pennsylvania Legislator?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/05/rene-portland-future-pennsylvania-legislator/): She just can't keep her mouth shut. No matter that Penn State found her guilty of discimination on the basis of sexual orientation. No matter that she got off with a little slap on the wrist. No matter that she still faces a huge lawsuit. Rene Portland continues to trumpet her innocence and has now officially
- [Alleg. County Police Target Gay Men Crusing for Sex](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/05/alleg-county-police-target-gay-men-crusing-for-sex/): In another overt example of homophobic law enforcement, Allegheny County police are "stepping up patrols" around a South Park bathroom suspected of being the location of many a gay tryst. The Post-Gazette report hits the classic homophobic note -- the site's proximity to a children's playground. Because you cannot report on gay sex without making
- [Gay Friendly Prom This Weekend in Pittsburgh](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/05/gay-friendly-prom-this-weekend-in-pittsburgh/): SA-TUR-DAY NIGHT! This weekend, the Pittsburgh Chapter of GLSEN (Gay, Lesbian and Straight Educatio Network) will host the Safe Prom for All at the Westin Hotel Convention Center. This event rocks b/c it celebrates creating safe spaces for ALL kids. There are many a straight young adult who attends this celebration of diversity rather than
- [June 4 is Marriage Protection Sunday - Oh Joy!](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/05/june-4-is-marriage-protection-sunday-oh-joy/): Those wild and wacky Baptists are at it again, deeming Sunday June 4 "Marriage Protection Sunday" to rally the troops for the debate on the Federal Anti-Gay Marriage Amendment. From the Southern Baptist Ethics and Religious Liberty Commission: “Supporters of traditional marriage need to bombard their senators’ offices with e-mails and phone calls,” ERLC President
- [Moscow says No to Gay Pride March AND Oscar Wilde?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/05/moscow-says-no-to-gay-pride-march-and-oscar-wilde/): At the beginning of the month, we reported on ties between Russian skinheads, the Russian Orthodox Church and Russian Muslims in the Russian ant-gay movement. Police had to hold back protestors from the three groups trying to disrupt a gay event at a local nightclub. Meanwhile, Moscow mayor Yuri Luzhkov refused to issue a permit for
- [Right WingNuts Target 2006 Pittsburgh PrideFest for Anti-Gay Protest](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/05/right-wingnuts-target-2006-pittsburgh-pridefest-for-anti-gay-protest/): Rescue Pittsburgh is best known for their "blow up the women's health care center" message of Christian love. However, founder Joseph Parente has tried to hurl invectives at a homo or two in conjunction with his cohorts at Operation Rescue. On his blog, he writes: The month of June has become, for some, "pride" month, or
- [Russian Pride and Shame - Police Stand By While Gays Beaten](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/05/russian-pride-and-shame-police-stand-by-while-gays-beaten/): “There was no aggression from our side, we were simply there,” Herr Beck told the DPA press agency. “It is unacceptable that the police offer no protection to gays on the streets.”Around 100 religious and fascist extremists dressed in black kicked and punched gay activists. “Moscow is not Sodom!” shouted a group of Russian women
- [African-American Lesbian Blogger sets the bar high for gay blogs](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/05/african-american-lesbian-blogger-sets-the-bar-high-for-gay-blogs/): Pam's House Blend is one of my daily absolute must-reads. Her take on all things anti-gay, anti-black and anti-woman is smart, insightful and devastating. I've borrowed her phrase "wingnuts" here and linked to her site more frequently that just about any other except the Post-Gazette. The Washington Blade offers up a feisty look at what makes
- [Lesbian Bloggers Denied Access to National Stonewall Democrats Conference](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/05/lesbian-bloggers-denied-access-to-national-stonewall-democrats-conference/): DISCLAIMER: Sue is a former board member of the Steel City Stonewall Democrats chapter. She resigned this past fall along with most of the Executive Board (before launching this blog). Thus, she is somewhat biased on this issue.
- [Allegheny County Police Continue to Target Gay Men](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/05/allegheny-county-police-continue-to-target-gay-men/): From Saturday's Post-Gazette comes word that the Allegheny County Police successfully prevented five gay men from having sex. Or at least they successfully punished five men for having sex by arresting them. Or somewhere in between. As we reported last week, these intrepid cops have been monitoring a men's bathroom on Corrigan Drive (the park's main drag
- [NYC Mayor Bloomberg Will Support Gay Marriage](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/05/nyc-mayor-bloomberg-will-support-gay-marriage/): From the New York Daily News. Mayor Bloomberg landed another left on the right yesterday, coming out strongly in favor of gay marriage - and vowing the city will perform same-sex wedding ceremonies, if allowed. The Republican mayor used his weekly Sunday radio address on Memorial Day weekend to say he is "firmly opposed"
- [AFA sets up Anti-Gay Ford Boycott Website](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/05/afa-sets-up-anti-gay-ford-boycott-website/): Our homo-bigot friends at the American Family Association have taken their gay hate campaign up a notch by setting up a website dedicated to boycotting Ford. Because Ford hates freedom and is out to destroy the fabric of American families by selling cars to homosexuals. h/t to Feministing
- [Russian Gays Defy Homophobic Violence; Will March Again](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/05/russian-gays-defy-homophobic-violence-will-march-again/): These Russian gays are quite an intense bunch. After facing brutality at the hands of the skinheads, the Russian Orthodox faithful and the police, they plan to rally again next year. "The 27th of May has been for us so far an anniversary of the decriminalization of homosexuality in 1993 in Russia. But the gay
- [Pittsburgh Queer Performance: Steel Queer N'At BlowOUT Show](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/05/pittsburgh-queer-performance-steel-queer-nat-blowout-show/): If you are looking for something to do this weekend, check this out: Steel Queer N'At BlowOUT Show at Pittsburgh Eagle June 2nd Doors open at 8:30, Show starts at 9pm. Tickets are $5 in advance, $8 at the door. ADVANCE TICKETS STRONGLY RECOMMENDED. THIS SHOW WILL SELL OUT. Tickets are available at A Pleasant
- [Political Junkie Calls Out Mike Pintek as Homophobe](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/05/political-junkie-calls-out-mike-pintek-as-homophobe/): HOMO? One of Pittsburgh's most creative political bloggers put up a nugget this morning about former KDKA talk radio personality Mike Pintek using the word "homo" while hosting a program on PCNC. Pintek was discussing the use of South Park restrooms for sexual encounters among gay men. According to Maria: Mike Pintek was the host
- [Ohio's "Marriage Amendment" Allows Another Abuser to Walk](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/05/ohios-marriage-amendment-allows-another-abuser-to-walk/): Marriage may be safe in Ohio, but unmarried women aren't. This past week, an appellate court overturned the conviction of an Ohio man convicted of domestic violence (a fourth degree felony) because he was not married to his victim. The court found that the domestic violence sentence violates the constitutional amendment designed to protect marriage from
- [Erie PrideFest set for Saturday June 10](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/05/erie-pridefest-set-for-saturday-june-10/): From the Erie Gay News: Saturday, June 10th Pride Erie Picnic Once again, the Pride Erie Picnic will be held at Presque Isle State Park at the Rotary Pavilion.We are back to having the Picnic on the traditional 2nd Saturday in June (June 10) and we will run from 1 PM to 6 PM (starts
- [Rene Portland Lawsuit Expands After Coach Denigrates Player](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/06/rene-portland-lawsuit-expands-after-coach-denigrates-player/): From 365gay comes the tidbit that lawyers for Jennifer Harris, the former player suing Penn State coach Rene Portland for harassment and discrimination, have expanded the scope of the lawsuit. This move comes after Portland made public statements degrading Harris and dismissing her athletic accomplishments. “We're not saying Rene does not have a right to defend
- [Up To Bat - Tony Norman](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/06/up-to-bat-tony-norman/): I woke up with one of those sinus headaches slightly reminiscent of a hangover without the fun memories. Another crappy Friday to muddle through. I'm scrolling through the online edition of the Post-Gazette and I stumble into the return of my all-time favorite columnist - Mr. Tony Norman. PLUS, he even makes a gay joke about
- [PG Reader Asks Bob Casey to Step Up](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/06/pg-reader-asks-bob-casey-to-step-up/): Edith Bell of Highland Park has got it right: Mr. Casey is also correct that Pennsylvanians' concerns are health care, the war in Iraq and a living wage, not gay marriage or abortion rights. Yet both our federal and state legislative bodies are compelled to whip Americans into a puritanical frenzy over anti-gay marriage amendments.
- [McIntire Tackles Gay Marriage Amendment:  "Its Unconstitutionable"](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/06/mcintire-tackles-gay-marriage-amendment-its-unconstitutionable/): While he deftly minces closer to his own heterosexual-style wedding to the lovely and talented Roberta, our good friend and lesbian-lover John McIntire gave gay marriage a big old shout out in his local blog, MacYapper.com. In spite of his fondness for large-fonted bold-faced type (I always wondered what his type was), McIntire adroitly dissects
- [Soulforce Erects Gay Positive Billboards](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/06/soulforce-erects-gay-positive-billboards/): Soulforce is hoping to put up 16 of these billboards in June in opposition to the Federal Marriage Amendment. You can help. The anti-gay forces are making another attempt to amend the U.S. Constitution to define marriage in such a way as to exclude the families of gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender people. Senator Bill
- [Trib Column:  Conservative Says Marriage Amendment is a Bad Idea](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/06/trib-column-conservative-says-marriage-amendment-is-a-bad-idea/): I missed this, but on Thursday the Trib published a column by Jim Powell, a senior fellow at the Cato Institute (limited government, free markets, etc). Powell explains how federal regulation of marriage proved to be a bad conservative idea back in the days of Theodore Roosevelt. Polygamous families were producing more children than monogamous families
- [White House Posts Mary Cheney Interview](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/06/white-house-posts-mary-cheney-interview/): All I can do with a straight face is post the link.
- [Sue](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/06/sue-2/): Sue comes from a long and proud yinzer/steelworker tradition, stretching back over 150 years. She grew up in West Mifflin home of Kennywood and the great yinzer hang out Century III Mall where she was misguided on the value of big hair and neon jewelry for years. Sue has a bachelor's degree in political science
- [Steel Queer N'At:  Correspondents Weigh In](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/06/steel-queer-nat-correspondents-weigh-in/): Last night, we toddled off to The Eagle to catch Steel Queer N'At, a quarterly performance of Pittsburgh queer talent put together by a local eclectic queer art collective. For months, we've talked about going to the monthly K'vetch performances (third Thursdays at Modern Formations in Garfield), but something always came up. So this was
- [Santorum Willing to Treat Homos "Nicely"](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/06/santorum-willing-to-treat-homos-nicely/): In an appearance on yet another right wingnut talk program, Ricky Sanctimonious played his oh-so-tired homo card. Again. This time he was on Janet Parshall's America (I wish I had my own America), a nationally syndicated talk radio program. I picked this up from the Raw Story. Read what Ricky has to say this time
- [Howard Dean Loves the Homos and the 700 Club](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/06/howard-dean-loves-the-homos-and-the-700-club/): DNC Chairman Howard Dean was in town this weekend to address the annual convention of the National Stonewall Democrats aka "gay Democrats." Dean told the assembled faithful that Stonewall has made the party "stronger, more inclusive, more courageous, more tenacious." (PG) Mr. Dean said DNC operatives had been instructed to work with the gay community
- [Is Catherine Specter Inching Toward Feminism?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/06/is-catherine-specter-inching-toward-feminism/): This morning, I flipped to the "Just Ask Cat" segment in the PG and almost spilled my coffee. No, she still has the rich girl slumming as hipster yinzerette photo up. Its way more interesting than that. And you know how much I look forward to reading Cat's insipid advice each week. Cat stood up
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- [What's the story with True, Pittsburgh's Gay Bar on the Northside?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2006/06/whats-the-story-with-true-pittsburghs-gay-bar-on-the-northside/): This caught my eye in the June 2006 edition of Pittsburgh's OUT, the monthly gay newspaper. Click on the image to read the full text of the ad. We liked True b/c they had a coffee bar and were smoke free. We didn't go often, but it seemed busy enough as we drove by. And
- [The search for weapons of heterosexual destruction -- Mary Cheney's baby garners yet another opinion piece](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/01/the-search-for-weapons-of-heterosexual-destruction-mary-cheneys-baby-garners-yet-another-opinion-piece/): The PG ran an interesting commentary by Slate's William Saletan who contemplates the oft-cited but never actually proven claim that homosexuals are not fit parents. The 30-year search for proof that gay parents are destructive looks a lot like the hunt for WMD. Saletan uses the conception and pregnancy of Mary Cheney to illustrate his
- [Massachusetts Lawmakers Keep Anti-Gay Marriage Amendment Alive](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/01/massachusetts-lawmakers-keep-anti-gay-marriage-amendment-alive/): Lawmakers in Massachusetts are in the midst of a Constitutional Convention and a vote today paved the way for a constitutional amendment barring gay marriage to move forward. To make it onto the ballot, the amendment must pass in another legislative session. You might recall the Massachusetts is the only state in which gay marriage
- [A Cool School Chick - Heather Arnet Backed for School Board](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/01/a-cool-school-chick-heather-arnet-backed-for-school-board/): Kudos to the District 2 School Board Coalition for endorsing Heather Arnet to run for the school board seat being vacated by Highland Park resident Patrick Dowd. Arnet, also a Highland Park resident, is the Executive Director of the Women and Girls Foundation of Southwestern Pennsylvania. The Correspondents (and the Lesbians) are long-time fans of
- [Why Pittsburgh Libraries Rock er, Tango ?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/01/why-pittsburgh-libraries-rock-er-tango/): The Post-Gazette's Big Kahuna himself , David Shribman, dedicated his weekly column to a subject near and dear to our hearts - public libraries. It seems some libraries are contemplating replacing underutilized classics with modern hot properties to conserve shelf space. Ick! Shribman correctly points out the damage this move can cause: Some of the slow-moving
- [West VA Sheriff Refused CPR, Gay Man Dies, Civil Rights Case Moves Forward](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/01/west-va-sheriff-refused-cpr-gay-man-dies-civil-rights-case-moves-forward/): Back in March, we reported on the West Virigina Sheriff who denied CPR to a dying gay man under the pretext that the man was HIV+. The man, Claude Greene, died later that evening at a local hospital. Greene's friend was present at the scene but was physically prevented from performing CPR by Robert K.
- [Presbyterian Bashing?  PG Reader Defends Church From Homo Lovers](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/01/presbyterian-bashing-pg-reader-defends-church-from-homo-lovers/): James M. Edwards of Squirrel Hill is not happy with Carol Mullen of Edgewood. So very not happy that he took the time out of his busy schedule of sanctimonious self-congratulations to pen a little missive to the Post-Gazette. Edwards took umbrage with a letter Mullen had published on December 26 offering her insight into the
- [Councilwoman Darlene Harris' Credibility Goes Up In Smoke](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/01/councilwoman-darlene-harris-credibility-goes-up-in-smoke/): In another stunning effort to spin negative publicity, City Councilwoman Darlene Harris claims that she did not order a smoke eater machine to de-stuffify her office. Ms. Harris simply wanted some box fans and now she is outraged, outraged I tell you, that someone mistakenly spent $1200 on the smoke eater. "I wanted a little
- [Good Workplace News for Pgh Homos](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/01/good-workplace-news-for-pgh-homos/): Good news for members of the LGBTQ community working for a handful of our local employers. From the Post-Gazette ... Mellon Financial Corp., US Airways and GlaxoSmithKline were among 142 companies ranked as the Best Places to Work for Gay, Lesbian Bisexual and Transgender Workers. The Human Rights Campaign Foundation's 2007 rankings include companies that
- [Tony Norman on The Tragedy of King Richard the Cheney](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/01/tony-norman-on-the-tragedy-of-king-richard-the-cheney/): I won't waste words telling you how much I enjoyed this column. I'll just give you a teaser and link you on your way... Cheney: I will not sup tonight. Give me some ink and paper, maybe some buckshot while you're at it.Are all my guns laid out? Gates: They are my liege; and all
- [That's Commander Catherine McNeilly to you, Mayor Ravenstahl](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/01/thats-commander-catherine-mcneilly-to-you-mayor-ravenstahl/): Ohhhh ... in a nice courtroom twist, a federal judge granted a preliminary injunction to Commander McNeilly reinstating her to the rank of Commander. You'll recall all the glorious details when Commander McNeilly blew the whistle on the nefarious goings on of Dennis Regan the political hack driver who would be Public Safety Director. Thanks
- [Lesbians on the Prowl for John McIntire](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/01/lesbians-on-the-prowl-for-john-mcintire/): Per today's post at his Macyapper blog, it appears John is back in town and rarin' to go. Word on the street -- okay, in yesterday's Post-Gazette which is practically the same thing minus the labor tension and stale donuts -- is that John may soon pop up on a local FM talk station. Namely,
- [Pittsburgh's Lesbian Barbie](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/01/pittsburghs-lesbian-barbie/): This came from a friend amidst all sorts of stereotypical Pittsburgh Barbie types. I thought it was pretty funny ... This doll is made of actual tofu. She has long straight brown hair, arch-less feet, hairy armpits, no makeup and Birkenstocks with white socks. She prefers that you call her Willow. She does not want
- [AFA of PA Horrified that School District could partner with GLSEN](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/01/afa-of-pa-horrified-that-school-district-could-partner-with-glsen/): The woman who loves to hate us dykes and faggots is at it again. Diane Gramley, the high priestess of Pennsylvania family values, has snagged herself a story in the Beaver County Times outlining her "concerns" about recent outreach from the Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education Network (GLSEN) to the Ambridge Area School District. The
- [Post-Gazette Looks at "Gay-Friendliness" of Pittsburgh without talking to the gays!](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/01/post-gazette-looks-at-gay-friendliness-of-pittsburgh-without-talking-to-the-gays/): Usually, I enjoy MacKenzie Carpenter's articles ... sort of like curling up in your bathrobe with a warm cup of coffee and the tattered copy of "Pride and Prejudice" or "The Brothers Karamazov." Sure the predictability is there, but you never tire of the artistry, the divine spark that generated such a wonderful read. So
- [Anti-Rene Portland sentiment flares in Michigan](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/01/anti-rene-portland-sentiment-flares-in-michigan/): According to an online edition of Michigan's LGBTQ newsletter, a group of 300+ straight and gay women wore lavender shirts to the recent University of Michigan/Penn State women's basketball game. Sunday's protest served as a triumphant moment for gay folks, especially considering the massive turnout. It showed that there are people in the state of
- [We predict city Solicitor will take fall for Ravenstahl](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/01/we-predict-city-solicitor-will-take-fall-for-ravenstahl/): Our prediction on the McNeilly/Regan situation - Acting city Solicitor George Specter will resign or retire, Ravenstahl will continue to blame the O'Connor administration and the city will settle with McNeilly prompting her to retire immediately afterwards. The Ravenstahl puppetmasterers will easily sacrifice one lawyer to keep their golden Pinnochio bright, shiny and electable. Our
- [Peduto Announces for Mayor on Monday?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/01/peduto-announces-for-mayor-on-monday/): Received this today vis a vis the Run Baby Run email list ... Everyone is invited to join Bill Peduto for a Special Announcement: Monday, January 22, from 7 -9 p.m. At the Union Project, 801 N. Negley Ave., in Highland Park Refreshments will be served. This event is free & open to the public.
- [Pittsburgh Gay Round Up : McIntire, McCain, and Madison, Wisconsin](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/01/pittsburgh-gay-round-up-mcintire-mccain-and-madison-wisconsin/): Not much happening locally in the LGBTQ world. No rancid letters to the editor, no debates over GSAs in the local schools, no closets being opened. Peduto's announcement is good news for those of us who want an actual Democrat, not the Yinzer Republican Prince in sheep's, oops, lamb's clothing. For the chicas, coming up
- [Is Pittsburgh a Gay Tourist Mecca?  Post-Gazette Readers Chime In](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/01/is-pittsburgh-a-gay-tourist-mecca-post-gazette-readers-chime-in/): Earlier in the week, our beloved Post-Gazette took a half-hearted look at Pittsburgh's potential as a gay tourist destination (or not). Someone beyond your faithful correspondents noticed and took the time to share their perspective with the PG readership. First, we have the "tolerant" homophobe who believes in live and let live as long as
- [Ravenstahl, McIntire, Pgh City Police:  The Gay Angle No One is Talking About](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/01/ravenstahl-mcintire-pgh-city-police-the-gay-angle-no-one-is-talking-about/): Not a single homo involved and this story has more twists and turns than a drag queen's virginal encounter with panty hose, a site much prettier than watching Luke Ravenstahl contort an explanation out of this story. If you read the subtext, its right out of a gay movie -- Slightly inebriated guy meets guy in uniform, intense
- [Nigeria About to Outlaw "Being Gay" -- Thanks Episcopalians!](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/01/nigeria-about-to-outlaw-being-gay-thanks-episcopalians/): Shout out to all the Pittsburgh Episcopalians who have supported the Grand PooBah of Intolerance, Bishop Duncan and his desire to break away to form his own sect. We've covered his longstanding attachment to Nigerian Archbishop Peter Akinola. Well you should be congratuled b/c your bigotry and anti-gay sentiment have built a direct bridge to the
- [Ravenstahl "There's more than one reason to handcuff a man"](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/01/ravenstahl-theres-more-than-one-reason-to-handcuff-a-man/): Now that Main Stream Media (MSM) has sunk its teeth into this little tale of a man and his handcuffs, the gay drama just escalates. This is like Queer Eye meets Cops. WPXI airs previous interview where Ravenstahl plays word games to essentially deny being handcuffed. If he didn't actually lie about it, he omitted
- [Philly Anti-Gay Protestors Arrest OK court rules](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/01/philly-anti-gay-protestors-arrest-ok-court-rules/): Not feeling so well today so I'm going to cheat. From 365gay.com and the Philadelphia Daily News comes word that bigotry does not always win. (Philadelphia, Pennsylvania) A federal judge has ruled that the city of Philadelphia did not violate the rights of an anti-gay group when it arrested them during a protest at the city's gay
- [Blogging for Choice in Pittsburgh](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/01/blogging-for-choice-in-pittsburgh/): Today I join hundreds of other bloggers around the nation to share why I am pro-choice. Please forgive if this does not flow as well as I would like - I'm not feeling 100% today. Blog for Choice Day is a chance to raise the profile of reproductive rights issues in the blogosphere and the
- [Gay wedding announcements - Post Gazette says yes?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/01/gay-wedding-announcements-post-gazette-says-yes/): Today's PG features news of an alliance promoting gay wedding announcements in newspapers throughout the land. Mr. Robinson said the alliance is intensifying its campaign to encourage gays and lesbians to submit news of their engagements and commitment ceremonies. "For a lot of daily newspapers, a lot of editorial decisions are driven by their community,"
- [Pittsburgh music you won't want to miss](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/01/pittsburgh-music-you-wont-want-to-miss/): Its a brrrrryyyy cold week here in da 'burgh. Being firmly ensconced on the couch with some illness of indeterminate origin, I don't have much in the way of excitement or cool tidings to share with you. My supervisor actually sent me home from work. It was just like elementary school without the call for
- [Cat's Call: PG Advice Columnist Jettisons Carrie Bradshaw Approach - Meow!](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/01/cats-call-pg-advice-columnist-jettisons-carrie-bradshaw-approach-meow/): The Correspondents are happy to report that the advice business over at the Post-Gazette has slowly improved. Fear not, they haven't kicked off the "Just Ask Reg" column much to the dismay of middle age white guys throughout the city. We understand that Mayor Opie had floated the idea of a nifty "Do What Dennis Says" daily column
- [Queer Shout Out to Sparkly Crippled Disco Babe on the Bus](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/01/queer-shout-out-to-sparkly-crippled-disco-babe-on-the-bus/): Our great friend and all-around grooviest of the cool chics - Jennah - has gotten herself quote in the Pittsburgh Post-Gazette on a matter of great import to every one of us ... the proposed Port Authority transit cuts. Jennah is one of the amazingest people in the world -- she takes no shit but
- [Tony Norman: Isaiah Washington "irrelevant" to reality of homophobia within African-American community](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/01/tony-norman-isaiah-washington-irrelevant-to-reality-of-homophobia-within-african-american-community/): From today's Post-Gazette: Is it religion that fosters this willful ignorance and compulsion to deny basic civil rights to other oppressed minorities? Why is the black church so complicit in taking up the cudgel of discrimination when so many organists, choir leaders and assistant pastors are obviously gay? What accounts for this shameful lack of
- [News from Ohio:  Plans to protect state workers from discrimination on basis of sexual orientation and gender identity](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/01/news-from-ohio-plans-to-protect-state-workers-from-discrimination-on-basis-of-sexual-orientation-and-gender-identity/): h/t to Pam's House Blend According to the Dayton Daily News, Ohio Governor Ted Strickland may soon sign an executive order protecting state workers from discrimination based on sexual orientation. The even better news is that the Secretary of State and Attorney General plan to expand that to include gender identity. "Frankly, I don't think
- [Hysterical Christian Pop Parody:  God Hates Fags  - What Does Pgh Bishop Duncan Think?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/01/hysterical-christian-pop-parody-god-hates-fags-what-does-pgh-bishop-duncan-think/): h/t to Pam's House Blend This is absolutely hysterical. A video from the upcoming album of Donnie Davis and Evening Service from Love God's Way ministries. Pam has all the details as intrepid bloggers ferret out the genius behind this parody. Its been banned from MySpace, Google and YouTube. I was rolling in my pajamas
- [AFA of PA: Diversity Undermining Academic Focus in PA Schools](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/01/afa-of-pa-diversity-undermining-academic-focus-in-pa-schools/): Diane Gramley sent me another press releases yesterday. It seems she has uncovered the school system component of the homosexual agenda -- we are going to infiltrate the academic world by promoting diversity and thus, perhaps undermine academic efforts. [GLSEN's] No Name Calling Week lesson plans were one to two 30-45 minute sessions per day.
- [Pittsburgh's LGBTQ Family Diversity Festival](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/01/pittsburghs-lgbtq-family-diversity-festival/)
- [PG Reader:  Tony Norman Right About Minority Homophobia](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/02/pg-reader-tony-norman-right-about-minority-homophobia/): Ray McGogney of Shaler on homophobia in minority communities: One can spout anti-gay epithets with impunity and cloak the bigotry in religious and moral overtones. Unfortunately, too few leaders are willing to risk offending their ethnic or religious base by taking a stand against homophobia. Ray writes in response to Tony Norman's recent column
- [Black AIDS Day, Rene Portland, Snickers and is Prince phallic?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/02/black-aids-day-rene-portland-snickers-and-is-prince-phallic/): Still not feeling up to par so very light blogging of late. Here's a few tidbits that I may explore later: Today (Weds) is the seventh annual National Black HIV/AIDS Awareness Day. See Tony Norman's excellent column on this very important topic. Former Penn State basketball player Jennifer Harris reached a settlement in her discrimination
- [Cool lesbo stuff to do](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/02/cool-lesbo-stuff-to-do/): Not so much fun stuff on tap for this weekend. Ledcat and I are taking my Dad out to celebrate his 66th birthday. Then we cap off the weekend with more carpet-ripping-up and, just possibly, feng shuing the cat boxes. Exciting, no? Sunday is the Family Diversity Festival at the Center for Creative Play, brought
- [Gay-B-Gone!](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/02/gay-b-gone/): h/t Pam's House Blend
- [Mainstream Media vs the Burghosphere: Which White Men Should You Listen To?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/02/mainstream-media-vs-the-burghosphere-which-white-men-should-you-listen-to/): By now, you've certainly caught this week's edition of the City Paper and noted the feature story on local blogs aka the Burghosphere -- yes, dear readers, we have yinzerized the blogosphere. The Burghosphere is young, hip, sassy and an "alternative" to the mainstream media (MSM). Or so says all the white guys writing the
- [Gene Collier on gays in sports](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/02/gene-collier-on-gays-in-sports/): In today's Post-Gazette, the inimitable Gene Collier takes a shot at figuring at the implication of Penn State's homoconnection to basketball. Actually, he contrasts the settlement of Jennifer Harris' lawsuit citing PSU coach Rene Portland's homobigotry with the coming out of former PSU bball player John Amaechi. Let me summarize - the fact that Amaechi
- [First Openly Gay NBA Player On Tour for Human Rights Campaign, Not Coming to Pittsburgh](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/02/first-openly-gay-nba-player-on-tour-for-human-rights-campaign-not-coming-to-pittsburgh/): John Amaechi, once a star player for the Orlando Magic, is the first NBA player to ever publicly come out as a gay man. Now retired from basketball, Amaechi's unique story is detailed in his autobiography, Man in the Middle just released by ESPN Books. Now, Amaechi is an official spokesperson for the Human
- [Random Thoughts on Snow Lesbians](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/02/random-thoughts-on-snow-lesbians/): I drifted off to sleep Saturday evening as Jon Burnett warned us of 9-12 inches of snow Monday evening. Yes, I thought as my eyes closed, that might mean a snow day. I have been waiting all of my adult life for the thrill of a snow day. My childhood snow days in the late
- [The Boondocks creator Aaron McGruder is comin' to Pittsburgh this weekend](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/02/the-boondocks-creator-aaron-mcgruder-is-comin-to-pittsburgh-this-weekend/): That's what Ledcat and I got each other for Valentine's Day ... an evening with Aaron McGruder. I am way excited even though the advertising misleads you into thinking there are $15.00 tickets. Not so much since we bought the cheapest seats and dropped $53.00. Good thing dyke-flavored snarkey pays so well ... I actually
- [John McCain Keynote Speaker for Creationism/ID Proponents](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/02/john-mccain-keynote-speaker-for-creationismid-proponents/): h/t Pam's House Blend File this under ... huh. Discovery Institute is pleased to co-present with CityClub of Seattle and the Seattle World Affairs Council a luncheon featuring U.S. Senator John McCain. The Discovery Institute is a right-wing think tank with a well established track record as a proponent/defendant of Intelligent Design. Think Progress also
- [The Snowstorm That Ate Pittsburgh; Lesbians Run Out of Creamer](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/02/the-snowstorm-that-ate-pittsburgh-lesbians-run-out-of-creamer/): Finally ... I wake up to some good news. I don't hafta go anywhere b/c I brought my work home with me (I'm rapping my knuckles on my temple right now). I get to finish a grant proposal and a home study report in my pajamas. Woo hoo! I've been mesmerized by KDKA's coverage of
- [Because Human Rights Include Gay People in Nigeria, Read This ...](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/02/because-human-rights-include-gay-people-in-nigeria-read-this/): From 365gay.com ... Abuja) The National Assembly held public hearings Wednesday on a bill to ban gay marriage and criminalize virtually all forms of gay expression in Nigeria. The bill lays down penalties of up to five years for anyone watching or reading material deemed to be pro-gay either in public or in their own homes,
- [Coolest Gayesque Penguin Love Triangle Ever ...](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/02/coolest-gayesque-penguin-love-triangle-ever/): In what would be the coolest gayesque Pittsburgh love triangle ever, check out Pitt Girl's latest post ... Did somebody start a Sidney and Mario gay rumor without me knowing it? Sonni and Sidney? Or Sidney and Mario? All I'm saying is that if Luke Ravenstahl ends up in handcuffs at the new hockey arena,
- [PG Sports Guy Jerry Micco Represents Well on Gay Issues](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/02/pg-sports-guy-jerry-micco-represents-well-on-gay-issues/): There is nothing earthshattering in the Valentine's Day PG chat transcript featuring Jerry Micco. He simply makes a few comments about Penn State retaining Rene Portland as their women's basketball coach and former NBA player John Amaechi's coming out. What's interesting is the opportunity for the rest of us to note that while there is a
- [PG Letter to the Editor on Rene Portland](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/02/pg-letter-to-the-editor-on-rene-portland/): From today's Sports Mailbag, Harriet L. Schwartz of Squirrel Hill: Penn State coach Rene Portland is an adult working on a college campus who has created a hostile and intimidating environment for students. As a university educator, she has harassed students, and continues to get away with it. As a longtime educator, I cannot comprehend
- [An Open Letter to H's Mom Regarding Homophobia](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/02/an-open-letter-to-hs-mom-regarding-homophobia/): Dear H's Mom, Congratulations on raising spunky, articulate and polite daughter. As you know, she took the time to post a comment on this blog several months ago, sharing her thoughts on the Upper St. Clair performance of "The Importance of Being Earnest" and the potential for homophobia. Unlike most of those who comment here, she
- ["I hate gay people" comment giving homophobes a black eye](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/02/i-hate-gay-people-comment-giving-homophobes-a-black-eye/): This is just too delicious. The Concerned Women for America are taking former NBA player Tim Harding to task for his recent homophobic rant. The CWA fears that Harding's blatant bigotry will taint the anti-gay movement. Or something like that. Just check this out: "Hardaway’s comments are both unfortunate and inappropriate,” said Matt Barber, CWA’s
- [Smokes for Chicks ... Camel Femmes Up The Joint (so to speak)](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/02/smokes-for-chicks-camel-femmes-up-the-joint-so-to-speak/): Remember waaay last year when I was complaining about plans to hold a breast cancer fundraiser in a hookah bar? Well, I got some righteous girl flak from the promoter (Girl Weapon X) and her posse who didn't appreciate me questioning their, like, total commitment to preventing cancer. Scratching your head to remember Girl Weapon
- [The Death of Brent Dugan - Please Don't Overlook the Homophobia](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/02/the-death-of-brent-dugan-please-dont-overlook-the-homophobia/): The City Paper's Melissa Meinzer offers us a peek into the world of Brent Dugan's flock after his tragic suicide, fueled in part by KDKA's planned story on his homosexual activities. To put it bluntly, a lot of people over there hate Marty Griffin for his role in this story and view him as completely responsible for
- [PG Editors:  Hardaway 'Profoundly Ignorant Millionaire Athlete'](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/02/pg-editors-hardaway-profoundly-ignorant-millionaire-athlete/): The PG editors chime in on Tim Hardaway's banishment from the NBA All-Star weekend in response to his "I hate gay people" comments. Former Orlando Heat basketball star Tim Hardaway showed just how profoundly ignorant a millionaire athlete can be and still tie his own shoes in the morning. That's a great line.
- [How Long Until Hardaway Ends Up In Rehab?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/02/how-long-until-hardaway-ends-up-in-rehab/): "I don't hate gay people," [Tim] Hardaway said. "I'm a goodhearted person. I interact with people all the time. ... I respect people. For me to say 'hate' was a bad word, and I didn't mean to use it." That's apology-take two. He didn't mean to hate on us. And he's surprised at the reaction
- [Lesbian Correspondent Wrests Control of Queer Reporting Back From Upstart Middle Age White Guy](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/02/lesbian-correspondent-wrests-control-of-queer-reporting-back-from-upstart-middle-age-white-guy/): We here at Lesbian Central are pleased that our good friend and all-around groovy middle aged white guy John McIntire wants to expand his repetoire of gay jokes beyond the phrase "butt fuck." He now seems hung up on kissing (lesbian kissing, Snickers eatin' men kissing, Ravenstahl's ass kissing ...) but that's movement in the
- [Does Luke Ravenstahl Want To Grow Up To Be Jeff Verszyla?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/02/does-luke-ravenstahl-want-to-grow-up-to-be-jeff-verszyla/)
- [Thanks, Tim Hardaway.](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/02/thanks-tim-hardaway/): Check this aht ... Last week, Tim Hardaway declared his hatred of gay people. Gay people should be thankful.
- [Detroit - 72 year old man beaten senseless, left paralyzed because he's gay](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/02/detroit-72-year-old-man-beaten-senseless-left-paralyzed-because-hes-gay/): Some sick freak beat up a 72 year old man in Detroit. With a pipe. Because he thought the man was gay. Now he's paralyzed and reported to be slipping away. The victim, Andrew Anthos (right), was riding a city bus back to his residence at Detroit's Windsor Tower apartments on Feb. 13 when another
- [I've Seen This Face Before](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/02/ive-seen-this-face-before/)
- [Will Luke Ravenstahl attend Steel City Stonewall (Gay)  Democrats Pgh Candidates Forum](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/02/will-luke-ravenstahl-attend-steel-city-stonewall-gay-democrats-pgh-candidates-forum/): Maybe its just me, but isn't the mayoral race important to the region, too? Luke Ravenstahl isn't exactly Mr. Progressive per 2 Political Junkies on issues like choice, contraception, free speech, open government, blah, blah, blah. I know the muckety muck rich Riccardi loving homos embrace these Social Conservative Democrats for all they are worth, but
- [Local queer youth explore issues of faith through drama troupe](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/02/local-queer-youth-explore-issues-of-faith-through-drama-troupe/): The Post-Gazette has a thoughtful piece on Dreams of Hope, a local drama troupe for LGBTQ teens and their allies. Their performance theme this year is "Gay Youth in Good Faith." "One of the biggest themes is the personal issue of sin, of how something that is so natural and doesn't seem like a bad
- [The Slippery Slope of Intolerance and Second-Class Status Leads to Death of 72 Year Old Gay Bashing Victim](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/02/the-slippery-slope-of-intolerance-and-second-class-status-leads-to-death-of-72-year-old-gay-bashing-victim/): Andrew Anthos, a 72 year old Michigan gay man who was viciously beaten with a pipe outside his apartment, has died from his injuries. He survived for several days, paralyzed and barely able to breathe. Here's my post on the original attack. This man was riding home from the public library on a public bus.
- [Beaver County Man - Society Sissified by Affirmative Action](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/02/beaver-county-man-society-sissified-by-affirmative-action/): What with all the weather and all, I missed this little gem of a letter in the Beaver County Times that was penned by Paul Kisiday of Freedom (ironic, no?). Paul decries the sissification of contemporary society as exemplified by complaints over Super Bowl ads. It seems that all the furor over distraught robots, homoerotic
- [PG Takes a Look at the Pgh Episcopal Role in Larger Debate](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/02/pg-takes-a-look-at-the-pgh-episcopal-role-in-larger-debate/): For months, our attention here in Pittsburgh has been given to one of the nation's most outspoken mongerers of Christo-intolerance, Episcopal Bishop Duncan. Even as Pittsburgh's Episcopal diocese moves increasingly to the conservative right with a threat to leave the Episcopal body and seek refuge in the worldwide Anglican union, there are voices in the
- [The Trib Weighs in on Gay Sheep and Tim Hardaway](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/02/the-trib-weighs-in-on-gay-sheep-and-tim-hardaway/): Local opinion seems to be that our own con-alternative paper, the Tribune Review, is pretty anti-gay. The fact, however, is that most of their gay coverage has been consistent with mainstream thought on gays -- we aren't so bad after all, its not such a big deal, don't we have better things to worry about
- [Meliss and Tammy at the Oscars](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/02/meliss-and-tammy-at-the-oscars/): Ellen was funny. Too bad we had to sit through 750 tribute and homage videos, not to mention a sound effects choir. B-O-R-I-N-G. I would rather listen to all the flaming fashion critics screech their way through the entire red carpet line, including the men, than sit through that again. Word of advice -- let
- [Temporary New Location for OUTrageous Bingo](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/02/temporary-new-location-for-outrageous-bingo/): Just an FYI that the April and May editions of OUTrageous Bingo, sponsored by the Gay and Lesbian Community Center and Shepherd Wellness Center, will be held at CCAC Boyce Campus in Monroeville. This is apparently due to some planned renovations at the regular site, Goodwill Industries, on the Southside. According to my best sources,
- [My Wish List for PrideFest Entertainment 2007](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/02/my-wish-list-for-pridefest-entertainment-2007/): Pittsburgh is fortunate to have a talented pool of queer and queer-friendly performance artists, some of whom I have met over the past year. They include singer-songwriters, spoken word artists, comedians, poets, rappers, puppeteers, and so forth. PrideFest is the annual community celebration of all things queer (or gay) and includes a chunk of stage
- [More on Brent Dugan:  Clergy, KDKA meet to agree neither is homophobic](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/03/more-on-brent-dugan-clergy-kdka-meet-to-agree-neither-is-homophobic/): The City Paper covers the recent meeting of the minds of the Christian Associates of Southwestern Pennsylvania and KDKA head honchos in which they determined well, really not much of anything other than to mutually continue beating their own drums of "we did nothing wrong." That's a complete load of hooey and Brent Dugan is
- [Buh Buh Joey Porter:  Gay Bashing Steeler Cut Loose to Free Agency](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/03/buh-buh-joey-porter-gay-bashing-steeler-cut-loose-to-free-agency/): Sometimes greed can be a dyke's best friend. In this case, it means Joey Porter will take his trash-talking bigotry and hit the road for greener pastures. I don't care if he made 879 tackles last year and was Most Valuable Stud three years running or even if he did single-handedly hold back the entire
- [Ann Coulter "Implies" John Edwards is a Faggot](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/03/ann-coulter-implies-john-edwards-is-a-faggot/): Here's what she said today at the Conservative Political Action Conference. h/t 2 Political Junkies: I was going to have a few comments on the other Democratic presidential candidate John Edwards, but it turns out you have to go into rehab if you use the word ‘faggot,’ so I — so kind of an impasse,
- [The Trib - Joey Porter's slurs offensive to some](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/03/the-trib-joey-porters-slurs-offensive-to-some/): Imagine if Joey Porter mated with Ann Coulter ... they could spit out homobigot puppies left and right, well mostly just right. I just had to chime in on this. The Tribune Review printed a list of Joey's highs and lows during his Steeler tenure. I won't recant all the amazing athletic feats he accomplished
- [Pittsburgh Civil Disobedience Done Right](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/03/pittsburgh-civil-disobedience-done-right/): Anti-war protesters chained together, their arms covered by tar and plastic pipe, blocked the entrances to Carnegie Mellon University's National Robotics Engineering Center in Lawrenceville this morning. About 50 people were involved, including those chained together, those bringing them coffee and food, a makeshift band and other supporters. This is the type of civil
- [Reverend Janet Edwards Faces Second Round of Charges Over Lesbian Wedding](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/03/reverend-janet-edwards-faces-second-round-of-charges-over-lesbian-wedding/): Reverend Edwards once again faces church court charges for performing a lesbian wedding. Previous charges were dropped due to technicalities, which some suspect was a convenient way for the Presbyterian Church to sidestep the larger issues around gay and lesbian members of the faith community. A Florida minister has again filed a complaint against the
- [Reg Henry Locked in Sordid Affair with Ann Coulter's Male Alter-Ego?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/03/reg-henry-locked-in-sordid-affair-with-ann-coulters-male-alter-ego/): OK, maybe it has just been a long day in the trenches. Because I can't understand Reg Henry's latest column. In what I think is meant to be irony, he positions her "babe" status against her man qualities -- being a hateful jerk. I have a question. How is it that Ann Coulter is so
- [Catchin' Up with the Tribune Review on Homo Coverage](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/03/catchin-up-with-the-tribune-review-on-homo-coverage/): It has been a super-duper busy week for me at work and home so not much not time for blogging. Here's a few interesting snippets The Tribune-Review's columnist Matt Sober dances with the homo issue once again as he tackles Ann Coulter -- really, isn't she such an easy target after all? Anyway, Sober has
- [Shout out to Pittsburgh's Newest Gay Blog](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/03/shout-out-to-pittsburghs-newest-gay-blog/): 15 months after the launch of www.pghlesbian.com along comes www.pghgay.com, Pittsburgh's Gay Men's Blog. Mozarti, a lifelong friend of mine (since second grade), takes his homo-thoughts in a whole different direction than us lesbo correspondents. He covers everything from homophobia in the Catholic Church to homoerotic fixation with men's underwear. We need to gayify the 'burghosphere a
- [Post-Gazette and Faggots](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/03/post-gazette-and-faggots/): I missed this letter to the editor from Keith Kondrich of Swisshelm Park (the most Euro sounding neighborhood in Pittsburgh). Keith took exception with the supporters of Ann Coulter: That harmless little racial joke, that innocent sexual stereotype, that silly political epithet slowly numb us until discrimination, harassment and violence become commonplace, indeed socially acceptable.
- [Lesbians Love Bill Peduto](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/03/lesbians-love-bill-peduto/): Earlier this week, I attended a community meeting to learn what Bill Peduto has to offer us here on the Northside. I must admit I was prepared to buy when I walked in the store, but I completely fell in love with the merchandise. I liked what he had to say about taxes, the gay
- [I'm really pissed at Bill Peduto](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/03/im-really-pissed-at-bill-peduto/): Lots of speculation tonight on Bill Peduto's decision to pull out of the mayoral primary race. Pgh Comet and the Admiral are just a few speculating that Peduto has a master plan to run as an Independent, couldn't raise enough money, or really did refuse to go negative. I've talked briefly with both Political Junkies tonight.
- [Ann Coulter's Coming to Pitt ...](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/03/ann-coulters-coming-to-pitt/): Vis a vis recent email ... If you are dying to boo Ann Coulter off a stage come to this...Pitt's College Republican group is bring Ann Coulter to speak at Pitt on April 1st at 7pm in David Lawrence 120 & 121. "The event is free, but tickets are now required. They will be available
- [Penn State's Rene Portland Resigns](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/03/penn-states-rene-portland-resigns/): Here's a tidbit of good gay-tidings! STATE COLLEGE, Pa. -- Penn State women's basketball coach Rene Portland resigned today, ending a 27-year tenure in which she won 606 games but battled allegations that she discriminated against lesbian players. Portland resigned last night, the university said in a statement this morning. Hurrah! Hurrah! More later ....
- [Dyke Poets and Fag Hags - this week's City Paper](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/03/dyke-poets-and-fag-hags-this-weeks-city-paper/): Our favorite editor over at the CP sticks his toes into the muck that is Ann Coulter's latest brouhaha. As we mentioned earlier, the Pitt College Republicans have invited Annie to town for a talk on April 1, 2007. While none of the College Republicans responded to his Potter's request for an interview, he does
- [Talked to Peduto's Campaign and I'm Even More Pissed Off Now](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/03/talked-to-pedutos-campaign-and-im-even-more-pissed-off-now/): A few days ago, I received a letter from Mr. Peduto thanking me for attending a house meeting in my neighborhood. This is how he signed off: "Together we can move Pittsburgh forward. Together we can win. I look forward to working closely alongside you to help build a New Pittsburgh." Today I received the
- [Suzie McConnnell-Serio to replace Rene Portland?  And what does JoePa think?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/03/suzie-mcconnnell-serio-to-replace-rene-portland-and-what-does-joepa-think/): The PG's Bob Smizik takes Penn State to task for allowing Portland to ride roughshod over university standards, policies and common decency. It's not like the Harris incident was the first against Portland. She had a long and documented history on the subject. As far back as 1986, Portland was quoted making an anti-lesbian statement.
- [Reason #17  I Need a U-Haul](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/03/reason-17-i-need-a-u-haul/): "Maybe the city's in a position to look for some security and let things settle down a bit," said Mr. Onorato. "We don't have elections to distract us." h/t 2 Political Junkies
- [Big Lesbian Shout Out to All the Friends of Dana Edwards, She of the White House and Southside's Chocolate Celebrations](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/03/big-lesbian-shout-out-to-all-the-friends-of-dana-edwards-she-of-the-white-house-and-southsides-chocolate-celebrations/): Timing, as they say, is everything. Just Saturday night, my lover and I took a stroll through the Southside to our favorite Cambodian restaurant and passed by a local confectionary called Chocolate Celebrations and the Milkshake Factory. You may recall a certain Post-Gazette article fawning over two certain members of this family owned business, siblings
- [Where Oh Where Have the Lesbians Gone?  Where Or Where Could They Be?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/04/where-oh-where-have-the-lesbians-gone-where-or-where-could-they-be/): Fear not! I was on vacation last week, but spent my time cleaning out my empty house and preparing for the arrival of Pittsburgh's newest lesbian, B. I inhaled enough dust, cleaning fluid and spider webs to bring down the mightiest of women, but persevered in the knowledge that I could spend this week going
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- [Amadeus "Deputy Dog" Mugs For the Camera](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/04/amadeus-deputy-dog-mugs-for-the-camera/): He's my 120 lb baby. And he was the runt of the litter ...
- [Dennis Miller Listeners -- Smart AND Sassy?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/04/dennis-miller-listeners-smart-and-sassy/): My favorite headline of recent days ... Dennis Miller leads a pack of hosts pining for a fan base that's young, smart, sassy and male Not sure how many yinzers want to be chalked up as sassy males, but you never know. I've been wrong about these things before. Has anyone listened to the Zone?
- [PrideFest 2007 Entertainment Lineup Announced](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/04/pridefest-2007-entertainment-lineup-announced/): Well, I got one out of seven right. LOL. Sarah Claire will be part of the 2007 PrideFest Entertainment lineup. Another local fav that I forgot to put in my list is Tracy Drach. Here's the rest of the lineup and it looks rather interesting ... a little reggae/ska, a little folk music and a
- [Pittsburgh Participation in Day of Silence](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/04/pittsburgh-participation-in-day-of-silence/): April 18 is the 11th Annual Day of Silence. The Day of Silence is an annual event held to bring attention to anti-LGBT bullying, harassment and discrimination in schools. Students and teachers nationwide will observe the day in silence to echo the silence that LGBT and ally students face everyday. In it's 11th year, the
- [Who is lesbian comedian Poppy Champlin?  PghLesbian will have the scoop ...](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/04/who-is-lesbian-comedian-poppy-champlin-pghlesbian-will-have-the-scoop/): I emailed Poppy to ask for an interview and she agreed. Also, we plan to sit down soon with Lance Friedman, co-chair for Steel City Stonewall Democrats and discuss all the changes since founding board member Scott Safier has moved on to other things (and out of state). Should be an interesting chat in both
- [Two Innocent Men and a Gay Basher:  60 Minutes Lifts Up the Poor Persecuted White Men](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/04/two-innocent-men-and-a-gay-basher-60-minutes-lifts-up-the-poor-persecuted-white-men/): Tonight, Lesley Stahl "sat down" with the three former Duke University lacrosse players who were not charged with the rape of a woman who had been hired as an exotic dancer by their team. Surely, you've heard of it. Two of the three men came across as having learned some painful lessons from the year
- [Sobering news for gays in Iraq](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/04/sobering-news-for-gays-in-iraq/): Courtesty of Pam's House Blend: "In the past three months, more than 30 gays have been executed in Baghdad. The bodies have been found tortured, mutilated - sometimes with signs of rape," said Mustafa Salim, spokesman for the Rainbow for Life Organisation (RLO), a Baghdad-based gay rights NGO. "Notes were found near some of the
- [Buffy Sing-A-Long This Friday -- How Very Gay!](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/04/buffy-sing-a-long-this-friday-how-very-gay/)
- [Bill Peduto and I are just friends](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/04/bill-peduto-and-i-are-just-friends/): I promised myself I wouldn't ramble on tonight, partly because what I have to say probably isn't original and partly because Thom Hartmann's latest book is beckoning to me from my night stand. Was that just a name drop? Because I totally meant it to be. Ever since I read "What Would Jefferson Do?" and had
- [Reason #117 I Need a U-Haul](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/04/reason-117-i-need-a-u-haul/): In today's PG, Rich Lord takes a peek at the politics behind street paving. It don't look good for many of self-enamored local favorites like Darlene Harris and her merry band of self-defined pavement analysts. But here's the doozy. "I would argue that it's not political. I haven't seen the paving list yet," said Mayor
- [Blog Thoughts](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/04/blog-thoughts/): First, someone from U-Haul's corporate headquarters came to my site because I said I need a U-Haul to escape Luke Ravenstahl. That's just really funny. I've noticed that the Carnegie Library does an occasional blog search for themselves, but U-Haul? How many times could someone mention it in a blog? Seriously. Second, the burgh report has
- [Pgh Native Comes Home To Chat About Gay Marriage](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/04/pgh-native-comes-home-to-chat-about-gay-marriage/): A not to be missed gay event ...read what the PG has to say about it. The Women’s Law Project and Persad Center present An Evening with Evan Wolfson, author of Why Marriage Matters: America, Equality, and Gay People’s Right to Marry WOMEN’ S RIGHTS SEMINAR SERIES Sponsored by Thursday, April 19, 2007 6:30
- [Penn Dot Chemicalizes NorthSide Neighborhood](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/04/penn-dot-chemicalizes-northside-neighborhood/): Ah spring ... the birds chirping, the children playing and the smell of toxic weed killer wafting from the PennDot owned properties behind our house in Manchester ... This is their idea of property maintenance. I waged a year long battle to get them to cut the weeds and clean up the trash. They
- [Allegheny County Dems Invite the Gays Over For a Chat](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/04/allegheny-county-dems-invite-the-gays-over-for-a-chat/): Just received this announcement about an upcoming event sponsored by the Allegheny County Democratic Committee. Hmmm ... here's my initial reaction. First, while well intentioned, I think focusing on "issues of concern" puts a bit of a negative spin on the dialogue. We aren't necessarily going to show up to whine. Perhaps just GLBT Issues
- [A Little Gay Round Up Makes Everyone Happy](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/04/a-little-gay-round-up-makes-everyone-happy/): New York Governor Elliot Spitzer plans to introduce legislation to legalize same sex marriage in New York. What can we say other than -- yeah! Here in Pittsburgh, Beverly Heights Presbyterian Church voted themselves off the island of mainstream Presbyterianity and into the conservative boat known as the Evangelical Presbyterian Church. But its not about
- [Pittsburgh Gay Fest 2007:  Pride in the Street](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/04/pittsburgh-gay-fest-2007-pride-in-the-street/)
- [Gay Quote of the Day ...](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/04/gay-quote-of-the-day/): "The world is a much happier place when you figure out if you are the pin or the cushion." Berta, Two and a Half Men
- [Butchin' Up Jesus](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/04/butchin-up-jesus/): Courtesy of Pam's House Blend, this is hysterical: I'm picturing a petition-carrying Jesus figurine to cover the former and Our Savior fitting a ball gag on a sailor to take care of the latter. I suppose a shout out to the Illinois Family Institute's Peter LaBarbera would also be useful, maybe a leather-and-nipple-chain-clad Jesus going
- [Funny Man](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/04/funny-man/): New York based comedian Victor Varnado is hysterical. Check out this Village Voice article to see for yourselves. He occasionally rolls into town courtesy of local comedian Gab Bonesso. ****************************************************** Disclosure and update: Ledcat told me I wasn't being completely honest about this post. We saw Victor a few weeks ago when he came to
- [Luke to distance himself from rich old white guys?  Not likely](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/04/luke-to-distance-himself-from-rich-old-white-guys-not-likely/): Does this mean Luke and Yarone have to take down the "No Gurls Allowed" signs from their wing of the City-County Building? Pittsburgh Mayor Luke Ravenstahl, speaking to the crowd, said he had not made many female appointments since taking office, citing two additions, but pledged to "diversifying" city government wherever possible. "I want you
- [PG Reader:  Loud and Proud Homophobe](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/04/pg-reader-loud-and-proud-homophobe/): This morning the PG published a letter from Mark Santucci of Ross who objects to the bias of the PG on gay marriage. The Post-Gazette needs to be more balanced in its story selections. The vast majority of people in Pennsylvania feel that marriage is only between one man and one woman. Traditional marriage, as understood
- [Gay news from across the land ...](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/04/gay-news-from-across-the-land/): The absurd ...a father is suing an Arkansas library because his sons "stumbled across" the Whole Lesbian Sex Book which disturbed them greatly. I believe the quote is that they had two sleepless nights at his house. Hmm ... The ridiculous ...Rudy Guiliani does a big and very public flipflop on civil unions. In case
- [Gay Endorsement Party -- TODAy 3-6 PM](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/04/gay-endorsement-party-today-3-6-pm/): From the Steel-City Stonewall Democrats ... Questionnaires detailing candidate positions on GLBT issues from: Dan Onorato, Rick Swartz, Mike Dawida, Michael Lamb, Tony Pekora, Doug Shields, Willis Berry, C. Darnell Jones II, Seamus McCaffery, Debra Todd, Christine Donohue, Ann E. Lazarus, James Murray Lynn, Cathleen Bubash, Arnie Klien, Mike McCarthy, Jack McVay, Wrenna Watson, Bruce Kraus, Len Bodack, Patrick
- [The Gay Chat:  Here's How It Went](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/05/the-gay-chat-heres-how-it-went/): This is really long, but read to the end for the outcomes. First, here are the Steel-City endorsements and here are those of the Gertrude Stein Club. Tonight Ledcat and I scurried home to let the dogs out and head over to Shadyside for an historic meeting -- the first ever LGBT forum sponsored by
- [Before Bill, there was Rick ...](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/05/before-bill-there-was-rick/): I found this while cleaning out some boxes. Ok, while moving some boxes around the attic to make it look like I had cleaned them out. Maria convinced me to post it thinking you might get a kick out of it. That was senior year of college ... November 1991. The inscription reads ..."To a
- [Another Pgh Presbyterian Church Votes Itself Off the Island Over Gay Ordination](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/05/another-pgh-presbyterian-church-votes-itself-off-the-island-over-gay-ordination/): From Weds' PG "This is a congregation that has been dealing with these issues for years, long before I ever came on the scene," Rev. Weaver said. "This congregation is concerned about the shift of the denomination away from biblical standards." He believes that reports endorsed at last year's General Assembly weakened the church's commitment
- [The Big Gay Chat from the Party's Point of View](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/05/the-big-gay-chat-from-the-partys-point-of-view/): I spent 90 minutes detailing what I deemed an historic event for Pittsburgh's LGBT community and the local Democratic Party. The party detailed it thusly (h/t Progress Pittsburgh): GLBT: A good crowd representing the GLBT community in the area met with a dozen candidates and discussed issues of concern within the community, raising health care
- [The Trib decries hate-crime legislation](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/05/the-trib-decries-hate-crime-legislation/): You aren't that surprised are you? The Trib's editorial board clicked their heels and jumped into line with the right wingnuts clamoring about the House of Representative's extension of federal hate crime protections to the LGBT community. It passed 237 to 180 while a companion bill works its way through the Senate. W, of course,
- [Would you rather be stranded on a blog with Chris Potter or Eric Heyl?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/05/would-you-rather-be-stranded-on-a-blog-with-chris-potter-or-eric-heyl/): Sigh. PittGirl. She gets all the cool guys. Eric Heyl reads her blog AND sends her email. And uses queering as a verb. I was all sad and sighy for a few moments. No one from the Trib reads this blog and I make relentless references to them. Sigh. However, not all is lost for
- [Queer This and That:  McCain, Coming Out and Did American Soldiers Condone Torturing a Gay Iraqi man](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/05/queer-this-and-that-mccain-coming-out-and-did-american-soldiers-condone-torturing-a-gay-iraqi-man/): Just some random Saturday morning LGBTQ stuff ... Pam's House Blend contributor Ken from Mississippi has a nice little piece on the activism of coming out. As I've said many times here at the little coffeehouse, the most radical, powerful bit of activism that we can do as LGBT citizens is to come out of
- [The Lesbian BlogRoll](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/05/the-lesbian-blogroll/): We made a few modifications to the blogrolls ... Pittsburgh's Gay Male Blog - a fun sometimes serious frolic through Pittsburgh's gay male world. lots of gay male pictures interspersed with great commentary on the Catholic church. Transburgh - excellent resource for Pittsburgh's trans community. my friend is the author and working on a related podcast.
- [AFA of PA:  Boycott Philadelphia!](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/05/afa-of-pa-boycott-philadelphia/): This made me laugh. And cry. Our favorite Pennsylvania-flavored fundie, Diane Gramley of the American Family Association of Pennsylvania, has issued a call for all good Christian families to boycott the City of Brotherly Love for being too gay friendly. It seems that Philly has ratcheted up the drive to attract gay tourist dollars by unveiling several
- [Cat Specter Needs a Feminist Primer](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/05/cat-specter-needs-a-feminist-primer/): Beyond feminism, she may need to brush up on grammar. Today's faux pas features an inquiry about sexually objectifying mothers by "Proud Feminist." Here's where I want to know why a Proud Feminist would address this question to Cat's Call. Specter makes Ruth Ann Dailey look like a raging feminist what with her obsessive focus on
- [Beaver County Paper:  Hate is a Thought not an Act](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/05/beaver-county-paper-hate-is-a-thought-not-an-act/): The Beaver County Times has taken a stand on the expansion of the federal hate crime laws to include sexual orientation and gender identity as motivations for attacks. In their estimation, hate crimes laws punish thoughts not deeds. Please understand that we in no way condone the vitriol that spews out of the mouths of
- [Cat and George Specter:  Connecting the Post-Gazette with City Hall?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/05/cat-and-george-specter-connecting-the-post-gazette-with-city-hall/): According to the comments section of the The Burgh Report, Post-Gazette advice columnist is the daughter of Acting City Solicitor George Specter. The commenter wonders if there is a connection between that relationship and the PG's coverage of the Solicitor. I wonder the opposite. Did it have something to do with Cat Specter landing a
- [Has Johnny Mac Been Petarded?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/05/has-johnny-mac-been-petarded/): I had a hard day and only just now realized that it has been 48 hours without fresh content. So here's what I've come up with ... from John McIntire's column in the City Paper: Should I really be afraid? When Dina McGreevy started making the talk-show rounds to promote her new book -- in
- [Philly LGBTQ Community Calls for Investigation Into Suspicious Death of a Transgender Woman](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/05/philly-lgbtq-community-calls-for-investigation-into-suspicious-death-of-a-transgender-woman/): From Young Philly Politics CALL OUT FOR SUPPORT TO DEMAND JUSTICE FOR ERICA KEEL THIS FRIDAY, MAY 11TH, 4pm, at 12O1 LOCUST STOPEN PLANNING MEETING On March 22nd of this year, Erica Keel, a 20-yr-old African American trans woman, was fatally run over at Broad and Thompson streets in North Philadelphia. According to witness accounts,
- [Agent Ska Shares: Queer Choirs Perform this Weekend](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/05/agent-ska-shares-queer-choirs-perform-this-weekend/): Be sure to check this aht ... On May 11th and 12th, the Renaissance City Men and Women's Choirs will perform their spring concert at the Hazlett Theater downtown. The repertoire includes tributes to famous Pittsburghers, including Stephen Foster, Mimi Lerner, Andy Warhol, Lilian Russel, Erroll Garner, Thomas Mellon, and others. For more information on
- [The Dawn of a New Gay:  Pittsburgh's Gay Democrats Rise Up](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/05/the-dawn-of-a-new-gay-pittsburghs-gay-democrats-rise-up/): Saturday night, Ledcat and I sat down to talk with Lance Friedman, co-chair of the Steel City Stonewall Democrats which is the local chapter of the national gay democratic network. Friedman has been co-leading the group since January 2007 after the unexpected departure of Steel-City's controversial co-chair Scott Safier. Since then Friedman and co-chair Tara Reynolds have
- [Arnet, Dowd and Kraus - Three Folks Gays Must Vote For](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/05/arnet-dowd-and-kraus-three-folks-gays-must-vote-for/): NOTE: The first edition of this post switched the district races around. I apologize for the ridiculous mistake and can only claim that the lack of coffee made me do it. It goes to show that people ARE paying attention. ***************************************************************** None received the ACDC endorsement so I didn't get to sing their praises in
- [Tuesday is the Day](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/05/tuesday-is-the-day/)
- [Jerry Falwell RIP](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/05/jerry-falwell-rip/): One of the most bitter foes of the American gay community has died and I only feel sadness for him and his family. I'm sad because his legacy is permanently scarred by his unrelenting hatred and intolerance for people who are gay, feminist, foreign born, of color and otherwise different from his vision of a godly
- [Pittsburgh Primarily Votes for First Openly Gay City Councilman](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/05/pittsburgh-primarily-votes-for-first-openly-gay-city-councilman/): With Bruce Kraus' victory in the Democratic primary, today is an historic moment for Pittsburgh and all of Western Pennsylvania. Kraus is the first openly gay person to be headed for the hallowed halls of the City Council of Pittsburgh. In fact, he is the first openly gay elected official in Western Pennsylvania. Well, he will
- [Bill Peduto on the "coming of age" of Pittsburgh democrats](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/05/bill-peduto-on-the-coming-of-age-of-pittsburgh-democrats/): I chatted with my friend Councilman Bill Peduto about the election outcome and congratulating him. The Burghosphere has been bursting with analysis of the Peduto impact -- the Pedutocrats. Here's what Bill had to say about it all (I refer to him as Bill on account of us being friends n'at.): "Thanks, Sue - but it wasn't
- [Gaylettres to the Editor and other gay stuff](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/05/gaylettres-to-the-editor-and-other-gay-stuff/): You mean other stuff happened yesterday? Here's a smattering ... Scott Weber of Shaler wrote to the Post-Gazette urging people to recognize the value of gay parenting. In describing his country's new civil partnership law, British Prime Minister Tony Blair spoke about what he called "the civilizing effect" the policy has had on society far
- [Bush, Pope, and Ahmadinejad included on homophobic Hall of Shame](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/05/bush-pope-and-ahmadinejad-included-on-homophobic-hall-of-shame/): h/t Pam's House Blend Today is International Day Against Homophobia. LGBT groups in more than 50 countries will participate in the initiative, which was launched in 2005 to mark the day in 1990 when the World Health Organization removed homosexuality from its list of disorders. I work for a mental health provider that just extended
- [Lesbian On the Air with McIntire](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/05/lesbian-on-the-air-with-mcintire/): I think that today I'll be on the John McIntire show around 1:20 to talk about the Bruce Kraus victory. Be sure to listen 93.7 The Zone. Call in with scintillating questions.
- [Kennywood Unfurls Homophobic Gay Pirate Show](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/05/kennywood-unfurls-homophobic-gay-pirate-show/): An email message has been circulating the Internet for the past 24 hours, claiming that the newest entertainment at Kennywood has homophobic content and asking the community complain about it. I've been unsuccessful in contacting the individual, an employee of the Pittsburgh AIDS Task Force, but have received several copies of the message from credible
- [The Trib on Pittsburgh Lesbian Scene - Huh?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/05/the-trib-on-pittsburgh-lesbian-scene-huh/): OK, this just strikes me as weird. The Tribune-Review sent a reporter to OUTrageous Bingo to do a story on the lack of a lesbian scene in Pittsburgh. "Lesbian scene" should always be read as "no lesbians bars," but we'll get to that in a moment. OUTrageous Bingo is a mixed event - gay men,
- [Sunday Round Up' - Politics, Nudie Lesbians and the Loss of A Community Icon](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/05/sunday-round-up-politics-nudie-lesbians-and-the-loss-of-a-community-icon/): The Post-Gazette reports that local gay business owner and community advocate, Jay Bernard, has passed away. Jay and his business partner Bill Stanhope owned Jay Design in Lawrenceville. Jay was the founder of the Boys of Lawrenceville "a benevolent organization of gay men" and the author of a monthly column about pet adoption. I've heard
- [Kennywood De-Gays Pirate Show, Pleads For Homos to Stop Calling](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/05/kennywood-de-gays-pirate-show-pleads-for-homos-to-stop-calling/): Queers 1, Kennywood 0. As we reported last week, Kennywood, the bastion of local family fun, was producing a pirate themed show that featured homophobic content ... lispy voice, gay kissing panic, you know the drill. In response to a complaint, Kennywood General Manager Jerome Gibis said he didn't find the content offensive and wasn't going
- [Official Lesbian Pet Delegate, Miss Mona, Begins Treatment for Cancer](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/05/official-lesbian-pet-delegate-miss-mona-begins-treatment-for-cancer/): Tis a day of mixed emotions here at Lesbian Central. Our dear Miss Mona, age 11, has been diagnosed with early stage lymphoma. She begins chemotherapy tomorrow morning. She has to go once every 3 weeks for 5 treatments. Poor Miss Mona has lost some weight and a bit of her sassy energy, but otherwise
- [PG Reader - Jesus Isn't Running a Buffet!](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/05/pg-reader-jesus-isnt-running-a-buffet/): Matt Huffmyer of Westview has had it with pick and choose Christians who toss out all the good Old Testament stuff b/c Jesus didn't talk about it. Stuff like homosexuality and porn. Jesus said that He came to fulfill the law and the prophets. They clearly state that any type of sexuality outside of the
- [MacLesbians](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/05/maclesbians/): Two big McIntire lesbian items of note ... First, I'll be around 2:20 this afternoon to chat about Mary Cheney and Heather Poe's baby son. Second, I got a nice shout out as a "sometimes political" blogger who confirmed Bruce Kraus' gayness. If you want to know who else is gay, but not open about it
- [PG Reader: Don't Impose Christo Morality Code on Others](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/05/pg-reader-dont-impose-christo-morality-code-on-others/): I love letters to the editor, almost as much as I enjoy the comics. I truly admire folks who take the time to pen a letter, even when I do not admire their perspective or beliefs. From the perspective of a lesbian blogger, it is valuable for intolerant people to put their prejudice, bigotry and
- [John Edwards Answers "Gay Issues" Questionnaire from the HRC](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/05/john-edwards-answers-gay-issues-questionnaire-from-the-hrc/): Courtesy of Pam's House Blend I think these answers are consistent with what we've heard so far from John Edwards, along with an clear statement that he supports the repeal of DOMA, which is what stands in the way of marriage equality on paper. Every single candidate who is in favor of civil unions cannot
- [Gay man with local roots named associate helm of Three Rivers Arts Festival](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/05/gay-man-with-local-roots-named-associate-helm-of-three-rivers-arts-festival/): From today's Post-Gazette, I learned that the Three Rivers Arts Festival has recruited a talented young gay man as the associated director. His name is Chris Taylor, he's from Penn Hills and he describes himself as "single and looking for a domestic partner." Love that. Taylor recently earned an M.A. in administration and policy from
- [Miss Mona holds her own and other stuff of note from Lesbian Central](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/05/miss-mona-holds-her-own-and-other-stuff-of-note-from-lesbian-central/): It has been a roller coaster around Lesbian Central. Overall, things are good, but Ledcat and I are exhausted (and it is only Monday). As you may recall, Miss Mona began her chemo treatments last week. She has done remarkably well with only a few minor side effects making an appearance. Today, she stood in
- [Pgh on Hate Crimes](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/05/pgh-on-hate-crimes/): I completely missed this. The Post-Gazette ran an editorial on May 21 opposing extending federal hate crimes legislation to include sexual orientation and gender identity. At the end of the day, we are troubled by making distinctions that implicitly give a greater importance to one crime over a similar one simply because of the motivation
- [Purse Totin' Tinky Winky Gay - Again?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/05/purse-totin-tinky-winky-gay-again/): Oh those wacky Polish children's rights watchers .... always a day behind and a dollar short. Remeber back in 1999 when Jerry Falwell deemed Teletubbie Tinky Winky a homo because he carried a purse (TW is the purple one)? Now Ewa Sowinski is on the same bandwagon. Well, she way until apparently someone reminder her
- [Scenes from Moscows Crackdown on Gay Pride:  Pay Attention Pittsburgh](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/05/scenes-from-moscows-crackdown-on-gay-pride-pay-attention-pittsburgh/): P align=center>
- [Hello, Is this the Allegheny County Democratic Committee?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/05/hello-is-this-the-allegheny-county-democratic-committee/): Where oh where have my little reps gone, oh where oh where can they be? During a recent heated discussion on the Run, Baby, Run listserv, I realized that I am not sure who my Allegheny County Democratic Committee representatives are. I moved to this here neck of the woods (Manchester) in 2005 and have
- [City Paper On The Pittsburgh Primary](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/05/city-paper-on-the-pittsburgh-primary/): I'm getting ready for my journey to NYC, so I'm going to throw out a few first impressions of the City Paper's cover story ananlyzing the election outcomes, the potential for the three new City Councilpeople-elect, and, of course, where blogs fit into it all. * Interesting that Patrick Dowd and Bruce Kraus were interviewed
- [Weekend at BJ's (Wedding) - the proof is in the love, not the orientation](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/06/weekend-at-bjs-wedding-the-proof-is-in-the-love-not-the-orientation/): I'm blogging from a Holiday Inn on Long Island where I've been ensconsed for the wedding of my college roommate, BJ, and her now-husband Ron. I flew into JFK and discovered that one of my bags went missing, thankfully not the one with my wedding attire. I was not in the wedding party, but showing
- [Mini ACDC Update](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/06/mini-acdc-update/): Ledcat informs that the ACDC has returned my telephone call and left the names of my comitteefolks on our voice mail. One is the lady I identified in my earlier post. I'll learn the other person's identity tomorrow when I get back to da 'burgh. I am going to call them back and find out
- [PA Wingnuts Want to Oust Gay Chairman of Pennsylvania Human Relations Commission](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/06/pa-wingnuts-want-to-oust-gay-chairman-of-pennsylvania-human-relations-commission/): Today is June 4, which marks the end of Stephen Glassman's five year term as chair of the Pennsylvania Human Relations Commission. Governor Ed Rendell is expected to nominate Glassman for another term. Diane Gramley and her bastion of bigots are hopping mad about this and have churned out the hate literature fast enough to make
- [The Birth of the Pgh Women's Blogging Society](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/06/the-birth-of-the-pgh-womens-blogging-society/): A secret agent, a lesbian and a political junkie walked into a cyber-coffeehouse. A few keystrokes later, the Pittsburgh Women's Blogging Society was born. The Society is open to all women bloggers in the Pittsburgh region. To participate, you must have a virtual footprint be it a blog, email-list or dynamic website. Your gender identity
- [State Rep Chelsa Wagner's Office Steps Up](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/06/state-rep-chelsa-wagners-office-steps-up/): Sometimes, people do pay attention. I just now received a call from a legislative staffer with State Representative Chelsa Wagner's office. My post to the Run, Baby, Run email list about Democratic Committee reps caught his eye, particularly the part where I stated that Pgh City Councilwoman Tonya Payne is the only elected official I've
- [Ellwood City Man Calls a Bigot, a Bigot](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/06/ellwood-city-man-calls-a-bigot-a-bigot/): Vince Avedon of Ellwood City knows bigotry when he reads about it. So he took a moment to call out President Bush's intent to veto the extension of hate crimes legislation to include homosexuals. President Bush said he will veto any bill that would include gays and lesbians in this existing hate crime law. His
- [Another ACDC Update](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/06/another-acdc-update/): For those following the saga of my contact with the Allegheny County Democratic Committee ... I spoke directly with Tiffany at the ACDC yesterday morning. She clarified the names and contact information for my committefolks. I asked her what their duties are and explained that I've never had any political contact with them (no contact at
- [Do lesbians make Mama Ravenstahl cry?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/06/do-lesbians-make-mama-ravenstahl-cry/): The boy who would be Mayor President is making us feel guilty for upsetting his mama. According to the Post-Gazette's front page propaganda, er, article, the Mayor laughs in the face of those who would mock him. His sainted mother, however, weeps as we merrily make up awful crap about her son. Ha! Then there are
- [City Paper Reader Ire Over Kennywood DeGaying Pirate Show](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/06/city-paper-reader-ire-over-kennywood-degaying-pirate-show/): Woe to she who gets on the bad side of Janice Milliner of Buena Vista. Janice got herself all worked up in response to news that Kennywood had changed homophobic content in their pirate show, thanks in large part to the efforts of one Mary Hawk. You may recall that Mary viewed the Kennywood show
- [Pittsburgh's Slant on Kids of Gay Parents](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/06/pittsburghs-slant-on-kids-of-gay-parents/): I am really, really tired tonight so I will definitely not give this justice. However, I've already had two inquiries asking me if I'm going to post about the Post-Gazette article on gay parenting. So here is my post. Click here for the article and wonderful sidebars. A few points of interest ... * The existing
- [Peduto and POG](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/06/peduto-and-pog/): Caught a story in the PG this morning stating the Peduto won't retract his accusations that the Pittsburgh Organizing Group (POG) is responsible for vandalizing several Shadyside businesses. Peduto claims they fit the profile, given recent acts of vandalism at a military recruiting station and Carnegie Mellon University. The most recent acts were tied to
- [Where are Pittsburgh bloggers on the fire in Larimer?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/06/where-are-pittsburgh-bloggers-on-the-fire-in-larimer/): Luke Ravenstahl acted like a fool and lied to the public. Sad, but predictable. Hundreds of words have piled up around the Burghosphere calling him to task for his shameless disregard for truth (and his job). Meanwhile, five children in Larimer were killed in a horrible house fire. Someone blamed a non-existent teenage babysitter. Now it
- [Going to Pittsburgh and We're Gonna Get (re)Married ... Homos, too!](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/06/going-to-pittsburgh-and-were-gonna-get-remarried-homos-too/): The Post-Gazette reports that as part of our city's 250th anniversary, we'll be host to the "World's Largest Wedding Vow Renewal" in February, 2008. Organizers hope to attract 1,000 wedded couples to renew their vows. Why? Two of the themes of the 250th celebration are attracting reunions and homecomings to the city and underscoring family
- [PA House Introduces LGBT Non-Discrimination Bill](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/06/pa-house-introduces-lgbt-non-discrimination-bill/): Courtesy of the Value All Families Coalition and Equality Advocates Pennsylvania... (Harrisburg, PA) –Legislation prohibiting discrimination on the bases of sexual orientation and gender identity or expression in housing, employment, and public accommodations was introduced in the Pennsylvania House of Representatives today. A press conference was held in the capitol to announce the bill’s introduction.
- [We're headed for PrideFest this weekend (and FLUX, too)](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/06/were-headed-for-pridefest-this-weekend-and-flux-too/): PrideFest. Our annual celebration of our community pride. Saturday, June 16, 2007. Riverfront Park on the North Shore. The march kicks off at 12 PM. The festival itself begins at 1 PM. We like to watch the march at the beginning (5th and Ross) and then hop in the car to drive down to the North
- [Chris Potter on the Year in Homosexuality](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/06/chris-potter-on-the-year-in-homosexuality/): This week, the man who is slowly creeping up the list of men the lesbians love (McIntire, Peduto, Dayvoe, Lamb and Norman) takes us down the rainbow brick road and shows us that things just might be a little better. Chris Potter of The City Paper writes ... Pittsburgh will have a lot to celebrate
- [Guess what Luke Ravenstahl said at PrideFest?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/06/guess-what-luke-ravenstahl-said-at-pridefest/): Quick post about 2007 PrideFest. Luke showed up. Point for him. Then during his speech, he said something to the effect that as a 27 year old mayor he, like gay people, understands what it is like not to be accepted. No exact quote because I almost choked and dropped my pen. I asked around and
- [Has Pittsburgh's PrideFest become just another Strawberry Festival?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/06/has-pittsburghs-pridefest-become-just-another-strawberry-festival/): Three years ago, the Post-Gazette's Ervin Dyer wrote a half page story on the growth of PrideFest. Two years ago, Caitlin Clearly wrote a short, vapid piece about gay flash. Last year, Anita Srikameswaran wrote a thoughtful story about Governor Rendell's participation in PrideFest and the issue of gay marriage. This year? PrideFest merits a
- [Reversal of Course on MySpace ...](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/06/reversal-of-course-on-myspace/): OK, I have caved and set up a myspace profile. I know, I know ... it was almost a year ago that I blogged about it being strictly for young people and "creepy" for those of us over 30. I believe I wrote this: And then there is this "friends" thing. Apparently, you connect your
- [Today, I had my first mammogam](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/06/today-i-had-my-first-mammogam/): I am 36 years old and this morning, I had my first mammogram. I am one and one half years late in doing this. I needed to get a baseline at age 35 because of the history of cancer in my family. I procrastinated because it didn't seem urgent to me and because of how
- [MySpace update](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/06/myspace-update/): Well, it has been three days since I posted about MySpace and I've collected 14 friends and two comments. Being true to my word, I rejected the one person who I have never met. I'm not sure why she wanted to be my friend, but she handled the rejection very well. I also rejected someone
- [PG Reader Liked the Gay Photo](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/06/pg-reader-liked-the-gay-photo/): This past week, this photo appeared in the Post-Gazette commemorating the vote to keep same-sex marriage legal in Massachusetts. It is not available online, but Mozarti at PghGay.com found it (h/t). From well-known member of the LGBTQ community Barry Ralph comes this letter to the editor: As a gay senior citizen, I never thought
- [City Paper on PrideFest or not](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/06/city-paper-on-pridefest-or-not/): The CP sent Jared Trent Stonesifer to cover Pride. In this article, he discussed the evening block party (Pride in the Streets), the Awareness March, the Pride Theatrer Festival and the Warhol exhibit on queer black life in the 30's and 40's. Notice anything missing? Yep, he forgot to cover the actual festival (PrideFest). The
- [Random Cool Friday Night Stuff](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/06/random-cool-friday-night-stuff/): Ledcat has been traveling this week, so tonight I'm frantically doing all the chores I promised would be completed for her return tomorrow. So I've got my brand new copy of "Pride & Prejudice" (BBC version of course) playing the DVD player while I dust and sweep and sort the accumulation of stuff that does
- [A Treasure Trove of Family History](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/06/a-treasure-trove-of-family-history/): Today, I carted some boxes from my Grandma's to Lesbian Central so I can scan the photos and organize the lot of materials. She's fine, but I want to try and get her to identify some of the people in the snapshots before it is too late. Ledcat and I spent the afternoon cleaning our
- [Gay Stuff To Read About](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/06/gay-stuff-to-read-about/): The Newark city school district redacted this photo from the high school yearbook after labeling it "illicit" even though the book featured multiple heterosexual kissing couples. So the district blacked it out. After a brouhaha erupted, the school district offered to provide an "unredacted" version to anyone who wanted it. Huh. Elizabeth Edwards supports gay
- [Touching Base on International Gay Issues](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/06/touching-base-on-international-gay-issues/): I haven't been feeling especially bloggy lately, which usually means I scour the Internet for interesting gay tidbits that don't require a lot of commentary. This is today's version ... Russian Christians have attempted to purge the Moscow River in the wake of a gay cruise that sailed those very waters. [O]ne of the action's
- [Lesbians Dirtier Than Political Junkies, Comets, and Carbolic Smoke Balls -- Rivaled only by MacYapper](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/06/lesbians-dirtier-than-political-junkies-comets-and-carbolic-smoke-balls-rivaled-only-by-macyapper/): Gay is a bad word. This I discovered after Maria pointed out that her blog was rated R for adult content. So I just had to see where the lesbians ranked. And guess what? This rating was determined based on the presence of the following words: gay (24x) lesbian (12x) queer (2x) bomb (1x)
- [Correspondent Covers City Council Hearing.](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/06/correspondent-covers-city-council-hearing/): I was busy today at the City Council hearing on the promotions of three police officers with domestic violence histories (or allegations). I live blogged for the Pittsburgh Women's Blogging Society. You can start here and scroll back through nine posts. While local LGBT activist Billy Hileman showed up to testify, I was somewhat stunned
- [Speaking of the police ...](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/06/speaking-of-the-police/): Here's something sad and pathetic about the abuse of police pwer ... An officer who ordered two women to put on a "sex show" in a jail cell will be fired. Norberto Cappas, 32, was found guilty by a police tribunal of conduct unbecoming an officer and lying during a departmental investigation and will lose
- [Non-Live Blogging: Luke really knows how to throw a party](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/07/non-live-blogging-luke-really-knows-how-to-throw-a-party/): This afternoon, I thought it might be interesting to live blog an event that the Mayor actually attends. Something critical and groundbreaking, perhaps even newsworthy. Like, say perhaps, a "garden" party to celebrate his single-handed reclamation of a porn palace for the good citizens of Pittsburgh. So off we toddled to West Park
- [Santorum spokesfag goes to work for Fred Thompson](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/07/santorum-spokesfag-goes-to-work-for-fred-thompson/): Guess whose back in all his self-loathing glory? Yes, that's right ... Santorum's very own spokesfag, Robert Traynham. After licking his wounds with some of the soothing corporate money vis a vis his PR consulting work, Traynham has hitched his wagon to the potential Thompson campaign as a senior advisor. Now it seems he's changed course
- [Let Freedom Ring, Let the White Dove Sing ...](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/07/let-freedom-ring-let-the-white-dove-sing/): Roll that stone away ... let the guilty pay ... it's Independence Day ....
- [Ravenstahl to Battered Women:  Let us play golf!](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/07/ravenstahl-to-battered-women-let-us-play-golf/): While over one hundred city residents packed Council Chambers to discuss issues of domestic violence and the police, Luke went golfing. Jeremy Boren at the Trib has the story: Pittsburgh Mayor Luke Ravenstahl played at a celebrity golf tournament rather than face more than 100 women angered by the promotions of three police officers linked
- [Dyke March - Pittsburgh Style](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/07/dyke-march-pittsburgh-style/): It is the most dykeable time of the year! Pittsburgh's 2nd Annual Dyke March Saturday, July 21, 2007 5 PM Mingling time -- make a poster, make a friend 6 PM MARCH AFTER MARCH -- byob (bring your own basket) picnic location TBA All dyke-identified women are welcome to attend. Male and female allies
- [Class Reunion](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/07/class-reunion/): Yesterday, it finally arrived. It being a very preliminary announcement of my 20th class reunion in the summer of 2008. I have been out of high school nearly 20 years. Wow. To be honest, my recollection of high school is somewhat hazy. Sometimes I'll think of a person from my past and not remember if
- [Priory Fine Pastries: Cupcakes = Good, Lack of Napkins = Not so good](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/07/priory-fine-pastries-cupcakes-good-lack-of-napkins-not-so-good/): Ok, this is really bugging me so I have to post to get off my chest. As a Northsider, I am a frequent flier at the best little bakeshop over here, Priory Fine Pastries on East Ohio Street. I stop in to pick up bread, muffins for weekends breakfasts and the occasional pie/cake for a
- [Riveting Rosies Rock](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/07/riveting-rosies-rock/): UPDATE: See You Tube link at the end ... ****************************************************** Here's one suggestion for a perfect summer evening: spend a few balmy hours out on the patio of a local coffeehouse in the company of friends (and your lover) while you listen to some of Pittsburgh's talented chica singer-songwriters, collectively known as the Riveting Rosies.
- [Video of the Week:  Dance With Me](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/07/video-of-the-week-dance-with-me/): This is one of my favorite songs. I am a total cheesy 1970's song addict, which is funny because I grew up with an irrational fear of 1970's cheesy clothing. Terrified. But this song rocks. Well, it actually is more of a groove than a rock,but you see where I am going with this. I am
- [Me and McIntire talk about the Dyke March this afternoon](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/07/me-and-mcintire-talk-about-the-dyke-march-this-afternoon/): Yo yo yo ... maclesbians. OK, that worked so much better in my head. :-) Never one to let Jim and Randy beat him on a salacious topic, John has asked me to do a segment on the upcoming 2nd Annual Dyke March today at 2:25 on 93.7, The Zone. They may have broken the
- [Pittsburgh's Pet Limit Law -- Why hasn't anyone brought this up?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/07/pittsburghs-pet-limit-law-why-hasnt-anyone-brought-this-up/): Ahem. From the Pittsburgh Municipal Code: § 633.12 NUMBER OF PETS PERMITTED IN CITY LIMITS; EXCEPTIONS. No person or residence shall be permitted to own, harbor or maintain more than five (5) dogs or cats or any combination thereof within City limits. This section shall not affect any person or residence whose number of dogs,
- [Catching up on a few random LGBT things](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/07/catching-up-on-a-few-random-lgbt-things/): My favorite Christian-flavored homobigot, Diane Gramley of the PA American Family Association, had a little missive published last week in the North section of the Post-Gazette. This time she rallies to the defense of the poor Boy Scouts being persecuted for their own homobigotry. I'd post a quote but it is really rather a rambly
- [Video Monday:  Taste Some Queer Music](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/07/video-monday-taste-some-queer-music/): Saturday night, I picked up the music issue of Curve. Most of the featured artists were completely new to me, even Ledcat only knew a handful. So off to You Tube ... Check these two aht ... Toshi Reagon isn't new to the music scene (Ledcat even had actual cassette tapes!). Here's something really groovy.
- [Lesbians love Harry Potter (no spoilers)](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/07/lesbians-love-harry-potter-no-spoilers/): So I learned something new about my friend Sarah last week. She's a Harry Potter fanatic. She came over to help me pick up my 75 lb dog crates -- each btw -- from the Federal Express office on Neville Island. Because she has a truck. And she's very cool and helpful n'at. So after unloading
- [Pgh Lesbian Variety Show Faces Accusations of Discrimination and Bias](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/07/pgh-lesbian-variety-show-faces-accusations-of-discrimination-and-bias/): For several years, Celebrate the Night has honored National Coming Out Day with a women's variety show featuring a slew of talented local, amateur performers. Each year, the call goes out across the community to women of talent -- singers, jugglers, musicians, poets, dancers, comedians and so forth. The unifying element is that performers are
- [Brighton Heights The Vault Rocks a Saturday Afternoon](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/07/brighton-heights-the-vault-rocks-a-saturday-afternoon/): I had a perfect glass of iced tea this weekend. Ledcat and I toodled up California Avenue to Brighton Heights in order to pick up a very generous donation the Vault had made to support a fair housing project. Being generous in return (and hungry), we stopped for a snack. Laura had a bottled raspberry
- [More on Celebrate the Night and Alleged Discrimination](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/07/more-on-celebrate-the-night-and-alleged-discrimination/): As we reported, a local woman is claiming that the Celebrate the Night committee unfairly refused to audition her for their variety show because of inaccurate information that she worked as an escort. Today, the CTN organizing committee issued the following statement: Celebrate The Night is an event that was created to give women a
- [Pittsburgh Black Pride - This Weekend](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/07/pittsburgh-black-pride-this-weekend/)
- [Photo Exhibit Focuses on Queer Black Life in Pgh](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/07/photo-exhibit-focuses-on-queer-black-life-in-pgh/): Not a very exciting headline, I admit. I'm a little tired this morning, but I've been meaning to blog about this exhibit for a few days so I need to get down to it. Teenie Harris. You may have heard of him -- photographer, documentarian of life in the Hill District for nearly 30 years
- [Video Monday:  Sinead Lohan](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/07/video-monday-sinead-lohan/): This is Sinead Lohan. I first heard her at Lilith Fair in 1999. She was on a small stage and I stopped for a few moments. I have absolutely no idea what happened for the next 7-9 minutes. She played "No Mermaid" and "Whatever It Takes." I just stood there transfixed. Then I bought her
- [Friday Night Lesbian Stuff](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/08/friday-night-lesbian-stuff/): "Mr. Bingley is coming back to Netherfield and the whole town is talking of it!" Tis Friday evening and I'm home alone while Ledcat is rocking out at Mr. Small's tonight. I'm allegedly doing some work, but let's be honest ... I'm just lounging. I popped in the final 1/3 of Pride and Prejudice --
- [CPRB and Free Speech?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/08/cprb-and-free-speech/): Beth Pittinger, Executive Director of the Citizen Police Review Board and longtime friend to local activists, seems to have changed her tune of late. Usually on the frontline defending members of the Pittsburgh Organizing Group and other local activists from police-driven infringements on their right to assemble, Pittinger's sensibilities have been offended by local animal
- [A Lesbian Weekend in Pgh: Edgar Snyder, Yuppies and Decapitated Jesus](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/08/a-lesbian-weekend-in-pgh-edgar-snyder-yuppies-and-decapitated-jesus/): UPDATE: Upon the advice of my counsel, I have deleted references to minors that may or may not be affiliated with Mr. Edgar Snyder as well as comments about the parenting skills of adults that may or may not be the parents of said minors. My apologies for assuming that the behavior of children (older
- [Monday Video:  A hammer and a nail](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/08/monday-video-a-hammer-and-a-nail/): I caught a few bars of this song while rushing around in the morning ... if i have a care in the world, i have a gift to bring ....
- [Friday Night ~~ The Sexiest Adult Sex Positive Toy Party and Dance!](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/08/friday-night-the-sexiest-adult-sex-positive-toy-party-and-dance/): Girl's Night In rocks. We hosted a sex toy party for queer women at the GLCC back in 2005. It was standing room only and big kinds of fun. This seems waaaayyyy more fun. Click on the image to get more details. We don't have plans for Friday evening so this is definitely at
- [City Council Meeting on Police Domestic Violence](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/08/city-council-meeting-on-police-domestic-violence/): The City Council Post Agenda mtg. on Police officers/domestic violence will be on: Monday, Sept. 10 at 1 p.m. It will be televised. In 2003 a Police Chief in Tacoma, WA, who'd been abusing his wife for years, murdered her & killed himself. This caused the Seattle Post-Intelligencer to run an excellent series of articles
- [The Groundbreaking LGBTQ Presidential Forum on LOGO](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/08/the-groundbreaking-lgbtq-presidential-forum-on-logo/): I didn't see it. We don't have cable here at Lesbian Central, so we miss out on all sorts of things like The L Word, Queer as Folk and, well, the entire lineupon LOGO. I've never seen The Sopranos or pretty much any of its peers. (Don't cry for us -- we trade a cable
- [Storms, Films, Saphhic Delinquency and A Shout Out to Erie!](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/08/storms-films-saphhic-delinquency-and-a-shout-out-to-erie/): Well, we didn't make it to the sex toy party. And what's up with the comments about marriage in relation to that? Who needs marriage to enjoy a good dildo? Hmmm ...We ate Chinese food and grabbed some ice cream at Klavons in the Strip. I was still a little rattled by my experience of
- [A Lesbian Weekend](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/08/a-lesbian-weekend/): I have been stricken with that most awful of beasts .. the summer cold. I've literally been in bed for most of the past 48 hours with a giant pack of tissues, a brown paper sack (thanks Office Max newspaper insert) and an unending supply of Gatorade. Today, I decided to pull myself up the
- [Pgh Lesbian Variety Show Issues Statement Regarding Trans-Discrimination](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/08/pgh-lesbian-variety-show-issues-statement-regarding-trans-discrimination/): I should preface by saying the CTN has repeatedly ignored my requests for comment. I received this through a local queer events email list. As we reported two weeks ago, a local woman, Jessi Seams, alleges that Celebrate the Night, a lesbian variety show in honor of National Coming Out Day, discriminated against her by
- [Pittsburgh Organizing Group Fasts Against War and Military Recruitment](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/08/pittsburgh-organizing-group-fasts-against-war-and-military-recruitment/): The Pittsburgh Organizing Group (POG) recently announced plans to launch a month-long fast in September at the front door of the Oakland military recruiting station. The goal of this fast and camp-out is simple: To contribute to the movement working for the immediate withdrawal of all US troops from Iraq, and an end to military
- [Tomorrow at the Warhol - A Chat About Transphobia and Homophobia](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/08/tomorrow-at-the-warhol-a-chat-about-transphobia-and-homophobia/): UPDATE: Dr. Emilia Lombardi is NOT participating in this event. Carryin’ On Conversation – Homophobia & Transphobia: Being Black and Gay in Pittsburgh Date: Aug. 17, 2007 Cost: Free Time: 7:00 pm - 10:00 pm 7 p.m. – Conversation moderated by Derek Tines with special guests, Chastity Cheetam, Emilio Lombardi and others. 8
- [Thursday Flashback - Just Because](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/08/thursday-flashback-just-because/): When I was in high school and college, I loved this show. When I grew up and learned that Patty Duke was playing two roles while living with undiagnosed bipolar disorder, I loved the show even more. I think I had a secret desire to go back to the "good old days" and actually
- [92.9 Lite FM - Not Cool on Gay Bash](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/08/92-9-lite-fm-not-cool-on-gay-bash/): Why I was listening to Gary & Beth on 92.9 Lite FM this morning, I can't tell you. But Mona was in the backseat so I was just too occupied to change the station. They were taking calls about "must have" back to school crap. I heard all about shoes, backpacks, binders, etc. Then this
- [New Lutheran Bishop won't rock the boat on gay issues](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/08/new-lutheran-bishop-wont-rock-the-boat-on-gay-issues/): I have to admit I'm not at my best so this will be very short (I have bronchitis). There's a new Lutheran Bishop in town.. And he is neither friend nor foe to the homosexual community, so he says. Bishop-elect Kurt Kusserow of the Southwestern Pennsylvania Synod of the Evangelical Lutheran Church in America plans
- [Pgh Lesbian & Gay Film Society Shows "Tick Tock Lullaby"](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/08/pgh-lesbian-gay-film-society-shows-tick-tock-lullaby/): Got plans on September 7? You might want to catch the latest film from the Pgh Lesbian & Gay Film Society -- Tick Tock Lullaby -- at the Southside Works. Here's the blurb ....Pittsburgh Lesbian and Gay Film Society is pleased to present Tick Tock Lullaby on Sept 7th at the SouthSide Works Theater. Show
- [Animal Friends, Bark in the Park and Protestors?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/08/animal-friends-bark-in-the-park-and-protestors/): Hey. This morning, Ledcat and I rolled out of bed early to head up to North Park to celebrate Bark in the Park with Animal Friends. Mona was ecstatic about it, but the boys stayed home. When we arrived, we saw that the police had detained two individuals and word in the park was that
- [Have you heard about that dude in Idaho?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/08/have-you-heard-about-that-dude-in-idaho/): So, there's this Senator from Idaho. Maybe you've heard about him? I've had a ton of email messages asking me when I'll blog about it. I did a segment on McIntire yesterday. And I've spoken at length with all the important homos in my life about the whole situation. Here's my quick summary: First, hypocrite
- [Is homosexuality less offensive than satanism?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/08/is-homosexuality-less-offensive-than-satanism/): Thank you, Harry Potter! You and your satanistic ways have surpassed "homosexual content" as a challenge to library books across the nation. According to the American Library Association, the Harry Potter series is at the top of the list (2000-2005) of books targeted to be removed from libraries. Recognize any of the others? 1. Harry
- [Idaho Senator to Resign; GOP Pats Itself On Back for Saving Family Values ... Again](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/09/idaho-senator-to-resign-gop-pats-itself-on-back-for-saving-family-values-again/): Well, surprise! Larry Craig is supposed to announce his resignation this morning, according to the AP. The GOP is scrambling like mad b/c this puts a safe seat up for grabs. Well, technically they'll get a GOP appointee in to finish Craig's term and then the seat is up in the air in 2008. So
- [Outdoor movies, swimming pools & where the hell is Flagstaff Hilll?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/09/outdoor-movies-swimming-pools-where-the-hell-is-flagstaff-hilll/): Yesterday was a productive day here at Lesbian Central. We both had the day off and got started early with a quick blog, a bagel and a several errands. Stopped by Construction Junction to donate a microwave (poked around, but came up empty handed)and then had lunch at The Quiet Storm. I have to admit
- [Goodreads ...](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/09/goodreads/): I can't rave enough about this social networking site for booklovers. I added a little widget thingy to this blog so you can keep up with what I"m reading. I'm not ashamed to say it is not all literary -- I read a lot of mystery novels. Check it out!
- [Breaking News -- Jerry Lewis uses "fag" on the air during live telethon ...](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/09/breaking-news-jerry-lewis-uses-fag-on-the-air-during-live-telethon/): h/t Ms. Monongahela I did not see this myself, primarily because I would rather gouge my eyes out with a stick than sit through 78 hours of Jerry Lewis. Instead, I went shopping. It seems I missed quite a moment today. Jerry Lewis refers to someone in the audience as "Jesse, an illiterate fag" while
- [Stuff I wonder about ...](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/09/stuff-i-wonder-about/): Just some random questions I have ... 1. Why can't you recycle caps from plastic bottles? No one from the recycling world has been able to answer this question. 2. Do thongs/shoes with a little thing between the big and second toe hurt all women's feet? While at the Waterfront this afternoon, I noticed that
- ["Take your tolerance and shove it." -- wingnuts shower the love on Jerry Lewis](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/09/take-your-tolerance-and-shove-it-wingnuts-shower-the-love-on-jerry-lewis/): Good grief! I've been blogging for about 20 months during which I've tackled everything from Rick Santorum's former spokesfag to annoying Republican ice cream twins. I've mocked the homophobic Ravenstahl administration. I've targeted Joey Porter, the Archbishop of Nigeria, the City Paper, Edgar Snyder, a lesbian variety show, Pride in the Streets and most major
- [Mike Rogers - Outing Hypocrites One Blog Post at a Time](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/09/mike-rogers-outing-hypocrites-one-blog-post-at-a-time/): I like Mike Rogers, the author of BlogActive.com. Rogers uses his powers for good, outing hypocritical legislators who hide in their pathetic closets while publicly voting against gay rights. From a profile in the Washington Post: For three years now, he's been a feared one-man machine, "outing," he says, nearly three dozen senior political and
- [Gay sex havens, ginormous strollers and Larry Craig](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/09/gay-sex-havens-ginormous-strollers-and-larry-craig/): Bradley S. Gelder of Point Breeze is not a fan of police officers staking out public restrooms noted as gay sex havens. Even more disturbing and surprising than the continuing homophobic right-wing hypocrisy exemplified by the Sen. Larry Craig story ("Idaho Senator Stepping Aside," Sept. 2) is that police departments continue to waste their time
- [Dessert, Bingo, and the Zoo -- A Gay Bonanza in Pittsburgh (plus other stuff)](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/09/dessert-bingo-and-the-zoo-a-gay-bonanza-in-pittsburgh-plus-other-stuff/): First, some upcoming queer things to do in Pittsburgh ... OUTrageous Bingo is this Saturday, September 15 at Goodwill's building on the Southside. This is a good time and benefits two local causes -- the GLCC and Shepherd Wellness Center. "Dining for Diversity" also takes place Saturday evening from 9 - 11:30 @ SPACE downtown.
- [End War Fast and Arrest](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/09/end-war-fast-and-arrest/): As expected, the CP covers the ongoing End War Fast targeting the military recruitment center in Oakland. As you can imagine, the police are being less than cooperative and, apparently the protestors are depriving Oaklanders of greasy fast food, photocopies and overpriced bandaids. Darn them! Imagine the exercise of civil rights getting in the way of commerce
- [Condi Rice Shares House and Line of Credit a/another Woman -- Does it matter?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/09/condi-rice-shares-house-and-line-of-credit-aanother-woman-does-it-matter/): Yesterday, I received 8 kajillion email messages informing me that public documents reveal that Secretary of State Rice has been co-owner of a house with documentary maker, Randy Bean (Rice and Bean -- imagine the hay McIntire will make with that one?). Does this mean she's a lesbian? Maybe, maybe not -- but it does
- [Gay Straight Alliances have positive impact on schools; Pittsburgh 92.9 not so much ...](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/09/gay-straight-alliances-have-positive-impact-on-schools-pittsburgh-92-9-not-so-much/): A GLSEN study on the impact of student Gay Straight Alliances found that schools are generally less tolerant of homophobia, while LGBTQ students are less likely to hear gay slurs, more likely to perform well academically and feel safer in the classroom. Wow, a supportive environment makes a difference for the well-being and academic progress
- [City Paper's Best Of Pittsburgh -- Vote for a Blog!](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/09/city-papers-best-of-pittsburgh-vote-for-a-blog/): Check it aht ... the annual Best of Pittsburgh survey and YOU can participate with a few clicks. Vote for your favorite Asian restaurant (Cambodican Kitchen), best newest restaurant (Muriel's), record shop (Paul's CD's) even your favorite blog. :-) You get to write in a category. I wrote in Best Exercise of Civil Liberties and
- [I'm dressing my dog up as a pea and I don't care what you think](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/09/im-dressing-my-dog-up-as-a-pea-and-i-dont-care-what-you-think/): Last night, I was shivering as I trudged alongside Ledcat back to our car. We had spent a fun evening rabble rousing and cavorting with the GLENDA folks' "Dining for Diversity" event. We attended a dinner party in Highland Park with great food and a lovely opportunity to catch up with some friends. Then we
- [How I made recycling just a little bit easier](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/09/how-i-made-recycling-just-a-little-bit-easier/): Again, nothing to do with the gay. Still, I think it is interesting. I'm bringing in the PA Resources Council to give a presentation to my consumers and during our planning chats, I told them that I had several recycling questions which I was invited to submit. More on that in another post somewhere down
- [End War Fast Brokers Deal with City; Potter Chimes In](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/09/end-war-fast-brokers-deal-with-city-potter-chimes-in/): Some satisfactory news on the civil liberties front here in Pittsburgh - the City Police have reached an accord with the Pittsburgh Organizing Group and individuals participating in the "End War Fast" protest outside of the Oakland military recruiting bastion. These groups had previously filed a lawsuit against the City claiming police officers were violating their
- [Gay and single in Pittsburgh?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/09/gay-and-single-in-pittsburgh/): Forbes ranked Pittsburgh low on the list of places good for a singles scene. I read this little article, including the sidebar profiles and thought "whine, whine, whine." On a bright note, they even included a token homo in their list. What really gets me about all this whining is the sense of entitlement -- the
- [The Awakening](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/09/the-awakening/): Tuesday, September 25, 2007
- [Deconstructing Jessi - Why Pgh's Lesbian Community Owes One Woman an Apology](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/09/deconstructing-jessi-why-pghs-lesbian-community-owes-one-woman-an-apology/): For the past 24 hours, I've mulled over the best approach to this post updating you about the discrimination experienced by Jessi Seams, a local transwoman, when she attempted to audition for a women's variety show. This week, the City Paper's feature article is thoughtful exploration of this specific incident in the context of larger debates over
- [2 Town Hall Meetings on Legislation to Limit Discrimination](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/09/2-town-hall-meetings-on-legislation-to-limit-discrimination/): Both will be October 4. First, at 12 noon, State Rep Dan Frankel is hosting a town hall meeting to discuss PA House Bill 1400. State Rep. Dan Frankel, D-Allegheny, will host a landmark public hearing Oct. 4 in Pittsburgh on his bill (H.B. 1400) that would protect people who live or work in Pennsylvania
- [LGBTQ Round Up -- ENDA, rude Republicans,and  Catholic Charities](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/10/lgbtq-round-up-enda-rude-republicansand-catholic-charities/): A few things you might find interesting ... The vote to mark up the ENDA has been postponed due to mounting pressure from LGBTQ groups to reinstate protections based on gender identity. "The step taken today by the committee to delay action on the substitute bill is a clear demonstration of the strength of grassroots organizing
- [Won't You Please Help Dan Frankel Protect the LGBT Community?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/10/wont-you-please-help-dan-frankel-protect-the-lgbt-community/): An open letter from one very cool chick with the Women's Law Project ... please use the email link or pick up your phone to speak up on this issue. Especially those of you who live outside of the City of Pittsburgh. Note: this legislation includes sexual orientation, gender identity and gender expression. I would
- [Debate over trans inclusion is creating fissures at the national level, too.](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/10/debate-over-trans-inclusion-is-creating-fissures-at-the-national-level-too/): You may have been keeping up, via blog or email, with the ongoing debate around the local lesbian community's acceptance and inclusion of transwomen. It has been contentious and brought to light some long-standing fissures around gender identity that fall loosely along generation lines -- almost a second wave v third wave debate, but not
- [I am 27 going on 17, I know that I'm naive ...](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/10/i-am-27-going-on-17-i-know-that-im-naive/): Ah, I remember 27 (it was only nine years ago) and it sure as hell didn't look like this: But at the end of the day, I'm still going to continue to be who I'm going to be, and go to concerts like I always have, and go to have a drink with my wife
- [Do we earn the privilege of being gay?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/10/do-we-earn-the-privilege-of-being-gay/): From today's Post-Gazette, a letter written by Kurt Colborn of Swisshelm Park: I have to agree with Sen. Larry Craig's claim that he is not gay. People have forgotten that "gay" is a term of liberation. Being gay means having the maturity to accept yourself as you are. It also means having the courage to
- [What do Potter, Lynn Cullen and Cambodican Kitchen have in common?  That would be me ....](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/10/what-do-potter-lynn-cullen-and-cambodican-kitchen-have-in-common-that-would-be-me/): Hey. I'm in the City Paper this week. I wrote them a brief letter to the editor about their story on a local transwoman. They printed it. On another note, the non-discrimination dinner at Cambodican Kitchen was good fun. I met a few new ladies and learned a lot of new stuff about some old
- [Most people like gays sayeth the polls; Duquesne University flips off Planned Parenthood](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/10/most-people-like-gays-sayeth-the-polls-duquesne-university-flips-off-planned-parenthood/): Here's some good news from the Post-Gazette's wonderful L.A. Johnson < is L.A.a man or woman? does it matter other than for my pronoun selection?> A majority of U.S. citizens support equal treatment for gay people, a recent Harris Interactive poll reports. About 56 percent of straight Americans 18 and older believe people should be
- [AFA of PA spinning hate on H.B. 1400 -- what are you doing?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/10/afa-of-pa-spinning-hate-on-h-b-1400-what-are-you-doing/): Give it up for Diane Gramley, prez and proponent of the American Family Association of Pennsylvania. She works hard to get her message of hate and intolerance out into the Pennsylvania heartland , be it letter to the editor or press release. She's everywhere the homos should be. Are you? Gramley sent out this snarky
- [Man threatens to shank dog and people think the police are the problem?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/10/man-threatens-to-shank-dog-and-people-think-the-police-are-the-problem/): I love Pittsburgh. Only here could a jackass like Kenneth King get sympathy for threatening to "shank" a dog. King, a resident of the Mexican War Streets, walked past a canine unit at the Cedar Avenue Sunoco. The K-9 dog, Benny, barked at him. From inside the car. Mr. King responded to the bark. The man screamed
- [WDUQ = Editorial Independence?  Are you kidding me?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/10/wduq-editorial-independence-are-you-kidding-me/): Does anyone seriously believe that Duquesne University has an iota of credibility with regard to the editorial independence of WDUQ? Seriously, now? Anyone? Scott Hanley thinks reporting on their own capitulation to the big D somehow indicates independence. Duquesne University should do what's in the best interest of the public and surrender the license for
- [Nice to see Ellen DeGeneres spreading the hate and intolerance ...](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/10/nice-to-see-ellen-degeneres-spreading-the-hate-and-intolerance/): Oh my lord ... I cannot believe that Ellen DeGeneres has gone from one of the coolest lesbians around to a whiny, spoiled celebrity brat who pouts on national television because she can't get her way. DeGeneres and her partner adopted a dog from a rescue. The dog didn't get along with their cats so DeGeneres
- [Round Up ...kids, politics, films and ...lesbians](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/10/round-up-kids-politics-films-and-lesbians/): The Post-Gazette has a nice story on the impact of Gay Straight Alliances (GSA's) on local youth. My favorite quote: "Prejudice begins at home, but I truly believe people can be educated." The City Paper's Melissa Meinzer explores what H.B. 1400 could mean for Pennsylvanians. This legislation expands discrimination protections to sexual orientation, gender identity and
- [Morrissey, puppies and unicorn wishes for my birthday](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/10/morrissey-puppies-and-unicorn-wishes-for-my-birthday/): I love The Smiths. Monday, I'm 37. Yikes!
- [Cat Specter, Cindy Sheehan and the Itty Bitty Titty Committee](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/10/cat-specter-cindy-sheehan-and-the-itty-bitty-titty-committee/): It looks like I'll be viewing the "Itty Bitty Titty Committee" after all, assuming all goes well next Sunday. So I should actually thank the woman who wrote her somewhat critical missive about lesbians supporting the Pittsburgh International Lesbian & Gay Film Festival. She got me off my duff and, well, onto my duff in
- [Barney Frank is coming to town](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/10/barney-frank-is-coming-to-town/): Dear Friends,Steel-City Stonewall Democrats and Congressman Mike Doyle would like to invite you to a Special Event with Representative Barney Frank of the 4th Congressional District of Massachusetts.This is a casual meet and greet event with the Founder of the Stonewall Democrats, Rep. Barney Frank.Please join us at the home of Christine Donohue* on Saturday,
- [I love The Big Bang Theory](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/10/i-love-the-big-bang-theory/): I love the weirdest shows. My newest fav is CBS's "The Big Bang Theory" starring that cute little dude from Roseanne (another fabu show). It is a classic setup -- two nerdy guys and the hottie definitely unnerdy chic living next door. I expected little, but was mightily surprised at how freakin' awesome is the
- [Live blogging from Beleza:  Tutu, Obama and Norman](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/10/live-blogging-from-beleza-tutu-obama-and-norman/): So tonight Ledcat and I rolled through the Northside to a favorite watering hole, Cafe Beleza. Kim got us all fixed up with hot chocolate (me) and mango lemon frou frou tea (Ledcat). It has been packed. Ledcat talked over music with staff .... they both went to the Grizzly Bear concert. I have to
- [LGBT Film Festival Closes With a Bang](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/10/lgbt-film-festival-closes-with-a-bang/): One of the coolest things about the Pgh LGBT Film Festival is the experience of being in a crowded room of queer people and only knowing a fraction of them. There may be no previews to watch, but you can munch on your popcorn and try to figure out how many of the folks streaming
- [Queer Youth of Color Event at Chatham](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/10/queer-youth-of-color-event-at-chatham/): This came via email. Tuesday, October 30 at Chatham, 7 PM. For more info: Phone: 412-365-1100 E-mail: mbattle@chatham.edu or klesnock@chatham.edu
- [Trick or Treat!](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/10/trick-or-treat/): Courtesy of Father T ....
- [John McIntire is celebrating my mother's birthday!  You should, too!](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/10/john-mcintire-is-celebrating-my-mothers-birthday-you-should-too/): My mom turns 65 on November 1 and what better way to celebrate than with John McIntire and Gab Bonesso! From Gab Bonesso's MySpace page: This Thursday night (11-01-07) at the WORLD FAMOUS Pittsburgh Improv (well, the Improv franchise is "World Famous" not the Pittsburgh division per se) at 8PM The Sunshine Boys and Gab
- [Happy Birthday, Mum!](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/11/happy-birthday-mum/)
- [DeSantis says Yes to Civil Unions, Ravenstahl says No](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/11/desantis-says-yes-to-civil-unions-ravenstahl-says-no/): I missed the debate last night, but have had multiple folks email me this morning with this very importantpoint. When questioned about inclusiveness of the LGBTQ community in the City, the mayoral candidates were asked to specifically state their positions on "gay unions" and "gay marriage." Luke Ravenstahl stated that he does not support gay
- [This Pittsburgh Lesbian Endorses Mark DeSantis](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/11/this-pittsburgh-lesbian-endorses-mark-desantis/): I endorse Mark DeSantis for Mayor of the City of Pittsburgh.
- [Ravenstahl to meet with Pgh gays on election eve](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/11/ravenstahl-to-meet-with-pgh-gays-on-election-eve/): It would seem that Luke's people realized what a huge gaffe he made last week by saying he does not favor civil unions. Thus, he has scheduled a meeting with representatives from the Steel City Stonewall Democrats at 2:30 PM Monday. To clarify. Apparently, Luke has stated that he doesn't know what a civil union
- [Luke and the Gays - Who Got Invited to the Party?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/11/luke-and-the-gays-who-got-invited-to-the-party/): From comments Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Ravenstahl to meet with Pgh gays on election eve by steelcitydyke on Mon 05 Nov 2007 10:57 AM EST | Profile | Permanent Link First of all your worries about me on the stonewall Dems can be at rest I am not a member however have been invited
- [Endorsements You Should Know About](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/11/endorsements-you-should-know-about/): Setting aside the Mayoral race for a few inches ... consider what the Gertrude Stein Club of Pittsburgh and the Steel City Stonewall Democrats. It is a little confusing figuring out the actual slate for the General Election, but you can follow through to read the questionnaires for yourself. Last spring, the Allegheny County Democratic Committee
- [It is 7 PM and Luke is reportedly now in favor of civil unions](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/11/it-is-7-pm-and-luke-is-reportedly-now-in-favor-of-civil-unions/): Well, I am the suckiest lesbian correspondent ever. It is five hours post Luke/homo meeting and not a single one of my contacts has, well, contacted me. Meanwhile over at The Burgh Report, the Burgher has the scoop ... wait for it ... Luke now supports civil unions. Apparently, he was confused by the question.
- [Does He or Does He Not?  Gay Leaders Remain Mum on Ravenstahl and Civil Unions](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/11/does-he-or-does-he-not-gay-leaders-remain-mum-on-ravenstahl-and-civil-unions/): 10 a.m. at Lesbian Central and I'm taking a coffee break to review the blogs as we head into election day ...the Burgh Report, 2PJ's, the Comet, the Angry Drunk Bureaucrat and even our dearest Ms. Mon. What I cannot do for you, dear readers, is clarify if Mayor Ravenstahl has had a "Come to Jesus"
- [The Morning After ... Debra Todd, ENDA and](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/11/the-morning-after-debra-todd-enda-and/): I'm sure by now you've made the rounds of the usual suspects ... Comet, Burgher, Junkies, McIntire, Smoke Ball ... I could go on and on .... frankly, I didn't have the gumption to drag my ass out of bed any earlier than usual to Wednesday morning quarterback the election -- with a gay twist.
- [Ennui at Lesbian Central](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/11/ennui-at-lesbian-central/): What to blog about? I'm sort of all politicked out what with the election and ENDA. I did get a missive from the AFA of PA informing me that Christian bookstores must now hire homosexuals. Sigh. But it didn't seem worth fretting over. So here's some light stuff ... Take a poll on your favorite
- [My Holiday Shopping](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/11/my-holiday-shopping/): This year, I want the Complete First Season of Maude on DVD. Last year, I got the Complete First and Second Seasons of Family. I remember being scared of Maude as a child. She seemed kind of mean and the long flowing 70's frocks struck terror in my child heart. But she also seemed cool
- [The loss of a friend](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/11/the-loss-of-a-friend/): Yesterday, I received word that a long-time friend had passed away early in the morning. I was stunned because I hadn't realized that he was that critically ill. I was horrified because I had let so much of our contact lapse over the past few years. As the day progressed, I was anguished as an
- [HandMade Arcade:  Cool Crafts or Conspicuous Creation?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/11/handmade-arcade-cool-crafts-or-conspicuous-creation/): Ledcat and I rolled into Point Breeze today for the Handmade Arcade which is giant fair of handmade stuff held at Construction Junction. Still, only ten local vendors? That just doesn't seem balanced. Someone fill me in. If I'm going to do soap, it would be nice for it to be yinzer soap. :-) I would
- [When Lesbians Don't Weep](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/11/when-lesbians-dont-weep/): Early Saturday morning, my friend of 23 years died. He was 41 years old. I received the call Saturday and I cried all the way home from the training I was co-facilitating. Note: co-facilitators come in handy when your friends die. Out of the past four days, I've cried about three hours give or take.
- [PA Court Says Expansion of Hate Crimes Law Unconstitutional](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/11/pa-court-says-expansion-of-hate-crimes-law-unconstitutional/): Not much time to blog tonight, but you should know about this. The Commonwealth Court struck down language that expanded hate-crimes legal protections for persons based on sexual orientation and physical disability. Repent America and beloved psycho-Christian Michael Macavage took the Legislature to task for adding these protections onto an agricultural bill. Here's what Pam
- [Giant Eagle's War on Christmas?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/11/giant-eagles-war-on-christmas/): (h/t Pam's House Blend) Apparently, Giant Eagle hates Christmas and has taken active steps to stomp it into oblivion. This according to the Liberty Counsel's latest "Friend or Foe" list of retailers who adopt a secular holiday advertising approach. Liberty Counsel bills itself as a public interest First Amendment law firm. Founder Mat Staver claims that
- [Changes to the blogroll](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/11/changes-to-the-blogroll/): A few additions: Pleasantly Furious Revelations - Dr. Goddess Pittsburgh Pist-Gazette And one farewell. Pittsburgh's Gay Blog has shut down. Best wishes to Mozarti and here's hoping other members of the local LGBT community might try to fill those shoes.
- [Luke + Gay Community = Marriage Made in Pittsburgh?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/11/luke-gay-community-marriage-made-in-pittsburgh/): Pittsburgh wants to host the world's largest wedding vow renewal ceremony and the homos are invited! On February 10, 2008, 700 couples will participate in the world record setting event. Including gay couples. According to event organizers, the Guiness folks will accept any US or International marriage certificate. It costs $30 per couple to participate. Doors open at
- [The Stuffing Goes Where?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/11/the-stuffing-goes-where/): Happy Turkey Day all you lesbian lovin' folk out there ...
- [Thank a Lesbian ...](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/11/thank-a-lesbian/): 1. I'm thankful for Ledcat. Also, our menagerie. Our family who just celebrated our first co-holiday meal. 2. I'm thankful for my niece, Ava, who teaches me how to give bigger hugs and grow my heart every day. And my nephew, Ethan, who teaches me that distance doesn't determine love. 3. I'm thankful for having
- [Piittsburgh:  There is no "LGBTor Q" in Diversity!](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/11/piittsburgh-there-is-no-lgbtor-q-in-diversity/): ARTICLE V: DISCRIMINATION (b) It shall be the public policy of the City to prohibit discrimination because of race, color, religion, ancestry, national origin, place of birth, sex, sexual orientation, familial status, age, nonjob related handicap, or disability in employment; and (n) SEXUAL ORIENTATION. Male or female homosexuality, heterosexuality and bisexuality or perceived homosexuality, heterosexuality
- [Gifts and Questions for you ....](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/11/gifts-and-questions-for-you/): What should I include in a Pittsburgh themed gift basket for my brother and sister-in-law? They live in Chicago. I am about 85% finished with my holiday purchases and this is the stumper. Also, is there a word, other than sister-in-law, for the woman married to your brother-in-law? Especially when you are a lesbian and
- [OUTrageous Bingo celebrates 10th Anniversary](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/11/outrageous-bingo-celebrates-10th-anniversary/): Want something fun to do this weekend? Check aht the 10th Anniversary edition of OUTrageous Bingo at its final appearance at Goodwill Industries. Lots of surprises and promised appearances by spectacular performers. Sounds like big holiday fun.
- [This Week in Gay Prez Politics](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/11/this-week-in-gay-prez-politics/): You should keep up with this stuff. John Edwards on repealing Don't Ask, Don't Tell ...we should do it, sayeth he with no details on *how* to do it ... Mitt Romney continues to hate on the gays Several gay-themed questions have been submitted for Wednesday's Republican Debate on CNN-YouTube. Stay tuned for periodic
- [Larry Craig Doll says "I Am Not Gay"](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/11/larry-craig-doll-says-i-am-not-gay/): Ledcat really wants one of these ... Apparently, you can bend his feet into all sorts of positions ... Last year it was this ... She is once again bound for disappointment.
- [so What's Up with Sue, anyway?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/12/so-whats-up-with-sue-anyway/): i have hurt my back. it started throbbing last week. the two hour drive in the giant box truck to pick up toys didn't help, I'm sure. especially the part where i was scrunched up from stress trying to find the marine distribution center. then when i had to get all slidey with the boxes
- [Gab Bonesso Needs New Friends](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/12/gab-bonesso-needs-new-friends/): Last night, Ledcat and I tottered off to the Brillo Box to see our friend and gal-pal Gabrielle Bonesso's Christmas Comedy Special. On a school night. In a room filled with smoke. And, in spite of Ms. Gab's promises, not a single cookie in sight. That's how much we love her. Almost the entire lineup of
- [This lesbian and other stuff:  preholiday wrap up](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/12/this-lesbian-and-other-stuff-preholiday-wrap-up/): For the past six weeks, I have been coordinating our agency's holiday projects -- Toys for Tots, adopt a family, the holiday party, etc. It has been exhausting and has consumed nearly every moment of my attention. I've stood in ankle deep snow for nearly an hour waiting while Marines load a giant box truck
- [I'm the victim of identity theft](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/12/im-the-victim-of-identity-theft/): Someone has thieved my identity ... in the Carnegie Library system. I am not making this up. Last weekend, when I stopped by Woods Run to renew and pick up some fresh books, I was informed that my account had been coopted and was shut down. Fortunately, there were no ramifications for me ... no
- [Merry Christmas](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/12/merry-christmas/): I really believe that this song inspired me to become a social worker. Yes, I know that it is hokey and Eurocentric, but it is still my favorite holiday song and I get a little lump in my throat every time Bono urges me to thank god its them instead of me. Now I just
- [The Hot Metal Church:  Traditional Anti-Gay Christianity Wrapped in Punk Rock Clothing?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/2007/12/the-hot-metal-church-traditional-anti-gay-christianity-wrapped-in-punk-rock-clothing/): I caught an article in the Post-Gazette about the impending relocation of a local non-traditional faith community -- the Hot Metal Bridge Faith Community. It seems someone sold the Goodwill Building so the Hot Metal folks are in search of a worship space. The Hot Metal Community is more street than avenue. Founded by two

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- [Political Q&A 2023](https://www.pghlesbian.com/political-qa-2023/): Q&A's listed in order of publication. Publication generally reflects the order in which they were returned to us. Q&A with Rachael Heisler, Candidate for Pittsburgh City Controllee Q&A with Abigail Salisbury, Candidate for PA State House District 34 Q&A with Erica Rocchi Brusselars, Candidate for Allegheny County Treasurer Q&A with Bethany Hallam, Incumbent Candidate for
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- [Political Q&A 2019](https://www.pghlesbian.com/political-qa-2019/): Q&A’s listed in order of publication. Publication generally reflects the order in which they were returned to us. Q&A with Olivia ‘Liv’ Bennett, Candidate for Allegheny County Council District 13 Q&A with Deb Gross, Candidate for Pittsburgh City Council District 7 Q&A with Anna Batista, Candidate for Pittsburgh Public School Board District 4 Q&A with
- [Political Q&A 2018](https://www.pghlesbian.com/political-qa-2018/): Q&A’s listed in order of publication. Publication generally reflects the order in which they were returned to us. Q&A with Erika Strassburger, Candidate for Pgh City Council District 8 Q&A with Aerion Andrew Abney, Candidate for PA State House District 19 Q&A with Summer Lee, Candidate for PA State House District 34 Q&A with Amber
- [Political Q&A 2020](https://www.pghlesbian.com/political-qa-2021-2/): Q&A’s listed in order of publication. Publication generally reflects the order in which they were returned to us. Q&A with Emily Kinkead, Candidate for PA State House District 20 Q&A with Jessica Benham, Candidate for PA State House District 36 Q&A With Lissa Geiger Shulman, Candidate for PA State House 30 Q&A With Nina Ahmad,
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- [Political Q&A 2021](https://www.pghlesbian.com/political-qa-2021/): Q&A With Bill Peduto, Mayor of the City of Pittsburgh Q&A With Ed Gainey, Candidate for Mayor City of Pittsburgh Q&A With Raymond Robinson, Candidate for Magisterial District Judge 05-02-42 Q&A with Bethani Cameron, Candidate for City Council District 4 Q&A with Hilary Wheatley Taylor, Candidate for Magisterial District Judge for District 05-2-19 Q&A with
- [Political Q&A 2022](https://www.pghlesbian.com/political-qa-2022/): Q&A With NaTisha Washington, Candidate for PA House District 24 Q&A With Jerry Dickinson, Candidate for U.S. Congress PA-12 Q&A with Emily Kinkead, Candidate for PA House District 20 Q&A with John Fetterman, Candidate for US Senate Q&A with La’Tasha Mayes, Candidate for PA House District 24 Q&A with Jessica Benham, Candidate for PA House
- [Snowflake Profiles](https://www.pghlesbian.com/our-projects/steel-city-snowflakes/snowflake-profiles/): When I think about a Steel City Snowflake, a lot of folks come to mind - from high profile social justice warriors to the everyday folks in the trenches doing the important, vital work. Most of the time, that work goes unacknowledged, even unnoticed by the general population. Our working definition of a snowflake is
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- [2022 - In Memoriam](https://www.pghlesbian.com/in-memoriam/2022-in-memoriam/): 2022- In Memoriam Our list of transgender, gender, and non-binary neighbors lost to violence in 2022. Please do not copy or share this list without attribution. Amäriey Lèį (Myara) – Wilkinsburg, Pennsylvania. January 1, 2022. Age 20. Duval Princess – Jacksonville, Florida. January 2, 2022. Age 24.Naomie Skinner – Detroit, Michigan, February 12, 2022. Age 25Cypress Ramos – Lubbock,
- [#AMPLIFY](https://www.pghlesbian.com/our-projects/amplify/): If you are looking for the AMPLIFY Q&A to contribute your own story, click here to go to our online form! Every story raises the visibility of LGBTQ experiences in Western PA. AMPLIFY is a storytelling project, a community art project and a historical archive project sharing the lived experiences of LGBTQ neighbors in Western Pennsylvania
- [Our Projects](https://www.pghlesbian.com/our-projects/): Over the years, we've been part of many important projects. So many that we decided to create a link.
- [Media](https://www.pghlesbian.com/about-us/media/): Here's a list-in-progress of media coverage referencing this blog and the bloggers. February 23, 2018 - WESA 90.5 FM - The Confluence. Discussion about our status as a finalist for the GLAAD Media Awards.February 13, 2018 - Washington Post. Two visions for the future of health care are at war in PittsburghJanuary 31, 2018 - Pgh
- [2021 - In Memoriam](https://www.pghlesbian.com/in-memoriam/2021-in-memoriam/): Our list of transgender, gender, and non-binary neighbors lost to violence in 2021. Please do not copy or share this list without attribution. Tyianna Davarea Alexandra — Chicago, Illinois. January 6, 2021. Age 28.Samuel Edmund Damián Valentín — Trujillo Alto, Puerto Rico. January 9, 2021. Age 21.Dominique Jackson — Jackson, Mississippi. January 25, 2021. Age 30.Bianca ‘Muffin’
- [PiTTsburgh MasQUe ProjecT - Connecting Trans & Queer Folx with Face Masks](https://www.pghlesbian.com/lgbtq_facemasks_pgh/): Update as of December 5, 2020: Distributed 10,000+ masks. This is a joint effort of this blog, Pittsburgh Lesbian Correspondents, and TransPride Pittsburgh to connect our LGBTQIA+ neighbors with face mask resources that are free or paid but identified LGBTQ allies. If you need a face mask in Pittsburgh, you are in the right place.
- [2013 - In Memoriam](https://www.pghlesbian.com/in-memoriam/2013-in-memoriam/): My list from 2013 is partial. Cemia Acoff known as CeCe Dove was found on April 17 in Cleveland. Diamond Williams was found in July in Philadelphia. Betty Janet Skinner, 52, was murdered in her bedroom in Cleveland in December. Brittany-Nicole Kidd-Stergis, 22, was also murdered in Cleveland in December.i
- [2014 - In Memoriam](https://www.pghlesbian.com/in-memoriam/2014-in-memoriam/): Our list from 2014 June 3rd : the body of Kandy Hall was discovered in a field in northeast Baltimore in what local police believe to be a homicide. June 12th: Zoraida Reyes’s body was discovered behind a Dairy Queen in Anaheim, California. Her death has been ruled suspicious by investigators because it is believed her body was moved to
- [2015 - In Memoriam](https://www.pghlesbian.com/in-memoriam/2015-in-memoriam/): Please continue to say their names. Papi Edwards, 20, Louisville, January 9 Lamia Beard, 30, Norfolk on January 17 Ty Underwood, 24, Tyler TX on January 26 Yazmin Vash Payne, 33, LA on January 31 Taja de Jesus, 36, San Fran February 1 Penny Proud, 21, New Orleans February 10 Bri Golec, 22, Akron on February
- [2016 - In Memoriam](https://www.pghlesbian.com/in-memoriam/2016-in-memoriam/): Here is a list of the neighbors lost during 2016. Monica Loera – Austin, Texas (January 22) Jasmine Sierra – Bakersfield, California (January 22) Kayden Clarke – Mesa, Arizona (February 4) Maya Young – Philadelphia (February 20) Suspicious death of Veronica Cano – San Antonio (February 20) Demarkis Stansberry – Baton Rouge (February 27) Kedarie/Kandicee Johnson – Burlington, Iowa (March
- [2017 - In Memoriam](https://www.pghlesbian.com/in-memoriam/2017-in-memoriam/): The list of trans people killed in 2017 thus far. Note that people have different numbers based on different factors. The most important thing that unites us all is that we want the violence to stop. We need to keep asking ‘Where is the outrage?’ Mesha Caldwell – Mississippi (January 4), 41 years old Jamie Lee Wounded
- [2018 - In Memoriam](https://www.pghlesbian.com/in-memoriam/2018-in-memoriam/): This is my list of trans neighbors we have lost to violent deaths in the US this year (2018.) We know that some deaths go unreported or undisclosed for a variety of reasons, most of which are related to transphobia. I ask you to take a moment to read this list – please don’t turn
- [2019 - In Memoriam](https://www.pghlesbian.com/in-memoriam/2019-in-memoriam/): My list of transgender neighbors lost during the calendar year 2019. Dana Martin – Montgomery, Alabama. January 6, 2019. Age: 31. Ashanti Carmon – Fairmount Heights, Maryland. March 30, 2019. Age: 27 Claire Legato – Cleveland. May 14, 2019. Age: 21 Muhlaysia Booker – Dallas. May 18, 2019. Age 23. Michelle Simone Tameka Washington – Philadelphia, May 19, 2019. Age
- [2020 - In Memoriam](https://www.pghlesbian.com/in-memoriam/2020-in-memoriam/): My list of transgender, gender non-conforming, and non-binary neighbors who have lost their lives to violent deaths in the US during 2020. Please do not copy this post without attribution. Dustin Parker – McAlester, Oklahoma. January 1, 2020. Age 25. Alexa Negron Luciano – Toa Baja, Puerto Rico. February 24, 2020. Age 29. Yampi Mendez Arocho – Moca,
- [How to Support the Pittsburgh MasQUe ProjecT](https://www.pghlesbian.com/lgbtq_facemasks_pgh/how-to-support-the-pittsburgh-masque-project/): Share this webpage. We need your help. As of mid-July 2020, our project is distributing 1,100 masks per month. Many of those are donated, but we've been notified by the suppliers that their inventory will run out sooner rather than later. We began in April with 28 requests in our first day. As of mid-July,
- [NaBloPoMoPgh - 2019 Edition](https://www.pghlesbian.com/nablopomo/): Welcome to the home of a 2019 version of NaBloPoMo. We are using the hashtags #NaBloPoMo2019 and #NaBloPoMoPgh. This page will be updated to list participants as we find new folks contributing to the conversation. We will also list all of the writing prompts and other important information as we go along. To submit your
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- [AMPLIFY: Guidelines and Policies](https://www.pghlesbian.com/our-projects/amplify/amplify-guidelines-and-policies/): For general information, please visit our FAQ A project of Pittsburgh Lesbian Correspondents, this Q&A explores life in Western Pennsylvania for the LGBTQ community. We ask you to share your full name, but it will be kept confidential if you prefer. We ask allies to not participate so we can stay focused on the LGBTQ
- [#AMPLIFY What Are People Saying ?](https://www.pghlesbian.com/our-projects/amplify/amplify-what-are-people-saying/): We've had some great feedback and coverage about this project. This project has been the most proactive in the area to include several ‘invisible’ and / or marginalized folks. You have given a platform for voices not often given any consideration, and that is amazing. ~ Paula Brewer, co-founder of eBIcenter Pittsburgh A writer is
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- [LGBTQ Pgh Media Resources](https://www.pghlesbian.com/lgbtq-pgh-media-resources/): We encourage your interest in fairness and accuracy when reporting on LGBTQ issues and members of our community. This page is intended as a follow-up to the June 2017 training created by Jodi Hirsh of Sequal Consulting and Sue Kerr of SueCat Social Media. We will do our best to keep the content and links
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- [Change the Conversation: A Day of Blogging About Sexual Assault](https://www.pghlesbian.com/change-the-conversation/): April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month. Bloggers in Pittsburgh invite you to participate in a "Day of Blogging" to help change the conversation - from victim blaming to preventing rape, from "scary stranger in the dark" to the prevalence of intimate partner sexual violence, from assuming women are the only victims to a broader understanding of
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- [Take the AMPLIFY Q&A](https://www.pghlesbian.com/our-projects/amplify/take-the-amplify-qa/): Who can participate in the Q&A? Residents of the 26 counties of Western Pennsylvania who identify as part of the LGBTQQIA community. For this project, we are not interviewing allies except in special circumstances. You may participate using your first name or a pseudonym, but you must be willing to share your identity with me
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- [Podcamp Pgh 7](https://www.pghlesbian.com/special-projects/podcamp-pgh-7-fairness-and-accuracy-in-language/): In late October 2012, Pittsburgh Lesbian Correspondents brought together a panel of engaging "experts" to discuss issues related to fairness, accuracy and language in social media. Our session was part of Podcamp Pittsburgh. Aria Charles - a local fundraising and development professional, Aria serves on the Board for Best Buddies. @unocal76fan Chaz Kellen - Chaz

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